Why does she ignore me when I ask her out?
Q. there is a girl i really like, i call her like 4 - 5 times a day. sometimes i feel that she is ignoring me. what must i do ? sometimes she ignores me when i ask her out...
A. 16 February 2010: First thing is stop calling her 4-5 times a day. She has a life and she can't talk to you all the time. You're making yourself too available and desperate so just back off a bit. That's why she ignores you when you ask her out. Now if you want to ... (read in full...)
Is it a good thing that he has not asked me about this note my friend sent him, or is he just oblivious to my feelings for him?
Q. I don't know what to think. This boy "Joe" is really oblivious. I mean, he's busy and everything but really oblivious. We have good chemistry and everything, but sometimes I feel like he's not interested or he just doesn't care. My best friend...
A. 16 February 2010: Yup CaringGuy hit it right on the spot. He's just not interested. If he was he would at least smile or act a little nervous around you. If you talk to him about it you might not like what he has to say. Afterall he does know how you feel about him ... (read in full...)
Long distance broken relationship..
Q. I met this guy a while ago on holiday (lets call him *fred), we only talked for a couple of days, but then we had to go home. He's irish, I'm scottish. We stay far apart, then he added me on msn. He asked me out, and I said yes cause I did quite ...
A. 15 February 2010: This was just bad from the beginning. I guess you care about him or else you wouldn't come on Dearcupid asking for advice. I think you should tell him if he wants to be friends at least to stop the way he is acting towards you and let him know its ... (read in full...)
Did he like my surprise hug because we are just friends, or did he like it because he 'likes' me?
Q. How would you know that your best friend liked your surprise hug or liked it because he likes you? I've been wanting to know if he liked me more than a friend for a long time. my crush was blushing a lot more. I walked bye him and his back was ...
A. 15 February 2010: Well obviously if he can't stop talking about it he must of liked it more than a friend. I don't talk about little things like that with my friend. If I like the girl then that hug would mean something to me and I would think about it alot. Go out ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to love me as more than a friend?
Q. IM A MALE/FRIENDS A FEMALE Ive been desperately in love with my best friend for a year now. We started the relationship terrible as i came to find out that she was my best friends ex girlfriend. Then out of the blue as soon as i start talking to...
A. 15 February 2010: Oh have I been there done that. I was in love with my best friend for a year and a half. She knew I loved her and wanted get with her but she saw me as just a friend. Rejected me time after time. For a year and a half I was chasing her and she went ... (read in full...)
Depressed about being lonely
Q. I need help, No one seems to approach me to date... I'm fairly attractive, I take time each day to fix my hair nice ,put some makeup ,lip gloss all that good stuff..am currently eating healthier and working on losing weight.. Im not horrible looking ...
A. 15 February 2010: You want to be approached but no one seems to come. To me that's just unlucky for you. Nothing is wrong with you its just that luck isn't on your side. I'm sort of in the same spot as you but that's because I'm not putting myself out there enough. ... (read in full...)
Valentines Day was such a disappointment, he never makes me feel special anymore...
Q. Two weeks ago when my b/f and I were having a fight he bought me an ipod and gave it to me, to get himself out of the doghouse. He said it was an early Valentine's gift. He didn't wrap it, he just handed it to me after we left the store. When ...
A. 15 February 2010: Money doesn't buy you happiness (maybe for children but that's not the point). Point is this guy doesn't get it and he's not listening to your needs. I'm not sure why your with him if he treats you like crap and then buys you things to make up for ... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend not respond to this letter?
Q. One day I was very angry at my boyfriend and told him to have a good life, after that I wrote him a letter explaining why I was upset, since then I have not heard anything from him :( Below is what I wrote, please help me explain why he would no...
A. 15 February 2010: Maybe he's thinking maybe he's not. But surely you want to find out what's going on. So give it a couple weeks and if he doesn't respond call him and ask him what's up. There's nothing wrong with your letter and you made your feelings perfectly ... (read in full...)
A little peeved on Valentines Day
Q. Okay so, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We have a sort of long distance relationship going on... him being in North Carolina and me being in Maine. It's been kinda rough being away from each other but we do make a point in ...
A. 15 February 2010: Ok first thing take a deep breath. From my experience saying I love you too many times to a girl sometimes drives her away. Maybe this happened to him with his ex where he got too clingy? Maybe he's afraid to drive you away. You never know. Or maybe ... (read in full...)
He told me he prefers larger breasts, when I only have small ones! How do I get over this?
Q. Lame question... but I have small breasts, and my boyfriend prefers big ones. I know this because his celebrity crushes have big breasts and because I asked him and he straight out told me. During sex I'm not self conscious about them, although when ...
A. 12 February 2010: I wouldn't worry about it. He loves you for who you are. He was just being honest about what he likes although I wouldn't tell you that because I wouldn't want you to feel bad like you are now. Just know he chose you and not the big breasted blonde. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said she can't do our long distance relationship anymore and is going to block my number!
Q. Back in July of 2009 I started dating this wonderful girl, but soon after she moved to California. We kept it a long distance relationship. She was 25 and i am 19. In November I flew out to see her and I lost my vcard to her. (Yeah I know 19, ...
A. 12 February 2010: Two words that people in love don't want to hear. Move on. But I'm not going to tell you to do that. You aren't even sure if you will be stationed near to where she lives. My advice is to break up and if she wants to block your number then let her. ... (read in full...)
To call or not to call?
Q. Hi all, I have a friend who is in some financial difficulty. she called me telling me that she has finally gotten a job but needs some money to buy the uniform or she could lose the job. She told me how much it would cost. I transferred the ...
A. 12 February 2010: Well I know when I call some of my friends and they don't pick up it's because they are busy at the moment and forget to call back sometimes. It might be that she got the job and she couldn't take your call while on the job. Or maybe she just having ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man not to send their loved one, a Valentine's card?
Q. Should a man you are seeing send a Valentines? Hi - well my guy has never really been Mr Romantic and he does send Xmas and birthday cards - but last year there was no Valentine and this year he said he hasn't got round to getting me a card yet (so ...
A. 11 February 2010: Well I see you want something I guess to feel loved and appreciated. I mean he should at least give you a card for Valentine's day unless he has something else up his sleeves to give you. You never know he might surprise you with something. But I ... (read in full...)
My friends and I created a fake Myspace and now I have fallen in love with the guy we were pranking!
Q. I feel sorry because one day my friends and I was playing truth or dare. So, I picked Dare they dared me to make a fake myspace and to post a fake pic. Three days later a lot of people was adding this fake myspace. But there was this one guy that ...
A. 11 February 2010: Lying never leads to anything good especially when you have admitted to lying and then doing it again. I say never lie because one lie leads to another. So learn from this and don't make lying a habit. Ask anyone that the most imporant thing in any ... (read in full...)
I have lied to my online friend, about everything for 5 years. I am going to meet him now, what do I do?
Q. I have been using fake pics for well over 6 years and at first its fun with the attention but after a while reality sets in and it always come to an bad ending!! But this was when I was a lot younger and now I'm 21 I don't do it no more bc at the ...
A. 10 February 2010: I think you should tell him as soon as you can. Because eventually he will find out. The sooner the better so he can collect his thoughts about the situation. Not sure he might be hurt because of this mistrust but its another reason why you should ... (read in full...)
He told me he loved me after one day. Creepy!
Q. Okay, this may take a while to read, and it's pretty complicated... Basically, I kinda liked this guy at my school for a while and we talked and stuff, and everything was fine. Until a few weeks ago, I met a boy whilst I was out with some friend...
A. 10 February 2010: Guys will always say those things to show you how much we love you and all but in reality he can live without you. He's still young and has his whole life to look forward to. He'll be just fine. I know you don't mean to hurt him or anyone but that's ... (read in full...)
He told me he loved me after one day. Creepy!
Q. Okay, this may take a while to read, and it's pretty complicated... Basically, I kinda liked this guy at my school for a while and we talked and stuff, and everything was fine. Until a few weeks ago, I met a boy whilst I was out with some friend...
A. 10 February 2010: Guys will always say those things to show you how much we love you and all but in reality he can live without you. He's still young and has his whole life to look forward to. He'll be just fine. I know you don't mean to hurt him or anyone but that's ... (read in full...)
He told me he loved me after one day. Creepy!
Q. Okay, this may take a while to read, and it's pretty complicated... Basically, I kinda liked this guy at my school for a while and we talked and stuff, and everything was fine. Until a few weeks ago, I met a boy whilst I was out with some friend...
A. 9 February 2010: I think you should do what your heart tells you. I think right now you're confused and you really don't know what you want. Just take some time and think about what makes you happy. If you don't want to be with your boyfriend then it's ok you don't ... (read in full...)
I am terrible at making new friends. How do I out myself out there and meet people I can hang out with?
Q. This is my first year at college, and I never realized how horrible I am at making friends. This wasnt my top choice and I had no intention of making friends here because I thought they werent my "type" of people. But now that Im in my second ...
A. 9 February 2010: When you have an upcoming test make a study group. Ask the people around you if they want to get together and help each other study. Study with them talk with them. It's a good way to break the ice. After studying ask them if they want to go eat ... (read in full...)
She's married, she's 36, and my teacher. But I love her!
Q. I am in love with my English teacher. I don't know what to do. She is married and like 36 and has 2 kids but I can't stop thinking about her. I try to stand close to her and sometimes even just touch her by mistake but not really. I even told her I ...
A. 9 February 2010: It's just a crush. Trust me I thought some of my teachers were hot too but eventually I grew out of that phase. You might be feeling like this because she's a woman and not a girl in your class and second is you want something you can't have. She's ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose? The guy I like, or the guy I don't want to hurt?
Q. I been through a lot with my muslim boyfriend being a secret to his parents and where he lives it tool three years to introduce me because I broke up with him. I wish he could have did it sooner. While we was broken up I met a wonderful guy we have ...
A. 8 February 2010: I think you should do what feels right. If you don't want to be with him anymore then you should tell him. If he gets hurt so what who hasn't been hurt right? You might feel guilty but later on you'll feel better because it was the right thing to ... (read in full...)
He wants me to go through with this 3-some even although I'm not really that keen!
Q. A few weeks ago my fiance started texting me asking what I thought about threeseomes. I told him right away that I wanted to do one, thinking that he was talking about a FFM threeseome. I love to pleasure him and turn him on and he has told me ...
A. 8 February 2010: Sit him down and tell him the truth without repeating yourself. If you say that you don't want to do it then don't. Tell him that it bugs you when he keeps asking the same question when you told him the truthful answer the FIRST TIME!Immature is the ... (read in full...)
15 with a planned pregnancy!
Q. Im 15 and Pregent , Me and my boyfriend started haveing sex unprotected for about 2 month but i never i got pregent , Until One day we Both decided to Plan on haveing a Baby. Three weeks ago after he cummed inside of me . I took Three pregencey test ...
A. 5 February 2010: I had to reread this twice because I couldn't believe what you're saying. You're 15 y/o and trust me this is not something you should be wanting right now. Having a baby will drastically change your life and you're boyfriend's life. I would think ... (read in full...)
Why did my best friend say all those horrible things to me?
Q. me and my best Friend were talking about a holiday we are going in summer.. shes all going on bout how many guys were going to have sex with..i told her no..am not going to sleep with Random strangers thanx..she said i'd be drunk so i wont know ...
A. 5 February 2010: Sounds to me that she might be trying peer pressure on you. You didn't give her the answer she wanted and now she's trying to make you feel bad. I know because my friends always want me to do things I know is plain wrong and they call names to make ... (read in full...)
Could this be fate telling me something?
Q. OK so I started to talk to this girl on yahoo poker for months now. She is really beautiful but I wanted to be just a friend. She seems so sweet and perfect and the more I talked to her I just couldn't stop myself from liking her more than a friend. ...
A. 4 February 2010: What I want right now is to get to know her more because I do like her. She told me before that she's investing in getting to know me. When I met her I was facing the fact that I almost lost my mom so it was a tough time for me but she was there ... (read in full...)
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