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writes: Hello people, i need your help....again I like this girl and i would like to think she likes me. Anyway, i was talking to her a couple of days ago and we were having a laugh, now when i go to phone her she doesn't answer, when i text her she doesn't reply, and when i msg her on msn, I get no reply. I know it's very vague, but if she does't want to talk to me,why not just say? I have asked her this, but she's not replied.Any help? I would be greatful.Thanks.
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reader, WastedLife  +, writes (6 May 2008):
Sorry to hear this, though it seems to be common. I have been trying to meet women over the last couple of months - I was never good at the game - though we were able to get talking, dancing, laughing, etc., and I get an email or number. When I call or write I get NO reply. The last TEN women I "connected" to this way have simply not responded at all, even with repeated attempts. Is this a new paradigm, or what? I have no answers, but can assure you it seems to be a very disturbing trend.
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reader, growing  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 Thouhg she is showing reluctance towards your calls and texts but she still has not said NO.so you still have ball to hit the goal.she is just upset with something and may be somthing that has to do with you.
I hope she is unaware about you fooling around with her.lol!!!.just kidding.
But yes,this is something very common that one tells lie and his gal gets to know the truth from someone else.so in this case,recall everything and come clean in her eyes.
Without sounding desperate,ask her about this weird beahviour from her side.so this will bring the real problem in light and then may be you can do something about that.
best of luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): You're right. You're description is quite vaque.
It does depend on your communication when you are together and facetoface. Are direct about your onjectives when you are with her? Are there any other things that might stand in the way of your being together???
Are you clear in your approach to her? Do you perhaps say one thing and then do something completely different????
Do you drop subtle hints that could be misinterpreted or misunderstood???
And, yes, there could also be somethings that demands more of her attention at the time.
I'd say if you are sure that there is absolutely no reason why you shouldn't be together; then speak to her... clear and direct...
If you're uncomfortable with that... then think about how she might feel when she gets your sms or messages... maybe she's as shy or maybe you just have such a great effect on her that the best response is no response....
Tell us how it goes... Good Luck.... :-)
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