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writes: Guys, I need some advice please!!!!I bought some sexy underwear, suspenders etc to try and spice up my sex life with my boyfriend. But how do I go about wearing these?!?! I cant imagine me marching into the bedroom with them on - I would feel really stupid and he often isnt up for sex as often as I am - i would die if he rejected me while dressed like that. I would love to do a strip for him but no way have the confidence to start doing that. Should I ask him first if he wants me to put them on??? Or what?? Any other ideas gratefully received!xxx
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 There are places where you can take poledancing classes, mainly for fitness, but can be used to learn 'tricks' and help you with your confidence.
I am sure when he sees you dressed up for him and sees your intentions, he won't reject you.
Probably best to do it when he is not expecting it.
IF he does reject you, and that's a big IF, then he is not worth the effort.
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reader, Hanna +, writes (2 October 2006):
 Talk to him first, tell him how you feel, if he's interested light some candles, cook dinner and come on to him. If it feels right then strip for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):
What were you trying to accomplish with this? Do you know that this is the kind of spicing up he is into?
Anyway, start with a couple of strong drinks for both of you- gin martini anyone?- relaxing bath, switch to your 'outfit' and tell him its time for his massage. That way of avoid the embarassment of performing a strip act that you may not have sufficently rehersed ;-)
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