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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i use to be very close. we used to see each other at least 3 times a week because the rest of the days he worked full time but now he's taken the whole week for work only left with 2 days off and now he doesnt want to spend them with me. instead he brings me once a week to his house to spend the night with him. he never expressed his love to me, i always do it. he now shares his days off with his friends. i confronted him and told him i miss him why doesnt he atleast spend hours with me, and he says i will try. he says he need to make time fir his friends. but then when the day comes, he makes up an excuse. our sex life isnt good. its like he doesnt care anymore. when i tell him do you wanna be with me he says yes. but if you're not happy with me then leave its your choice..so im really asking for help what should i do? i love him but i feel unloved
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reader, ElectricSheep +, writes (9 March 2010):
 I've had a relationship where it is the same thing; I ask if he wants us to be together, he says yes, but if he isn't happy with me, then just tell me so we can go separate ways!
After getting comfortable in a relationship, guys (in my experience) will tend to become less romantic. There's no need to try anymore cause you're together now. That's no excuse to ignore us girls though. We do, however, need to give our guys some space.
If he keeps making up excuses to not spend time with you, that is a problem. Have a talk with him and tell him that he needs to show his love for you, and that he needs to spend time with you. If he rejects that or doesn't take it seriously, then break the news to him that you're not willing to stay with a person who doesn't reciprocate the love.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (9 March 2010):
 Oh Honey! He does not love you. STOP having sex with him now. He is using you just for that. This is not what love feels like. Move on. This guy is a cad
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