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She's not told anyone about our relationship - can someone really value their privacy that much?
Q. Does anyone else see something odd/wrong with this ... My girlfriend (long distance) hasn't outright told her sisters/brother that she has a boyfriend. Even when I went down to visit her. At the time, she told me that she valued her privacy ....
A. 18 December 2006: Well, I just did it again today. We got into another big argument.
I told her I found it extremely disrespectful that ... every time, coincidentally, she doesn't pickup my calls or call me when she's out and about with her friends. Just like it ... (read in full...)
She's not told anyone about our relationship - can someone really value their privacy that much?
Q. Does anyone else see something odd/wrong with this ... My girlfriend (long distance) hasn't outright told her sisters/brother that she has a boyfriend. Even when I went down to visit her. At the time, she told me that she valued her privacy ....
A. 29 November 2006: Hi, thanks for your answers. Dr Pete, you do have some valid points and questions. So, here's some clarification from my side of what I know ...
I've known her for over three years. She used to live here in New York. About two years ago, ove... (read in full...)
How do you have phone sex?
Q. my boyfriend has recently gone away on business for a month but where still at the stage where we're madly in love with each other so he sugested he'd call me and we could try phone sex, im very nervous as ive never done this before and have no idea ...
A. 29 November 2006: obviously, if he's suggested the idea to you .. then he's done it before. have him guide you along and tell you what he likes to hear. i'm sure when it comes up, you'll have an idea of what to say as well. else, watch a porno and listen to what ... (read in full...)
My BF works too much and I don't feel loved!
Q. my bf and i have been together a year. recently hes not had time with me. i c him on a saturday from 2 - 5 and a monday from 2.30-4. its not alot for me. i used to have whole days on a saturday only with him (long distance relationship) and we used ...
A. 29 November 2006: you know what ... i was in a very similar situation late last year with my girlfriend.
i was too busy working and doing other things ... i wasn't thinking much of her. she felt neglected by me ... and she started being more distant ... then som... (read in full...)
How do I find out who this phone number belongs to? It was in his phone and it's driving me crazy!
Q. My husband left me a few weeks ago I thought everything was fine, we are back together now but while we were seperated the mobile phone bill came and I noticed a number so I went though his phone and found it under the name jon so I phoned it and ...
A. 29 November 2006: Don't think I read anyone suggesting this ...
When he's asleep .. take his cell phone and dial that number a few times. But don't speak into it ... maybe make it seem like the phone has bad reception. The person, if they know your husband,... (read in full...)
I'm so depressed about all of the stress in my life - please help!
Q. my bf and i have been together for 8 years and have a one year old child, this year my mum died and as a result we take care of my younger sister. the whole year has been a struggle and we have argued a lot and are just not as happy as we used to ...
A. 28 November 2006: have you gone to a doctor to see if maybe they can prescribe you some medication for your depression? i believe most/all depression medicines are prescription only ...
it sounds like he doesn't want to work things out with you ... i think it... (read in full...)
Two room mates..one is very nice..the other is very nasty! What should I do?
Q. I house share with two females, both are a year younger than me so they 22. They've known each other for about 13 years. I have been living with them for about 6 months. I get along with the girl whose house it is really really well. Everything is ...
A. 28 November 2006: Move out. It's not worth your sanity to deal with the other one. In the long run, it's going to be a drag. And your friend, the good one, doesn't seem to want to deal with it in a responsible manner .. maybe because they're such good friends. ... (read in full...)
Been with her a year and I want to go to the next level ...but what is it?
Q. i wants to take my relationship to the next level with my girlfriend but I dont know what it is, We've been together a year now, we ain't married or engaged or have a baby ...
A. 28 November 2006: Before you get married or engaged to her. I would say the next level would be to live with her ... move in together.
Sometimes you don't know how someone is until you've spent 24/7 with them for a few months/years!
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Am I being paranoid or does my hubby really find me unattractive? What do you think?
Q. hi, I have been married for 4 years and we have a daughter together, i have two children from a previous marriage. when we first met sex was great, then i feel pregnant with our daughter and things were good. as soon as i had my daught...
A. 28 November 2006: to be honest. if you've gained a lot of weight, that might have thrown off his physical attraction to you -- sexually.
as much as we hate to admit it, most of us are animals and like looking at someone that's physically attractive.
if he's g... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my bf with a married man who left his "then' pregnant wife for me.
Q. I don't know what to do, have been cheating on my bf for a year. I love my bf of 6 yrs to bits but he is so cold and unloving towards me. We moved in together a year and a half ago and were happy but he is away alot with work. The guy I am cheating ...
A. 28 November 2006: Time to break it to your boyfriend.
Move on to another relationship. You are no longer in love with your boyfriend.
Otherwise you wouldn't have cheated or would've been honest from the start that you were no longer in love with him and bre... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and hes experienced so will this lad go off me if I slept with him?
Q. will this lad go off me if i slept with him? im a virgin and hes experianced? iv been seeing him on and off for a year and i know how he feels, but im scared he wil go off me cause im so unexperianced? x...
A. 28 November 2006: you never know if someone is actually experienced or not until you've actually been with them. guys like to boast and he's probably the average guy when it comes to that.
with that being said, if he's more experienced, then he'll have no problem ... (read in full...)
Seeing my family and friends without him..makes him act strange. Any advice?
Q. Any opinions out there? I have been dating my bf for 4 years. It's been an on off relationship, we split a few times and dated others then decided to get back together. It's also a long distance relationship but we get to meet up at least twice a ...
A. 27 November 2006: probably insecure about your relationship .... i guess .. sort of how i feel about my gf ... though, i've never felt that way when she tells me she's going out with her family to do this and that.
sometimes just telling him isn't enough ... do s... (read in full...)
A very close friend says she treasures me more than her bf! what should I do?
Q. I have a friend whom I have become very close to.We are very close that we some times find ourselves kissing and fondling!The problem is that she has a boyfriend who thinks we are moving out. I really want them to be happy together but I sometimes ...
A. 27 November 2006: you can't have three in your equation. sounds like you've done a little too much with his girlfriend .. if she really is still his gf at this point (in her mind). put yourself in her bf's shoes and ask .. how would you feel if that happened?... (read in full...)
My ex and I started over, but she cheated on me! I don't know what to do. Please help!
Q. Hi, I've never posted to something like this, but I find myself at a loss. I have been in a relationship for the last 3 years with a woman I love very much. For the first 2 years, things were quite good. About 6 months ago, we broke up...it wa...
A. 27 November 2006: I'm going to play the cynical response ...
First off, she promised you that she wouldn't drink too much and she didn't. I've been drunk or near drunk many times and I'm usually very coherent of what's happening. True that it lets down some gua... (read in full...)
My bf is seeking attention by being dramatic about his health! How do I handle this?
Q. I've been dating someone exclusively for 5 months and I have noticed that he is very dramatic about his health. At first, I was worried because he claimed to have severe headaches. He said doctors couldn't find anything wrong with him. However, now ...
A. 27 November 2006: any chance he could be a hypochondriac? did you notice him acting like this early on ... anything at all? maybe it's taken you some time getting used to him and he's always like this ...
if not, then maybe something has happened recently... (read in full...)
She's not told anyone about our relationship - can someone really value their privacy that much?
Q. Does anyone else see something odd/wrong with this ... My girlfriend (long distance) hasn't outright told her sisters/brother that she has a boyfriend. Even when I went down to visit her. At the time, she told me that she valued her privacy ....
A. 27 November 2006: thanks for the answer ... i forgot to mention that she's only been "officially" my girlfriend for 6 months even though i've known her 3 years. and, i know she's always had some hangups about the fact that she met me online ...... (read in full...)
My bf's friend accused him of being with me for sex! Now I'm worried I'm being used!
Q. Hi, My new boyfriend (of 4 months now) told me at the weekend that he had fallen out with one of his best mates. Apparently when they were out last week his mate was saying that he is only going out with me cos im the only person who wants him and ...
A. 27 November 2006: ask yourself, does he treat you innately good? does it bother you that he likes your company ... even if you're the only female company he might have had in a while?
if he does, what difference does it make if there's some sex in it, you enjoy th... (read in full...)
I know my gf likes to get her own way..I just didn't think she was this spoiled! Help!
Q. I know that my girlfriend is quite spoilt and likes to get her own way but i never knew she was that bad. As Xmas is approaching all she talks about is presents that she is buying people and its non-stop. It's okay if she talks about it occasionally ...
A. 27 November 2006: so what do you need help with? getting her to be not so spoiled?
i find that hard to do. my girlfriend and her siblings ... they're more spoiled than your girlfriend. granted she's pretty frugal at times .. but, to me, they don't really k... (read in full...)
I' m so confused by his behaviours! Are we friends or are we dating?? How does he feel towards me, now?
Q. i just broke up with my boyfriend.he says he is not fit to be my boyfriend.he says that i m a good gf but he is not a gd bf.i try to convince him that he not a bad bf but then later on,i slowly accepted the fact.he say he does not want to call this ...
A. 27 November 2006: sounds like this is something you haven't spoken indepth with him about it.
has he said why he thinks he doesn't treat you well? if you don't get that feeling and he does .. maybe there's something else going on. i'm the paranoid... (read in full...)
He drinks and hurts me so we broke up! But he calls all the time--what should I do?
Q. I need help I broke off the relationship with this guy after a year of dating because he starts drinking an tries to hurt me bad and it happen like 3 time and I told him I cant take it any more I no he loves me but he dont no how to handle his ...
A. 27 November 2006: obviously, he's reckless when drunk, which is a shame.
brings out the worse in some of us.
give him an ultimatum and see if he gives up drinking for you. or at some rate, drinks less. otherwise, this might be your last post indeed!
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She's 19 and a bit shy--I like her a lot and am wondering how she feels about me!
Q. hey, not really used to this but here goes, maybe someone can help! really, just wanted some advice, i'm 21 and there's a girl i like and have kind of been after for some time, i don't work with her or see her that often, but she lives near me and ...
A. 27 November 2006: what is there to lose if you ask her out to dinner or an activity? the worse, you'll find out that she has a boyfriend or is a lesbian! plus, since you mentioned that you're not actually around her much, i would take what chances you can ... ... (read in full...)
I cry for hours when my boyfriend is away...
Q. Hey everyone I dont really know where to begin with this i knoow i need some help/advice tho. This will prob sound saft to people Im sure people have been thru so much worse. I am finding it really hard to understand and control my emotion...
A. 27 November 2006: yes, i think it also has to do with the fact that you're not as engaged by your own activities ... therefore when you have too much idle time, he's on your mind.
but, another facet of this that you might want to think about ... because i believe ... (read in full...)
Caught my GF wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what?
Q. Caught my GF wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what? I have the same situation but I am a guy. She is in South America but we are thinking about getting married and stuff and I made a fake profile and I seduced her and ...
A. 27 November 2006: ask yourself this ... do you really want to find out the truth?
if the truth was what is ... that she would go all the way with someone else ... how would you react?
if you really want to know the truth then go all the way with your plan a... (read in full...)
He's left the country and I can't afford to call all the time, what do we do??
Q. my bf left the country, its extrenmely difficult to communicate wth him callin is too expensive i have tried all ways, nth works.he is terribly upset wth it what will we do?...
A. 27 November 2006: doesn't skype.com offer free calling between machines? i would think their software would be compatible across machines.... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my husband and don't know how to stop!!
Q. i am cheating on my husband with one of our friends... it has been going on for the past three years. but we never had slept. we only kiss. but i dont know how to stop. it's like i am addicted to him...
A. 27 November 2006: have you asked yourself why you did it?... (read in full...)
My long distance GF told me she was tempted to cheat on me!
Q. My long distance gf told me that she was tempted to cheat at a nightclub. She never actually cheated, but would have pretended it was me. We see each other once a month if we are lucky. She loves kisses and cuddles and always wants to feel me ...
A. 27 November 2006: i just need to give my input on this ...
good for you that you are the type to still give her your trust after what's happened. i know majority of the people out there cannot bring themselves to forgive such an incident. i know i wouldn't... (read in full...)
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