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*upidLover
writes:So,my ex (now at least) have known each other since the beginning of last year...and we've been on and off since the end of last year.If we disagree over something its usually something silly,like last time we broke it off because his friends (see my other qs) were being stuck up towards me,and i made a big deal out of it...and he also found some text messages in my phone between a guy friend and he got jealous and suspected something but then came back and apologized for going through my phone.So those are the 2 reasons why i broke it off with him= his friends,and him going through my fone.its been 10 days,i miss him lots and i told him im moving on and its over n to respect that but a few days later he texts telling me that he's too upset about hurting the person he loves and really loves me. i dont know what to do.Go back to him,or keep a casual relationship going with a guy im sort of dating right now.I just dont want to get hurt again,but he hasnt done anything like lie or cheat. HELP!
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reader, fishy fish  +, writes (1 May 2010):
Hey there , u have to ask yourself if u really love ur ex, cause the 2 mentioned reasons are not enough to break up with someone, i think that u should know what u really want and who u like the most then decide. However having an on-off realtionship is not something very encouraging nor is it a good sign of a healthy relationship. U should talk to ur ex , see how u feel towards him then decide what to do with the other guy ur dating, before being honest with people u should be honest to urself sweety. So talk to ur ex heart to heart and decide accordingly. Good luck!
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reader, lil ladyy  +, writes (1 May 2010):
 well go with the one that you really like the most.
And if you were the one who broke it of with him in the past a few times then you need to stop messing him around and sort stuff out instead of dumping him every time it gets ruff because that it unfair to him so if you go back to him you two should talk it out so you're both happy .
Hope this helped .
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