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30 years old and never got my first kiss!!!

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Question - (14 February 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have strange question - pathetic really, I am 30 years old and never got my first kiss. Can someone tell what a kiss feels because I'll never be kissed due to my appearance.

I'd really love to know. If you're wondering why it's because guys are too busy and seem to constantly reject me...

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (15 February 2010):

And what is wrong with your appearance? I saw a woman who was born with no legs and no arms and she is happily married with 4 children. My best friend who used to say the same thing because she is an Albino is having her second child. I once watched a show on 2 burn victims, where the woman was so severely burnt she lost an eye, had no nose and no ears or hair and she was getting married to a guy with burns and their families were so happy. And what's your disfigurement that makes guys ignore you so we can understand a little more?

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A male reader, Spear South Africa +, writes (14 February 2010):

You need to get out more believe me there's some-one 4 every-one ur 30 and no kiss u better get cracking time waits 4 no-one i dont know what u look like but ive seen some really fugly people with partners stop beating urself up if u truly have a physical flaw or two work with what u have remember people respond to how u carry yourself .it feels wet hot and sexy as hell.now go experience it 4 yourself! X

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010):

female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am meeting them in sports training,courses, some times odd pub but not much else.takes me at least 4 years for the pain of rejection to stop hurting.4 years lost due hurt.and they guy rejected me does n,t even care or give a fuck.they,ll move on the next girl.all i was mistake he wish he never knew.

i am toctaly forgotten about the next day.but i haven,t i cry and cry till i can cry no more

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010):

A kiss can be gross or wonderful. It depends on your connection with the person.

It feels like doing something really pleasurable. like sucking a lollipop or licking ice cream. It engages the mouth and it feels nice for the mouth, kind of like a massage for the mouth, but not really. It is just something the mouth enjoys doing.

But you are shy and insecure. No matter how ugly you are, there is someone out there who will want to kiss you.

The real problem here is that deep down you probably don't really want to kiss someone. People always get what they expect.

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A female reader, ElectricSheep United States +, writes (14 February 2010):

ElectricSheep agony auntSome people get kissed earlier on in their life but never find that one right person; others get kissed by the one perfect person even though the first kiss came late in their life.

Like CaringGuy said, maybe you're not meeting the right men.

As for it being due to your appearance, I'm sure you don't look as bad as you think.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2010):

Guys are too busy and reject you? It#s more likely that you're not meeting the right men. Where are you meeting them?

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