He got married last April but has added me on Facebook again! What is he playing at?
Q. last year my ex fiance contacted me via facebook stating he wanted to be friends-there was a lot of bad history so i was happy to clear the air. then he started doing weird stuff like only contacting me early in the morning etc and showing off his ...
A. 13 March 2010: Well in that case, I guess it's better to just move on and ignore him from now on. Stop trying to "clear the air." He's married and there's nothing more you can do. ... (read in full...)
I hate the idea that my girlfriend was using birth control with her ex, I wish she had used condoms with all of her ex's!
Q. Hi. I need some good advice on how to deal with my own thoughts. Last night my fiancé asked me what kind of protection I would use before with my ex girlfriends. I told her I always used condoms. Right now my fiancé is on birth control. So she is ...
A. 12 March 2010: I hope you're feeling better about this now =)... (read in full...)
He wanted to know what makes him different to other guys I have dated, but did not seem to like the answer.
Q. I am so confused right now. I was having a discussion with my boyfriend about "what makes him different from other guys I've dated". I told him that I was going to be 100% honest, and when he asked the question, I said that he was nicer then my last ...
A. 12 March 2010: Haha, if my boyfriend just said "you're nicer" I would be upset too! I guess when we ask that question, we are expecting a more grand answer.
You weren't wrong in being honest, I'm sure he wanted to know the real reason, but I bet if you added more... (read in full...)
I need help with my thoughts of sadness and jealously over the life my partner shared with his ex.
Q. Hello everyone, I really need help dealing with my thoughts. I am in a stable long term relationship and have been for almost 3 years. Everything is going okay- we talked about marriage and we live together. However, my partner has had on...
A. 12 March 2010: Receipts, bills, certificates, material things, have no value. If those things have your partner's ex's name on them, it doesn't mean anything except her name is written on them with ink, nothing else. You shouldn't feel jealous or sad, that part of ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I have hurt his feelings and his manhood- though isn't that better than lying there and faking it?
Q. My boyfriend and I have a fantastic relationship, we've been together almost 2 years and I genuinely couldn't be happier. My problem actually came just last night, when we were about to make love, and before I had a chance to blink, he was in...
A. 12 March 2010: You could have conveyed your message in a less aggressive way. Say what you want to say in a non-attacking way. That way, no one will have to get defensive. If you had talked to him about it before and he still did it, then that would be a problem, ... (read in full...)
He got married last April but has added me on Facebook again! What is he playing at?
Q. last year my ex fiance contacted me via facebook stating he wanted to be friends-there was a lot of bad history so i was happy to clear the air. then he started doing weird stuff like only contacting me early in the morning etc and showing off his ...
A. 12 March 2010: He appreciated your relationship as he said, you were a big part of his life. I don't think he was showing off anything. He just wanted to share what's going on in his life with you. As you were on good terms, he probably thought you wouldn't see it ... (read in full...)
My nineteen year old lover wants me to leave my husband for him! I'm so confused on what to do...
Q. I've done something really bad, but it happens every Saturday night, I'm a fifty year old lady and I'm married. I've had sex with an nineteen year old and he loves it and wants me to leave my husband and live with him, I do enjoy his sex but I have ...
A. 12 March 2010: Don't leave your husband for this young guy!!! This "lad" is in it just for the thrill and won't stick around for long.
You can tell the truth to your husband, or just totally stop any form of communication with the other guy after you tell him ... (read in full...)
I hate the idea that my girlfriend was using birth control with her ex, I wish she had used condoms with all of her ex's!
Q. Hi. I need some good advice on how to deal with my own thoughts. Last night my fiancé asked me what kind of protection I would use before with my ex girlfriends. I told her I always used condoms. Right now my fiancé is on birth control. So she is ...
A. 11 March 2010: If the thought of other guys' cum inside her grosses you out, well, don't! Her body flushed those out a long time ago. And she's with you now. Obviously the other guys weren't good enough for her, and now she's with you. She loves you, aren't you ... (read in full...)
Is sex the reason why girls keep breaking up with me?
Q. i know this is a stupid question but girls always break up with me and its like after 2-3 times we have sex. And they don't say anything just personal problems, but this one girl said it's because my penis is too big, so i think it's because of ...
A. 11 March 2010: Try to find a girl who is looking for a real relationship, not just a guy to pass time with. And like Kenj said, don't rush into sex. First, get to know each other and see if it develops into the next level. If I really love a guy, I am willing to ... (read in full...)
If you are on birth control can a guy cum inside you as many times as he wants?
Q. If a guy cum so many times while you're on birth control pill, and you never miss a day. Can you still get preganent?...
A. 11 March 2010: Simple answer: yes.... (read in full...)
Is my cousin's fiancee flirting with me or am I overreacting?
Q. Right well basically i am 17 and my cousin's fiancee (soon to be huspand)is 22 i think is flirting with me. i have known him since i was 6 and we always got on really well but latley since i turned like 16 he has become a bit too over friendly. for ...
A. 11 March 2010: You're definitely NOT overreacting. What he's doing is out of the line. DON'T fall for him, I think you might be falling for the attention he's showing you, not him.
It will be hard telling your cousin, but it's something that needs to be done... (read in full...)
Should I get a boob job?
Q. I'm wondering if I should get a boob job. I've always had small breasts and yeah, it's a bit of a confidence issue for me because practically all men I know are big boob obsesed, lo, even my boyfriend, even though they "don't mind" small ones, which ...
A. 9 March 2010: My opinion is that you should forgo the surgery. Your boyfriend got with you for the right reasons, not because your breast size. He told you he "doesn't mind small ones" so trust in that.
I'm sure you know Pink, the musical artist. She does... (read in full...)
I love him but I feel unloved in return...
Q. my boyfriend and i use to be very close. we used to see each other at least 3 times a week because the rest of the days he worked full time but now he's taken the whole week for work only left with 2 days off and now he doesnt want to spend them ...
A. 9 March 2010: I've had a relationship where it is the same thing; I ask if he wants us to be together, he says yes, but if he isn't happy with me, then just tell me so we can go separate ways!
After getting comfortable in a relationship, guys (in my expe... (read in full...)
He calls me his "woman" but he wont call me his "girlfriend"
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a little over a month. I have known hi for two years prior to dating as we are in our doctoral program together. Since our first date we have spent every day and night together except three. We text all day from wor...
A. 7 March 2010: "My girlfriend, lady, woman, girl," they all mean the same thing to me. I actually like "my woman" better than "girlfriend."
But if it bothers you, and you've talked to him about this, I wonder why he's so adamant on still calling you "his woma... (read in full...)
Vivid images of her past won't go away.
Q. im aware how unoriginal this question is but it would b nice 2 reassure im not the only 1 out there and 2 hear any similar situations or opposite sex opinions (advice)as long as their not the usual "past is the past let it go" answer... i SO ...
A. 6 March 2010: Well, you asked and got answers. It's a normal thing now for people to have had multiple partners in the past and for them to have sex. It's a natural for two people to have sex, even your parents did it (sorry to add more unpleasant imagery). Don't ... (read in full...)
Military ruined the perfect relationship.
Q. I just broke up with the woman of my dreams, and I desperately want her back. Now to understand this problem,you need to understand the nature of my enlistment, and the circumstances of me meeting up with this wonderfull girl. I come from a f...
A. 6 March 2010: Why did she call it off? It seemed like your relationship, even though it was long distance, was going pretty well.
Long distance relationships do work, especially if the two people are in love as you both seemed to be.
But, if it really is over ... (read in full...)
Shaven or not?
Q. A simple question to ask, for both males and females if you please: Shaven pubic region or unshaven pubic region? I myself find shaven definitely more preferable, and don't say you like both, because you are bound to like one at least sligh...
A. 6 March 2010: On myself, I don't like completely shaven; neat and trimmed is what I prefer. On my guy, I would say the same thing, but ultimately, I really don't care. ... (read in full...)
Is pubic hair on a guy more acceptable than on a girl?
Q. Well, I have been very close to my boyfriend and we talked about sexual things. Not sex though. We talked about fingering and hand jobs and I gave him a hand job. He hasnt fingered me though. Not to share this to the world but he has pubic hair and ...
A. 2 March 2010: So long as it's an adult human being we're talking about - male or female - he or she is going to have pubic hair.
You said he doesn't shave, and you guys are just starting to experiment, so I don't think he's of the opinion that you should be comp... (read in full...)
What does this comment mean from a random girl on my boyfriend's Facebook wall?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a distance relationship. This past weekend he went for some homecoming event and after the event he called me and we talked. Just recently a random girl who's on his friend's list leaves this comment on his wall "Just w...
A. 23 February 2010: I believe there's nothing to worry about with what the girl wrote. It's just a "hello" from someone.
From what you've said about your boyfriend, it sounds like he's a caring, understanding guy.
Relax, think positively, and hopefully you'll l... (read in full...)
Why are men so cruel when it comes to dating us curvier women?
Q. Ok..I previously posted a question...I went on a blind date with a gentlement who I was talking to for 2 weeks..we were constantly on the phone and texting galore..It felt fantastic, he learned about me and I of him... I'm not big, but I'm not a ...
A. 23 February 2010: Think positively. These guys not responding could be a good thing; they won't be hurting you in the future. If all a guy cares about is a girl's size, then so be it. They probably won't be in functional relationships down the road.
Don't give a s... (read in full...)
Should I flirt with my teacher and then report him?
Q. Hear me out on this, I'm not just one of those girls thats "in love" with their teacher, I want to know if I should report him for this or not. So I'm a sophomore in high school, I'm 15 and my teacher is like 30, and he always acts really flir...
A. 20 February 2010: Those are things a teacher shouldn't be saying or doing.
I don't think you should flirt back, but maybe do report him. ... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy is married?
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I would like you to put your detective hats on and help me out please. The Brief: So I've known this guy for a few months but I have a suspicion that he may be married and would really like your opinion. Facts: Sinc...
A. 19 February 2010: Well, it could be that he's married, or that he has a girlfriend. His behavior does seem sneaky. Ask him, that's the only way to know for sure.... (read in full...)
Why is he here with me when he has openly admitted he still loves his high-school sweetheart?
Q. Little back ground on us... My husband and I met on-line in spring 2005. We had a long distant relationship for a very short while before he asked me to move to Maine from Ohio to be with him, so I did... what did I have to lose right? I was single, ...
A. 18 February 2010: I believe the only reason he came back to you is because the other woman is not willing to move. You have every right to question him about anything you want dealing with this situation. He was going to leave you but then doesn't think you should ... (read in full...)
My Prince Charming says he'll only stay with me if I give our baby up for adoption.
Q. Hi, i am 18 years old, i am having a baby, i am 17weeks today, me and the father are together but he says he will be with and stay with me if i give the baby up for adoption, and if i keep it he will leave, I am stuck in a rut and im not sure what ...
A. 17 February 2010: First decide what YOU want to do with the baby. Your boyfriend shouldn't be the one giving you ultimatums, especially when it's something like this. How can he make you choose between him and the baby?!
You're going to be the one who has to live... (read in full...)
Is there any way to determine if a much younger woman is attracted to you? What do I look out for?
Q. I am attracted to this younger lady whom I would guess is around 20 years old I am fifty but my question is is there a way to determine if a younger much younger girl is attracted to someone like me who is fit? Are there signs I can watch for th...
A. 15 February 2010: I would say a girl is attracted to you if she: constantly looks at you, tries to get your attention, dresses more nicely around you, is smiling whenever you face her, tries to make conversation with you, stays close to you, laughs more often when ... (read in full...)
30 years old and never got my first kiss!!!
Q. I have strange question - pathetic really, I am 30 years old and never got my first kiss. Can someone tell what a kiss feels because I'll never be kissed due to my appearance. I'd really love to know. If you're wondering why it's because guy...
A. 14 February 2010: Some people get kissed earlier on in their life but never find that one right person; others get kissed by the one perfect person even though the first kiss came late in their life. Like CaringGuy said, maybe you're not meeting the right men. ... (read in full...)
He said I'm loose but I've NEVER had sex with anyone else! How can this be?
Q. okay so last night me and my boyfriend we just laying there cuddling and talking and he told me i was loose..... and he was serious... he said its the most noticeable when hes on top which is one of my favourite positions.... hes the only guy ive ...
A. 14 February 2010: What an inconsiderate, foolish thing of him to say! Maybe it's him that's too small? He's talking like he has experience, which he clearly does not. Don't feel embarrassed about your body one bit. You're normal, don't let what he said affect yo... (read in full...)
Guys showing interest only because of my breasts?
Q. Can guys be interested in a girl just because of her breasts? I feel like the only reason guys are interested in me is my breasts, like that's the only thing they see. I obviously want a guy to like me for everything that I am, not just to get ...
A. 14 February 2010: Just a little note: I don't expose my breasts or anything. So it's not like I'm asking for attention by using them.
It's just that they're there, and it makes me self-conscious. I start thinking, "is this guy interested in me or just the boob... (read in full...)
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