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Hello everyone! I am happily married to my prince charming! It took me a long time to find him but I did! I have been through hell and back with drugs and abusive relationships! I came out of it smarter and stronger. I don't regret a single moment.Without it all I wouldn't be where I am today.

I recently moved to the state of big trucks and bigger mosquitoes! TEXAS! This is the happiest I have ever been! I am pregnant with my first baby and am having a hard time! I can't do much due to my illnesses and migraines so I have become quite obsessed with the internet on my BlackBerry!

I love to help people and I love to ask random questions! I may not be a trained professional but I think I am pretty smart.I am,however, extremely blunt when it comes to advice because I would want you to be the same with me! I don't do it to hurt feelings, and I am sorry if I do! Another thing, when I do help I like to give a personal experience so you know one I have gone through something similar and two so you know I take it from my own life lessons and I'm not blowing smoke out my ass!

I'm here anytime anyone needs me!

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Self conscious about the size of my penis

Q.   i am 18 and i am a virgin. i have always been self concious about the size of my penis. i dont know if its average or big or anything. lengthwise, it is more than 7.25 inches, almost 7.5 inches and 5.25 inches in girth. i dont know if that would be ...

A.   2 February 2009: Oh my lord! Have fun with that thing! Any girl would be lucky to have that!lol just be easy and make sure she is really wet your first time! If you were to put something of that size into a normal vagina while it was dry, you would tear it pretty ... (read in full...)

Valentine's Day Gift! What to get or do?

Q.   Hello everyone! I know that this might be a lame question but... Valentines day! I am a stay at home wife/ mother to be! My husband works and pays bills but I don't have any money. If I need something I ask and I usually get it. Yes I am a little ...

A.   1 February 2009: Thanks girls! Some of that could be fun! I might have to test it out when he gets home tomorrow night! Lol... (read in full...)

I'm trying to get pregnant -- help?

Q.   Hi Everyone, My husband and I just started trying to get pregnant and a friend keeps telling me that it is going to take a long time as it took her about 9 months. Iwent online and printed my ovulation calendar and practiced before and during m...

A.   1 February 2009: I was off my birth control in May of 08 in July we started trying! Don't tell anyone you are trying for some reason it is a curse! Just tell everyone you are practicing and go into with that state of mind! You want to conceive knowing you had fun ... (read in full...)

Infections in having anal sex???

Q.   Today I lost my anal virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months but what I didn't actually know [until today] was that you can't use the same condom/finger/whatever in the anus and vagina.. Is there a chance I could get some sort of infection??? and if ...

A.   1 February 2009: I read a study once that said there are so many different kinds of bacteria in fecal material scientists can't even list all of them! First off, you are so brave! I have tried and tried to do anal but I can't stand the pain! Second, like eve... (read in full...)

Explicit!! Guys: how much do you notice when a girl clenches her abs really hard during sex?

Q.   I can never tell the difference when I do kegels during intercourse, but I notice a TREMENDOUS difference when I clench my abs as hard as I can. There is a huge increase in sensitivity and pleasure for me, the female. So, I spend 60%+ of my time ...

A.   1 February 2009: If you are doing the kegels right, he should be able to tell! If when you do your kegels your tummy or butt flexes you aren't getting the right muscle! Its the same muscle used to stop the flow of urine! Some women (not me) who have super strong ... (read in full...)

What would YOU have done???

Q.   I was sitting in homeroom and this girl was talking to my homeroom teacher at his desk. Suddenly, she dropped her backpack, ran to the garbage can, and started throwing up. No joke! It was a very strange start to my day (and quite disgusting). ...

A.   1 February 2009: Oh goodness! You know what the first thing was that came into my mind when I read this? I do have a very over active imagination so be forewarned! I figure that she was doing the teacher and was telling him right then that she was pregnant... (read in full...)

Is it too much?

Q.   It's always been so hard to decide what I should give for the boy I like on Valentines day. Well here's what I'm planning : - pre-made t-shirt that says "You dance to the beat of my heart" (because we dance together) - a tiny teddy bear hugging ...

A.   1 February 2009: Yea I would say that was way too much! But that is only coming from my experience with guys and seeing as how you are 13 and he is 17 what you think is sweet he might think is totally lame! So be careful! I would say the Teddy bear with candy and ... (read in full...)

Am I hallucinating or is there a possibility of me being pregnant?

Q.   I am 16 years old,I just recently lost my virginity about 4 weeks ago.I have a few questions. While me and my bf were having intercourse the condom came off. It is my fault for not stopping him, we kept on having intercourse without the condom for ...

A.   1 February 2009: I am prego and I was supposed to have my period on Sept 26 but I didn't start on the 28th I took a cheap ass test and it was positive. So just wait a day or two after you are supposed to have your cycle to test! The tell tale sign that tipped me off ... (read in full...)

21 year old dating a 15 year old?

Q.   So I recently have been attracted to a younger gal. The thing is shes 15, and I'm 21. I've been to dinner with her family many times, and they like me a lot. They invite me to a lot of occasions, dinner and drinks every week or so. But I'...

A.   1 February 2009: Just think about this... Her parents and family like you now. What happens when something happens and her daddy isn't happy about it? It just takes one phone call to have you put away for a long time whether you did anything or not! Just be careful! ... (read in full...)

What date did I fall pregnant?

Q.   I am 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend who thinks he is the dad is in prison. My midwife worked out my due dates and the baby could have a different father, who is black called W. She worked my due date out to be 16th June... So when would I ...

A.   30 January 2009: To figure out your due date when you know when your period was you subtract 3 months and add 7 days! I don't know how your midwife figured that out! If you are due June 16th that means your last period was on August 9th. You usually ovulate half way ... (read in full...)

He says he does it because he just has that "need"!

Q.   I am just starting my 6th month of pregnancy and my libido is through the roof! I also have been having severe migraines and nausea. Even though I want to have sex my husband doesn't want to make me sicker or hurt me. I know he "relieves" himself ...

A.   30 January 2009: Lol thank you honeypie sex has helped with my migraines as much as the medicine! He really is a wonderful man and he is the sexyist man alive! I think my biggest problem is that it was done to me in the past to hurt me, so now its difficul... (read in full...)

Can any girls out there just list the different feelings you experience when you have an orgasm?

Q.   Just a quick question for the girls, I have had one sexual partner and another guy who I would have fooled around with. Thing is I'm not sure if I've ever had an orgasm through sex or otherwise. I get pleasured but sometimes it's mixed with pai...

A.   30 January 2009: The famous question! What does an orgasm feel like! When I have sex just plain penetration, I can't have an orgasm. If I rub my clit in a soft circle while we are having sex I can sometimes have an O! The only guaranteed orgasm is from masturbating ... (read in full...)

All my friends have perfect cleavages, I've nothing!?

Q.   I'm really worried because i have about a 2 inch gap between my boobs. i've tried everything to get rid of it like different types of bras and i've even been on the pill because its ment to make your boobs grow but it doesn't work. All my friends...

A.   30 January 2009: Hi hun! I was your size in highschool and the more cleavage I had the more people thought I was easy! So be careful with wanting them to be too perky! My friend is 20 and she has the gap in her breasts too! She just can't get cleavage! There is a ... (read in full...)

I never think about having sex with my boyfriend, or I am NEVER in the mood.

Q.   I have a HUGE problem! I'm a 22 year old Nursing student... I'll be 23 Feb 28th and I never care to have sex. I am healty, 5'1'' 140lbs, work out regularly and I am usually a very sexual person, and always think about looking sexy or feeling sexy. ...

A.   30 January 2009: To add to my question/ answer before. I went through the same exact thing! I was with a boyfriend of mine off and on for 2 years.we had amazing sex at first. We lived together for about 9 months broke up and got back together and moved back in ... (read in full...)

Does Pineapple Juice Make it Taste Better?

Q.   Ladies, does drinking pineapple juice and eating fruits really make a man's semen taste better?...

A.   30 January 2009: Lol! you poor thing! I hope my husband doesn't think that! However! Pineapples for her! It makes it super sweet!Now mind you its going to take more than one piece! Make it a fun treat to snack on! Put the rings around your penis! Hahaha or you can ... (read in full...)

How do you know if your cherry has popped?

Q.   I am a virgin and I had to wear tampons for swimming. I also have been fingered a couple of times. I don't know if my cherry popped or not. How do I know?...

A.   30 January 2009: Oh hun! I used to wonder the same thing! After wearing tampons you probably don't have the so called cherry anymore. I don't know any people that had problems with it. So if you do have sex don't worry about getting blood on the sheets. Unless of ... (read in full...)

He says he does it because he just has that "need"!

Q.   I am just starting my 6th month of pregnancy and my libido is through the roof! I also have been having severe migraines and nausea. Even though I want to have sex my husband doesn't want to make me sicker or hurt me. I know he "relieves" himself ...

A.   30 January 2009: Thank you Gina! I am trying hard to get going and get him in the mood. He hasn't done it this week so maybe I'm making him 'happy'! Lol thanks again!... (read in full...)

I never think about having sex with my boyfriend, or I am NEVER in the mood.

Q.   I have a HUGE problem! I'm a 22 year old Nursing student... I'll be 23 Feb 28th and I never care to have sex. I am healty, 5'1'' 140lbs, work out regularly and I am usually a very sexual person, and always think about looking sexy or feeling sexy. ...

A.   29 January 2009: I have a question before I answer. Are you on birth control? And if so are you on the shot?... (read in full...)

Does Pineapple Juice Make it Taste Better?

Q.   Ladies, does drinking pineapple juice and eating fruits really make a man's semen taste better?...

A.   29 January 2009: Good question! More men should ask! I have read in the past that tomatoes actually help it taste better! Pineapple was suggested for women but I don't see how there is a big difference! Like Stayc said some things will make it gross! No junk food! ... (read in full...)

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