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I really like him... but am I wasting my time?

Q.   Ok so Ive like this guy for about two and a half months now who I have slept with prolly six or seven times now. When we first started hanging out he was really sweet and wanted to hang out all the time but then after about a month he told me he ...

A.   25 September 2007: I tend to agree with the others. If you want more than just sex with him you'll probably be disappointed. He's a guy, and if you give it to him on a plate he'll take it, however his comments seems to suggest he feels he wants a girl to be more ... (read in full...)

Everyone and their mothers know that I like him, but does he like me back?

Q.   Ok. Here it goes. I have a bit of a problem here that has been over cliched and has been around since the beginning of time. There's this boy I like; I don't use the other term because... it seems a bit,ah,serious. Anyway, I wonder if he like me ...

A.   25 September 2007: I think you're just discovering the feelings that go on between men and women, and at the moment it means nothing at all other than that you are aware of him. You'll find that if he does like you (I'm sure he does) he'll say something to that ... (read in full...)

I can't understand why he won't give me a chance if he loves me!

Q.   can anyone help? me and my bf broke up over a month ago we where fighting a lot and i was very insecure and didnt trust him i have begged him back but he said no that he loves me but cant be with me hes not the same coz of all the fightin. he has ...

A.   25 September 2007: I think you have to examine why you wee fighting a lot. What can you say or do to show him that your insecurities have gone? In fact, I wonder whether they have, in just one month. He probably thinks the fighting will happen again and he can't ... (read in full...)

He feels nothing during sex with me and sees it as a chore... He says I'm too loose!

Q.   Hi everyone, I only had 2 sexual partners so far, one is my current boyfriend. My first boyfriend had a small penis however i had many orgasims and had sex many times a week. But my new or 2nd boyfriend who has a large penis says i am loose an...

A.   25 September 2007: He's a prize dork! First of all, how tight you are has a lot to do with how you react to being with them. Mostly the vagina contracts to hold the penis, however small or large. If he's such an oaf I guess he turns you off, which is not likely to ... (read in full...)

Went to Oktoberfest and slept with a co-worker (even though I have a girlfriend)... I'm disgusted with myself!

Q.   Dear All, I am in a world of pain. Never have I felt like this before. I went to Oktoberfest on the weekend and I slept with a girlf from work even though I have a girlfriend of 4 years. I am disgusted with my actions. This is the first time I...

A.   25 September 2007: Hm, if it was a one-off you have to decide whether telling her will ruin your relationship. Obviously you feel bad about it. I do think she should know, but timing the revelation will be tricky. Telling others was a real dumb thing to do. I ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend placed an ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend placed a personals ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do? ...

A.   25 September 2007: Really strange doing that without discussing it with you. I've met people this way, but only when my partner and I agreed it. He's way out of order... (read in full...)

I've slept w/ my friend's gf when he left. She was going to follow him, but now she loves me! What should I do?

Q.   Her bf, a friend of mine as well, left promising she should join him. That is not what he told me. Since he left we started to phone and meet almost everyday. When I opened my heart and mentioned my deep feelings she answered we could only be good ...

A.   25 September 2007: Complicated or what! Firstly her b'f should be telking to her, not you. You say he told you different, however some guys have a habit of being 2-faced, in my experience. Then you slept with her, and in your mind this means you are an item, ... (read in full...)

How do I get through to this guy that I'm already committed to my bf??

Q.   i have a friend at work who has started showing an intrest in me. have told him from the word go that i have a boyfriend whom i am commited to. He also acknowldges that he has a girlfriend but he only wants to know me better personally. He insists ...

A.   25 September 2007: You must give this guy a very definite NO, and as he's at work, if necessary you can report him to Human Resources. However before you do that make sure he knows you are serious and that you definitely want no more approaches from him.... (read in full...)

Based on our convo, do you all think this guy likes me?

Q.   I'm 18 years old and really like my friend who is 19. Just wondering what you guys think of this conov I had with him the other night on msn... Basicaly I was talking to him the other night on MSN and I was saying how most of the good guys are ei...

A.   25 September 2007: I know you asked for a reply from guys but I have to say like the other people here that this guy is weird! Be veeerrry careful! I'd give him a miss!... (read in full...)

Is it weird that I climaxed during my first time? Is it normal to be sore for days afterwards?

Q.   i recently lost my virginity and people say you never have an orgasm on the first time. Am i weird because i did?? and Is it natural to be sore for a couple of days afterwards?? ...

A.   24 September 2007: I think everyone's given good advice so far. I add my congratulations on enjoying your first time, as I did about the same age as you. Be prepared for it NOT to be quite so good every time, as moods can have a lot to do with it. Oh, and yes,... (read in full...)

Beads

Q.   When pleasuring your partner use a necklace of beads around(a mans parts) or inside (a woman) this feels good and is very pleasurable for each other....

A.   23 September 2007: That's a great tip. Juat make sure the beads are on a strong cord, or it can break and you could lose some beads inside... (fun finding them though!)... (read in full...)

What do you do if you suspect your boyfriend who you have a perfect relationship with has cheated but they swear they didn't?

Q.   What do you do if you suspect your boyfriend who you have a perfect relationship has cheated... but they swear on everything they didnt? How do you deal with this? I cant see him doing it, but I cant help but continuisly wondering 'what if' even tho ...

A.   23 September 2007: I agree with Kenny, believe him, or get out of the relationship. A long term relationship must be built on trust. If there's no trust, there's no relationship ... (read in full...)

Reading her journal, I found out she has been with over 100 men, random men. I'm disgusted, don't know what to do.

Q.   So I'm having a bit of an issue with my fiance's "loose morals" before we met. Why is this an issue now? Well, I stumbled upon her journals... I know, I made a mistake (trust me, I would have rather not known). So "A" and I have been togethe...

A.   23 September 2007: My conduct a couple of years back would have shocked most people. We go through phases. The thing is she's NOT got into trouble and you DID read her diary, something a guy should NEVER do to a girl. So I think it's 1 all and you should move on ... (read in full...)

I want my wife to quit the escort job but she wont!

Q.   i was put out of work for the last year because of an accident. the company i worked for did not have health insurance. our income was cut by 75% and my wife's job (waitress)paid very little. it soon became pretty desperate in our house. a ...

A.   23 September 2007: I can imagine how you feel, my guy was the same when I started escorting. However I was working 2-3 evenings a week, not daytime, and sometimes it was overnight which is rather different to what you describe. It's true it can become addictiv... (read in full...)

Am I experiencing an Orgasm? Not sure!

Q.   when we are doing it "doggie style" and i play with my clit, and their is a "sensation" like NO OTHER is that an orgasim?...

A.   23 September 2007: You don't know if you're having an orgasm? wow! I would have to say that for me the shattering feeling of a good clitoral orgasm (aqs against a vaginal or cervical orgasm) leaves no doubt. Do you get wetter, breath get faster? any other ... (read in full...)

I'm interested in a man unsure about the age difference between us. He's nearly 21 and I'm 17.

Q.   I have been interested with this 20 yr old guy for a while, and when we were talking the other day he said he liked me but he was unsure about the age difference. hes turning 21 3 months before i turn 18 and he thinks its weird. i told him i have no ...

A.   23 September 2007: That's no age difference at all. The key is for you to be relaxed in each other's company and to enjoy similar things. Guys tend to me more immature than us girls at the same age. ... (read in full...)

Do I shave for first time sex?

Q.   I want to have sex for my first time . But i want to know if i should shave my pubic hair ? Should i shave it all of ?...

A.   23 September 2007: Not necessary at all however you might like to trim it a bit. It depends on how much hair you have. Some guys love hair there anyway, so I think you should wait before shaving it all off. If you have hair on your labia you could shave this as it ... (read in full...)

I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that?

Q.   I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that? What is so wrong about it? What is everyone's opinion on me? ...

A.   23 September 2007: Well, I wouldn't look down on you. In the UK at least we seem to be getting rid of the idea that sex is bad, 'cos it isn't bad, it's fun! As long as you enjoy being a model and like the type of videos you make that's cool. Good luck. ... (read in full...)

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