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How will I cope???

Q.   I was in a relationship for 8 years with the father of my 2 kids. he said we must break up, cause he had a new girlfriend. We broke up 2 years back and it was hard for me. its been two years since we broke up, but i dont find a great man 4 me. i ...

A.   15 July 2010:  As he found himself a fiancee you'll definitely find yourself a soul mate when the right time comes, don't project his life and the time frame of his new relationship on your life, i know how frustrating it must be for your ego but hey , didn... (read in full...)

Is there any way to get my ex to talk to me again?

Q.   so currently i feel like crawling into a hole and never coming out... i feel like i've stuffed everything up and there's no way in hell it's ever going to be fixed. i got dumped, by text and with no explanation by the first guy i've ever actual...

A.   15 July 2010:  It's totally understandable and normal what you're passing through, love disappointments logically generate anger that will fade away with time, trust me, i don't understand though why does your ex refuse a friendship with you. In my opinion ... (read in full...)

Why is my girlfriend so secretive over her phone?

Q.   Hello. Ok let's get into this straight away. I am in a relationship and its going well. We are in love and going to be having a baby in Oct. Not married but we are strong how we are. I Don't know why but my GF always has a secretive mind. For...

A.   30 June 2010:  Hi imloyal, you have every right to ask your gf about it! for instance you can tell her that since you're planning a baby soon and becoming a family, no secrets should be kept from family members, try to tell her discretely and politey the message ... (read in full...)

Was he just using me for my body?

Q.   Background: I just finished my senior year in high school dating this guy David for like six months now and it's been great. I'm not always an easy person to deal with owing to my bi-polar adhd-ness but he's been the only one to make me happy. But I ...

A.   22 June 2010:  Yes i think he's using u, no man in love disrespects his girl telling her to f... off , u should open a new chapter with david now that he forgave ur infidelity , it seems he's a nice guy and into u. Plz forget about this conner guy, he's bad news... (read in full...)

We broke up because he moved away... but I miss him so much, help!

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 years and a half moved away a few days ago to another state.. 6 hour flight away from here. We've always just spent time together so when the news was announced we figured it was just right to call it quits.. how ever, as the time...

A.   16 June 2010:  I'm definitely not writing this to make u feel better as much as i'm sincere about every word i'm writing, i had the very same situation and he was 13 hours away from me, yet our relation survived at the time , however u guys need to frame the ... (read in full...)

Can this relationship turn around?

Q.   My boyfriend and I almost broke up 2 weeks ago. I managed to convince him we should stay together. The 2 weeks following were very strained and draining. He then said again that he doesn't think he's right for me. In my anger of how much he has hurt ...

A.   15 June 2010: Hey Amanda,sometimes men (and women) need some space and to distant themselves from their beloved one in order to realize how they really feel towards her(him). I think u need to give him his space especially that he had doubts about you too bein... (read in full...)

We broke up and I can't get over him! Help!

Q.   hiaa I have a problem. I broke up with my bf a few months ago and now he's with someone else. but I can't get over him. its when youve not got someone that u realise how much you needed them. and now when ever I see them together I have to leave ...

A.   9 May 2010: I think the fact that ur not interested in other guys is because u haven't met the right one yet who's compatible with u , so ur flashbacking ur last relationship and feeling bitter cause he has moved on. Put in mind that u should get over him and u ... (read in full...)

Haven't heard from him, should I break it off?

Q.   My boyfriend and I havent been together that long and up until a few weeks ago, he seemed head over heels for me. All of a sudden he said that he’s so busy with his job and school right now, he's not sure if he can handle it all. He failed classes ...

A.   5 May 2010:  Hello, ur story reminded me a lot of mine, so i'll give u a piece of advice that i think might help u feel better, The guy might want to focus on his studies as he seems the emotional type and love stories can derail him from his academic goals, h... (read in full...)

My boyfriend keeps ditching me for his best friend!

Q.   Okay, my boyfriend of two months, whom I really have a great amount of special feelings for is kind of... obsessed with his bestfriend. Or he's getting there, anyway. It wouldn't bother me, really. If this obsession didn't mess up our time with eac...

A.   2 May 2010: My advice to u is to mirror his acts! U said he changed with u , so don't verbally confront him , just start focusing on ur life , make plans with ur friends and don't centre ur life on him, trust me, acts speak louder than words , if he really ... (read in full...)

Go back to dating the ex or move on with guy I'm dating?

Q.   So,my ex (now at least) have known each other since the beginning of last year...and we've been on and off since the end of last year. If we disagree over something its usually something silly,like last time we broke it off because his friends ...

A.   1 May 2010: Hey there , u have to ask yourself if u really love ur ex, cause the 2 mentioned reasons are not enough to break up with someone, i think that u should know what u really want and who u like the most then decide. However having an on-off ... (read in full...)

I am going from guy to guy since I have had my heart broken! Why am I like this?

Q.   So i was dating this one guy' for 9 month's and we were like diggin' eachother alot.. but i f**ked up alot and then i broke up with him and he told me he would always love me no matter what he just doesn't know if he could take the shit anymore .. ...

A.   1 May 2010:  Hello dear, it's completely understandable to avoid love and commitment after being hurt and heartbroken, i believe ur doing this to spare yourself from pain and find a quick solution with another guy. But this is not the solution sweety, ur ... (read in full...)

He neglected to tell me he had another gf! What should I do now?

Q.   hello everyone, i really need ur sincere advice, i met a guy when i was visiting my country , i met him through a common friend, but i always heard of him ever since i was a kid, he's 7 years older then me, not specifically handsome but very ...

A.   1 May 2010:  Hi dear friends, i guess my luck with love matters is not at its peak this year! 2 months back i ended a short relation with a guy who lied to me about having a girlfriend and i decided to give a chance to a man who seemes really nice at star... (read in full...)

He neglected to tell me he had another gf! What should I do now?

Q.   hello everyone, i really need ur sincere advice, i met a guy when i was visiting my country , i met him through a common friend, but i always heard of him ever since i was a kid, he's 7 years older then me, not specifically handsome but very ...

A.   16 March 2010:  Thanks lexie, ur absolutely right, nothing is special about him if i think about it, i always heard he's a spoiled rich boy but he said he changed and wants to be with me. Whatever! a wonderful guy is after me, i met him in a very nice way, i inte... (read in full...)

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