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The sex is unsatisfying, what can I do to save the relationship?

Q.   Hello again aunts =) I am having a little problem in my relationship right now. My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now and we currently live together. He is a wonderful man, but he can never seem to please me in bed. I bring it to his ...

A.   30 May 2008: This may sound a little strange but have you tried suggested spicing up your relationship, ie Ann Summers, ramdom sex in different parts of your home? Hey, what you got to lose?... (read in full...)

What does having a great emotional connection indicate?

Q.   hi everyone,if you and your girl have a great emotional connection what does that indicate?...

A.   19 October 2006: It may sound corny, but who cares. I have that kind of relationship with my boyfriend. Take one day at a time, don't rush and tell her what you want from your relationship. As the saying goes 'All good things come to those who wait'... (read in full...)

How do you know if alad likes you??

Q.   How dya no if a lad likes you?...

A.   15 October 2006: When a boy likes you they show it mainly by showing off in front of you, it's a terrorial thing. If he doesn't show off in front of you ask him how he feels about you.... (read in full...)

He says he will leave me if I don't have sex with him....I'm a virgin!!!

Q.   I am going out with this guy, he is 18 and I am 16. I really love him. A LOT. We've been going out for about three months. He wants to have sex, but I don't. I am a virgin and I am kinda scared. He says he's gonna leave me if I didn't give him what ...

A.   15 October 2006: NEVER let anyone force you into losing your viginity, only do it when your ready. If he's threatening to leave you, let him, if he REALLY loves you he should be more understanding to how you feel.... (read in full...)

Two lumps on my penis and I have no idea what they are! Any advice?

Q.   I have two lumps on my penis, but they are both very very different lumps but I have no idea what they are. One is just near the top, very hard, under the skin but it doesn't feel like it is attached inside, i've had it for about 3 years about 2 ...

A.   15 October 2006: Go and see your GP, you might feel more comfortable talking to a family member that you feel really close to. Maybe you could take them with you for moral support.... (read in full...)

What does first time sex feel like???

Q.   I am a virgin, I am wondering what first time sex feels like?...

A.   15 October 2006: It hurts at first, with some blood. Don't worry its normal, nothing to worry about. The pain only lasts about a minute. After the first time it should be enjoyable for both you and your partner. Don't let anyone force you into having sex til YOUR ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when someone blows in your ear??

Q.   okay, well i was just wondering what it means when my boyfriend blows in my ear???...

A.   15 October 2006: It might be his way of flirting with you, if you want to know how he feels about you, ask him.... (read in full...)

Sex wasn't a problem when we was having an affair with each other so why is it now???

Q.   Help.... I am at my wits end. My partner and I have been together for three years (12 mths of this time we were having an affair for the past 12 months we have been living together) The problem is he doesn't want sex. It seems there is always an ...

A.   15 October 2006: It seems to me like he was only really interested when you were in a different relationship, it's a turn on for some knowing its element of danger and getting caught.... (read in full...)

I want to do a 'strip act' for him..but am scared he'll reject me. Do I ask him first if he would like it?

Q.   Guys, I need some advice please!!!! I bought some sexy underwear, suspenders etc to try and spice up my sex life with my boyfriend. But how do I go about wearing these?!?! I cant imagine me marching into the bedroom with them on - I would feel rea...

A.   2 October 2006: Talk to him first, tell him how you feel, if he's interested light some candles, cook dinner and come on to him. If it feels right then strip for him.... (read in full...)

To Spit or Swallow? What is normal thing to do?

Q.   I need help! When people say "Spit or Swallow" when giving head, what is the normal thing to do? Isn't spitting rude, but swallowing pretty disgusting? Help!! xXxXx...

A.   2 October 2006: Just do what you feel comfortable with, every male enjoy's it when you swallow. It tastes vile(personal experence) but don't let anyone force you into doing something your not completely comfortable with.... (read in full...)

Why is my only friend acting in this way? I don't know what to do.

Q.   well, i have been best pals with someome for a long time, but recently she has changed. I phoned her the other day and asked if she was coming out and she said that she had homework and didnt want to and that she was already planning on asking s...

A.   23 September 2006: she has got to the point where she feels she is ready to date, when she comes to you again maybe you should tell her how you feel. next time cry on her shoulder and watch for her reaction to your feelings.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been using my computer to look at porn. I confronted him and made things worse, what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year and a half. im 18 and he is 21. for a while we seemed to be drifting apart, but lately its been normal. Yeasterday i found out that he has been looking at porn sites on my computer that i use for ...

A.   23 September 2006: Most of the male population are attracted to porn sights, if he's looking on these sights maybe you should to, meet him half way, ask him what he likes. Relationships are about comprimise and communication, if you want to keep him your'll have to ... (read in full...)

I had unprotected sex, how can I know if Im pregnant or not, without taking a pregnancy test or waiting for my next period ???

Q.   I had sex with my boyfriend but I am scared that I might get pregnant cause we didn't use protection. I know we were suppose to do that in the first place but it just happened unexpectedly. I'm not on an contraceptives and it was my first time. My ...

A.   21 September 2006: You can either wait for two weeks til the morning sickness sets in or go to your GP for a blood test. If you find your pregant you both need to decide what you want to do.... (read in full...)

Should I tell the guy at work how I feel ??

Q.   there's a guy in work I'm crazy about. we are friends, the thing is I think Ive fallen for him big time. I know he has a girlfriend but its killing me to see him every day and want him. I'm considering leaving my job because of this. Should I tell ...

A.   19 September 2006: Maybe you could discretely find out how he feels about you, if he doesn't feel that way about you maybe you should find a way to deal with it , get on with your life and try dating other men.... (read in full...)

Who initiated sex, me or him?

Q.   I stayed over at my bf's apartment this weekend. He woke me up in the middle of the night and started touching me sexually. I thought my boyfriend wanted something, so I started kissing him and showing I'm interested going further. (BTW, this is not ...

A.   19 September 2006: Sometimes when people are asleep they dream about sex, they have no control over their actions and no memory.... (read in full...)

I only use the pill when I see him, could I get pregnant?

Q.   okay here's my question, I really hope that someone has any advice for me. Me and my fiancee are in a long distance relationship. I was on the pill last time I saw him (mid august) but messed up on it a couple times while visiting(time change, only ...

A.   19 September 2006: Their is always a possibilty of pregnancy with every contreception, but its a risk you take. If your worried you could always ask your partner to use a condom.... (read in full...)

How do I get the ex to leave me alone ?

Q.   Hi. I dated a guy about 4 years ago, then he moved across the country and is now back. He contacted me shortly after getting in the area to get together and I told him that I was married. Then suggested that he and I get together. I said okay, ...

A.   19 September 2006: I had the same problem with mine, all I could do was show him I was over him and happy with my current partner. He eventially got the message, if that doesn't work simply tell him your never going to be his girlfriend ever again. ... (read in full...)

My husband isnt happy that im pregnant as he said it will spoil long haul holidays! Will he come around as I really want this baby!!!

Q.   I have found out I am pregnant. I am happy, just turned 39 and believed infertile. Suffer from PCOS, overweight and smoke, high blood pressure, so not alot going for me. Found out this weekend and am over the moon. But my partner of 2 years is ...

A.   19 September 2006: congrats on your pregancy, It sounds like you need to sit your partner down and have a heart to heart about what you both want from your relationship. ... (read in full...)

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