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writes:Hi i'm really worried about my b/f, he has been funny with me and we have been together for about 8 weeks. He tells me he loves me all the time, but does not show me that he means it and everything. I really like him but don't know what to do, i think i need to be sexy for him, lol.Caz xxx Reply to this Question |
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reader, growing  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 Then be one of the hot chick.may be thats all is missing!! go and try a trick or two between the sheets.lol!!
jokes apart,if you like him and he keeps on telling that he too loves you then what is that stopping you not to believe him?don't you trust his love?do you doubt on that?if thats the case,then you need to give time to this relatiosnship.you can like someone within fraction of seconds,it takes time to develop like into love but trust is something that has nothing to do with love .trust will come when it has to.so for now,just enjoy his company and yes ,not to forget he is a different individual and thus has differnt style to express love.going for a movie can be a sign of love for you but for him it can be sleeping with you in bed .so everyone has different definition for love.you need to evaluate your love styles and start trusting whom you love.this is a success key for loving relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): I was like that when I started dating my boyfriend. I'd never go talk to him infront of my friends even though I was crazy about him. Now we're always together, infact you'll have troubles getting us to seperate.
I guess it's just one of those phases.
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reader, sully-24 +, writes (6 May 2008):
Hiyah hun, this may sound weird, but it can be quite hard for a lad to show he loves somebody, because most guys are scared of making the wrong move, and if we make a wrong move we are scared of loosing the best thing that ever happened to us. Maybe this is why he doesn't show affectionate he is of you but i guarantee he really really really does love you.Tell him how you feel and maybe tell him what you like and he maybe then he will start to show it a bit more.hope it helps you.Luv Sully x
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reader, Kimaxsi  +, writes (6 May 2008):
Everyone goes through a period where they are preoccupied with other things, school, work, problems with parents, friends and such and sometimes its just a matter of them having something on their mind and not being ready to talk about it. Ask him how he's doing. Check in with him generally. Let him know he can talk to you (don't badger him just let him know) and if this is the case eventually he'll probably let you know what's been causing him to act distant.
You haven't given much detail for me to go on her hun, so I don't know exactly how your bf is treating you.
Sometimes guys lay it on thick to get the ladies, once they've got the girl their true colors can start to show. If he's treating you poorly, being nasty, abusive, chatting up other girls anything like that get out now before you get anymore involved. You deserve to be treated with love and respect. He will not change and men are not like cars that need a little fixing up, if you can't love and accept him as is, then let him go so he can find someone who does.
And yes some guys say things like I love you to get you in bed, if he's not getting sex he might be losing interest. Do not be fooled by words or let him lay guilt trips on your or anything, if he's in any way pressuring you into sex, then end it. Not all guys just want sex, and a good man a real man will wait until you are ready. Never feel like you have to put out, to get or keep a boy, if you had to put out to keep/get a boy, he's not worth your time period. He's a loser.
The other option is maybe he's feeling a bit smothered, maybe you guys have been hanging out so much b/c the relationship is new, that he just really wants some time to himself or to hang out with his mates, ya know?
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