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writes: there's a guy in work I'm crazy about. we are friends, the thing is I think Ive fallen for him big time. I know he has a girlfriend but its killing me to see him every day and want him. I'm considering leaving my job because of this. Should I tell him how I feel?
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reader, Hanna  +, writes (19 September 2006):
 Maybe you could discretely find out how he feels about you, if he doesn't feel that way about you maybe you should find a way to deal with it , get on with your life and try dating other men.
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reader, blessing2006 +, writes (19 September 2006):
hi.
Office relationships are usually dicey. Most don't work.
However, if you love him so much, there's no harm in exploring the possibility of a relationship. But once a relationship starts, either of you should quit or things may get messy.
Want to quit your job for this?
Ok. But first, does he want a relationship with you?
If he doesn't feel the same about you as you feel about him, his presence may not cause much harm anymore.
How do you tell if he does?
Simply ask him . . . at the right time.
First, though, read the signs. If he has absolutely no interest in you, it will show. In which case, there's no point humiliating yourself asking him.
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (19 September 2006):
 I don't think that you should, he already has a girlfriend and it would be unfair to try and spoil his relationship. I know it is going to sound harsh but if leaving your job is the only option you have to help you forget your feelings for him then I am afraid that is the best thing you can do.
I am really sorry I cannot give better advice but trust me leave it he has a girlfriend and you would not like it if you had a man and someone went up to him and said they were crazy about him, would you? Put yourself in her shoes. Just walk away and find a man of your own there are plenty of single guys out there. Goodluck
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