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writes:Me and my brother are in love with each other. He is not that related to me but from the same kindred. The problem is that we can't tell each other how we feel and its killing me inside and even if we should do, we can't date cos he is my brother. Please, I really need help cos i cant get over him or should I be the first to tell him that i love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, CommandoDude  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 It's your life, your decision. There is nothing 'wrong' about wanting to date your sibling. You should only worry if it will ruin whatever platonic relationship you have now (As is the case with dating anyone)
Before you confess, try to gauge what his opinion of Incest is, by blood and by law. Try flirting and see where things go, but don't push your luck.
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reader, affectionate  +, writes (10 August 2010):
Dating your own brother huh? Is sound risky in my ear and it doesn't look like it will have a good ending. ( I feels terrible to tell you so but it is my opinion. Sorry)Are you sure that your brother feels the same way as you are? But that doesn't matter, what matter is that you should get over this emotion of your and let go of your borhter. I suggest that you confess to him about your feeling and only that! Nothing else. After you tells him your feeling, I hope that it should make you feel better. And go out there and meet more people, who know, there might be another person who "click" with you just like your brother. xoxox
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (9 August 2010):
 At such a young age have you not thought that maybe you should at least go out and try meeting some of the billions of people in the world before deciding that you love your brother??
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (9 August 2010):
 there is nothing stopping you from dating, if you two are in love, then you have legal right to date (but not to make-out). think of him as another boyfriend to be, go out, go movies, restaurant, whatever.
there could be a rational reason to this too; i recently read that there is a diagnosis called Genetic Sibling Attraction (i think thats what its called) where part-siblings are genetically attracted caused by a DNA link. im not a science freak but you should have an idea what i mean...why not search it up??
if anyone is stopping you two from falling into each others arms, then tell them to stick it where the sun dont shine..
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