I love him but he flirts with other girls, can I trust him?
Q. I am absolutely in love with an idiot and i don't know what to do. I don't want to dump him because i know i cant live without him but i think it would be better for me if i did leave him. but i cant. I think he takes me for granted. he gets off ...
A. 11 August 2010: You may think you're in love with him, and maybe you ARE, but you'll be most likely to laugh about it in the future and think, 'what did i see in that jerk?'
what i would do is leave him, because im pretty sure you two got together just by his 'cha... (read in full...)
Should you tell your friend private info even if it risks violating their personal business?
Q. I have some private info that my best friend might very much appreciate knowing. Out of respect for her and our friendship I want to tell her, but my concern is that if I do, it runs the risk of me being involved/knowing too much about her personal ...
A. 11 August 2010: i believe that you should follow your conscience and tell her, subtly, not rushing into it, but this depends on how you found out this info. if you were sticking your nose where you shouldnt have [not saying you did], then maybe you should keep this ... (read in full...)
My friend is setting me up with a guy, what do I do?
Q. Hi. I'm not sure if my friend is trying to set me up with this guy or not, lol, although she said she isnt, and i'm not sure how to respond to this email she sent to me today. She said " I will let you know about going to the cinema, i am seeing my ...
A. 10 August 2010: Lol, that is funny, probably what my crazy friend would do to me. I wouldn't worry, your friend is just really trying to help, and ignoring this guy would hurt both him and her. Think of it more as a friend date than a DATE date, even if he is not ... (read in full...)
Will she ever like me too?
Q. Hello I have found a amazing girl that I met through school and have been speaking to her for a year, we get on really well and can always make eachother laugh, I realised I had feeling for her around 8 months ago and told her 2 months later,she ...
A. 10 August 2010: Aw, hun, don't worry. Seeing as you're on your holidays [so am i!] this will be the perfect chance to paralise your relationship, and when you get back you will have so much to talk about, which will only make you closer.
You said that she does not ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend thinks my breasts are too big, is he right to ask for a reduction?
Q. I'm going out with my boyfriend 10 months and everything going well except for in the bedroom. He prefers women with smaller breasts and I've become very conscious that my 32f breasts must be a turn off to him. I used to love having my breasts ...
A. 10 August 2010: He's right, it's your body and your choice; if he truly loved you [and im not saying that he doesn't], he would love your body the way it is. Lets say you had your reduction, and in the future you break up [not saying that will happen], wont you ... (read in full...)
Do stretch marks go away?
Q. I'm 13 and I have these weird strech marks on the top of my bread area my upper thiges just random places and it not that Im fat. I'm 5'8 and around 130 pounds but I look 120 what should I do? Will they go away?...
A. 10 August 2010: sorry to break this out to you but... no, they don't.
stretch marks are like scars, they stay there forever but fade over time. You can fade it out quicker by tanning [says my auntie]. apparently theres a cream that works fading them almost comp... (read in full...)
We're teenagers and we really want to have a baby!
Q. Hi :) My boyfriend and I realllyyyyy want a baby!! We've been trying for about 2 months and it doesn't seem to work. Everyone says I'm too young for a baby, but I know this is what we want. I love my boyfriend to death, and we want a baby and ...
A. 10 August 2010: Like most people out there, i wouldn't aprove of it. you are a tiny bit younger than me, ande trust me you have ALOT ahead of you. Im not disrespecting your boyfriend, but, like many, he may just leave you after a few , stressful non-sleep nights. ... (read in full...)
Why is my abusive Ex not abusive to the new girl?
Q. well i left my abusive bf(the father of my 5 year old twins)about a year ago and i am lonely and misserable i live at my moms cause i cant afford my own place.my ex has a live in girlfriend and his own apt and he appears to be happy and not abusive ...
A. 9 August 2010: Maybe this is just the beginning. Think about it, wasn't he all lovey-dovey towards you when you two first met? This is a new girlfriend you're talking about, and so I wouldn't be surprised when it all starts again between them two in a few months. ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my brother!
Q. Me and my brother are in love with each other. He is not that related to me but from the same kindred. The problem is that we can't tell each other how we feel and its killing me inside and even if we should do, we can't date cos he is my brother. ...
A. 9 August 2010: there is nothing stopping you from dating, if you two are in love, then you have legal right to date (but not to make-out). think of him as another boyfriend to be, go out, go movies, restaurant, whatever.
there could be a rational reason to this... (read in full...)
I don't like him watching porn alone! Should I just watch it with him?
Q. I don't like my boyfriend watching porn. It makes me feel like I am not good enough for him. Just the thought of him watching other naked girls and doing the nasty with himself makes me sick. Should I just watch it with him? Would he stop watching ...
A. 9 August 2010: I wholeheartedly agree, its only natural for men to watch porn, just like women like to keep clean up a mess (was that a bad example?) he is only trying to keep up the excitement between ur relationship. if you really dont mind watching with him, ... (read in full...)
His ex-girlfriend is still in the picture
Q. Please forgive me if I seem to be rude I am just going to ask my question and might get a little into it. So please forgive me before hand. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. We had are on and off times. Our off times whe...
A. 9 August 2010: Obviously, this woman is attempting to snatch your man back into her life, because from my point of view, she hates you no less than you hate her.
If i were you, i would wait and see that, if he truly loved you, he wouldnt make out any further with... (read in full...)
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