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writes:I house share with two females, both are a year younger than me so they 22. They've known each other for about 13 years. I have been living with them for about 6 months. I get along with the girl whose house it is really really well. Everything is in her name and she's mature and easy to live with. The other girl though is moody, nasty, ignorant. She never ever cleans or buys cleaning products. She never has any money to pay bills so we have to front her until she has the money. About 4 days ago I locked myself out of the house, luckily she was home but when she opened the door she got so angry with me locking myself out that she screamed at me. Now she wont even stay in the same room as me and she will not speak to me whatsoever. I am trying to get a chance to speak to her but she wont stay out of her room or at the house to give me a chance to clear the air. Not a single word has been spoken between us but she is acting fine with my other housemate. I've spoken with the other housemate about it and she's said the grumpy housemate just needs some space because she's very tired at the moment but she had mates around to all hours last night. I dont understand. I love my place but I'm considering moving out now.
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reader, pica +, writes (28 November 2006):
Afraid I also think you should move on before it gets any worse even though that might be a major hassle to do. Having a drama queen for a flatmate is not good and doesn't tend to improve. It's best not to get involved in whatever dynamic/manipulaon is going on with them. On the bright side you may well end up with some great new flatmates/friends and you can keep in touch with your decent flatmate. I think that once you have gone you should tell her why - maybe she needs people to point out that her old friend isn't much of a friend.
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reader, guylostinlove +, writes (28 November 2006):
Move out. It's not worth your sanity to deal with the other one. In the long run, it's going to be a drag. And your friend, the good one, doesn't seem to want to deal with it in a responsible manner .. maybe because they're such good friends. But, you're not in the picture as long as it comes to taking care of the moody girl. So, move out if you can find a better place. Doesn't mean you can't be friends with the goody goody. :)
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