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writes:Me and my girlfriend are so in love. Lately she has wanted to try new things. She wants to DO Me with a strap on. How does anal feel to a man? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Get used to it by putting a lubed finger and then two when you are on your own. You need to get used to relaxing down there before trying anything larger, otherwise it will hurt, you will tense up and it will then hurt even more. Providing you are relaxed it should be really good. If it hurts at first, take it out, wait a moment and try again.
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reader, hayual +, writes (8 November 2008):
It takes getting used to- it can be like the first few times a girl has sex it might hurt a bit at first, but then afterwards feel great! The key is LUBE LUBE and more LUBE. I highly recommend silicon lubricants as water-based dry out quickly and the greasier ones like vaseline are not condom compatible and a pain to wash off. The other keys are for you to feel like you're in control of how much she penetrates you, how fast she penetrates you, etc + going very slow at first/whatever you're comfortable with.To know your body better, I would highly recommend sticking a lubed finger in your butt (at your own pace) to feel what it's like inside- find your prostate, find out what it feels like to have pressure on your prostate- you should do this while sexually aroused. Just fyi that the first time you touch your prostate it might feel similar to the sensation that you have to pee--but once your brain delineates that from sexual pleasure, the feeling is AMAZING. try masturbating while touch your prostate and WOW!. :-)Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHow do I prepare myself?
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reader, Jake1984  +, writes (7 November 2008):
Well, firstly if she wants to do it and you're happy to do it then go for it. It will hurt the first time, plenty of lube and steady as she goes. If it turns you on then it will be great!
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reader, gayguy16 +, writes (7 November 2008):
 you'll have to try it and find out if you like it, but as for a straight answer it feels good, can be a bit wierd at first, but then you'll get the hang of it, if you do wanna give it a go first though i suggest you try it your self first to see if you like it and if you do then its always practice for when you wanna or if you wanna get jammed by a strap-on.
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