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I seduced the man who will soon be my stepfather

Q.   So, in reality I know this is wrong but it feels like so right. Well it like all started when this man moved in with my mother! Within 6 months they were engaged and he was a very considerate step dad. Then things took a weird turn, i started ...

A.   7 June 2010: Wow, and wow, good luck to you, if he's so weak he's that easy to tempt then you two will be very happy together especially since you'll probably lose your mother and your family and if this relationship breaks down who are you going to run to, the ... (read in full...)

I'm leading a double life: sleeping around yet implying I want to be committed. Why can't I be normal?

Q.   So here's the thing, I can't talk to any of my friends or family about this because I have lied to them and made my life to be something more honorable than it really is. I have a hard time NOT sleeping with guys when I get the chance to, not a...

A.   7 June 2010: Maybe when you feel down or depressed not to use sex as a crutch. Be honest with yourself and this guy, talk openly and freely, tell him how you feel, if you guys are really that close to being "official" it might hurt him terribly to know that ... (read in full...)

Does the other man ever end up with the wife?

Q.   I am a very picky man. I dated a lot of woman and I for some reason I fell for a married woman with a child. We fell for each other, she is in a very unhappy marriage. She immediately kicked him out of her house as soon as we started our ...

A.   7 June 2010: How nice, seeing as you're very picky maybe you should think of the daughter, it's not all about you, marriage is marriage, she cheated and you helped, she may not have loved him as much as he did but that's his wife and child..HIS FAMILY. If they ... (read in full...)

She kissed another guy and I think she told me before someone else did

Q.   Should I be worried?? Ok basically im 18 and so is my gf , we have been together for almost 2 years now. I am her first serious relationship and she is mine. After about 4 months of being together it was a close friends of hers birthday a...

A.   29 May 2010: When you say boys have tried to kiss her, what makes them believe they have the pass to actually try to kiss her, unless she's leading them on? Once maybe but three times! Thing is if you continue this relationship as time goes on, everytime she ... (read in full...)

Do I confront her with the discovery of her email?

Q.   I recently discovered my long-term partner had been exchanging messages with an ex boyfriend on Facebook. I work away a lot and these exchanges took place while I was away in January. What concerns me is not so much that she contacted this g...

A.   27 May 2010: I find it strange people are saying ignore the emails, a relationship is dead if the two parties can't trust each other, but what's done is done, he's snooped and found these emails and she's written and made it quite obvious that the dude can only ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my boyfriend's friend

Q.   I just have a horrible feeling now, I'm dating with my boyfriend for a year and after Ive graduated, he helped to get a job and that's the beginning of this messy problem for me,...He called his friend just to help me to get a job in the same ...

A.   27 May 2010: Leave your boyfriend, save him the hurt of getting screwed over by his girlfriend and friend... (read in full...)

Wife has seen our friend naked and says its not big deal!

Q.   Not sure what to do. My wife and I are married a few years. We started dating in high school, and got married after dating almost 3 years. She has this male friend who she grew up next to, he was a neighbor, and they never dated but were friends ...

A.   18 May 2010: What is this nonsense, friend or no friend, this guy should respect another's man's home and privacy. You dont go into another man's house to work out, then shower and ask for bottled water whilst you're naked. This is nonsense, if your wife can't ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him that she cheated?

Q.   I am in the trickest, most childish situation i have been in, in a long time. Im 19 years old and ive been best friends with two girls for a very long time. One is a childhood friend and has been there since birth, and the other i met in highschoo...

A.   6 April 2010: umm the fact that this girl is sleeping around like that and it may be unprotected, doesn't this guy have a right to know his health might be in jeopardy. Tell him on the low, this girl doesn't deserve any respect what so ever.... (read in full...)

How do I get the video off her???

Q.   This is hard for me to confess, I have been married for 15 years and I am very in love with my husband but I have cheated on him with another girl for 5 years. I care about my girlfriend and feel comfortable with her and love our intimacy a lot but ...

A.   25 March 2010: You want to be honest yet you cheated for 5 years? There are consequences when you do this sort of thing, no doubt you were comfortable amid all the lies yet this is your reality check. There is no magic way to tell someone it's over then hope ... (read in full...)

I know he is married, ..but I like him!

Q.   there this guy that i work with 2 days a week, he's married. we exchanged numbers due to work contact. he starting texting me and we were having a banter and joke for a few days. i saw him at work 3 days later and we were really flirty. he has sent ...

A.   25 March 2010: ummm make of it he's married and he has a wife and he's off limits..as nice as he is to you, you'd still be cheating.... (read in full...)

How can I ever trust someone ever again after what she did to me?

Q.   i was dating this girl for a while, but she hooked up with somone else, got pregnant,and basically started pretending i didnt exist. she ignored all my textes,and didnt answer her phone when i called. we were extremely close and my question is, feel...

A.   22 March 2010: Better you learn the type of person she is now than to find out later when you would have much more involved for example marriage. It's a cliché but time is a healer, be stronger brother.... (read in full...)

My good friends girlfriend kissed me.

Q.   About 6 months ago a friend that I've known for some time now moved across state for a change of scenery and to attend college. He left behind his girlfriend of 4 years. They did not break up and are currently together. We all graduated high school ...

A.   21 March 2010: What a great friend and girlfriend your mate has! His girlfriend loves him but kisses his best friend and his best friend keeps sleeping over at her place. What advice are you looking for exactly? You know the right thing to do by your friend..it's ... (read in full...)

He found out I have a boyfriend and wants to move on. How can I make him believe I would not go back if I left my partner?

Q.   Ive been feeling like this for the past couple of months and i need some advice. ive been dating this guy for almost 3 1/2 yrs. And right now its all going downhill but he doesnt know....... he thinks everything is okay and normal. Anyways when i...

A.   13 March 2010: "And when I like someone I dont give up like that. i asked him what is he afraid of and he says hes scared that i might go back to my ex and i said no but he doesnt believe me how do i make him" But you're still with your boyfriend, who thinks ... (read in full...)

I slept with my ex and now he is blackmailing me claiming he will tell my boyfriend!

Q.   i was in a relationship with a physco he got angry a lot, and destroyed me emotionally as well. he stopped me seeing my friends and told me who i was and wasnt allowed to see. and got rid of all my friends. i found a new guy hes amazing, i left my ...

A.   4 March 2010: I guess it's the pull of a bad boy, your boyfriend is so caring and sweet, yet you went back to your ex..life has consequences, and seeing you are so mind wrecked by this guy that if you split from your boyfriend you'd go back to him says maybe ... (read in full...)

How to end a long-term relationship with a manipuator?

Q.   I caught my girlfriend sleeping at this other guy's house who she previously promised not to ever see again. Her car was parked in front. This has happened a few times over the past couple years (we've been together almost 5) and I always forgive. I ...

A.   26 February 2010: It's all about her respect for you and most importantly the respect you have for yourself. Isn't it enough that you tell her not to go to this guy's house and she keeps going there? If she doesn't respect or love you enough to stay away from this ... (read in full...)

I wanted to leave my boyfriend, but he made me feel guilty. Now I am cheating on him with the guy I liked. What should I do?

Q.   i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years in november as i had feelings for someone else. after seeing how hurt he was i got back with him the day after. it was a rushed decision, just like the decision for him to move in with me and book a £4000 ...

A.   25 February 2010: Why exactly are you looking for from here, you're cheating on your boyfriend because you didn't have the guts to say no when you really didn't want to be with him, you know what you have to do but don't have the guts to do it yourself. Tell the guy ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to sleep with a married woman and I don't think it's right!

Q.   I'm a 25 year old female that has been dating a 34 year old man for 5 years. He recently came into contact with a former female college friend and they've been flirting online. Now, he plans to meet with her this weekend to go to a concert. He goes ...

A.   29 January 2010: See how your boyfriend feels when you have a threesome with another guy who's gifted...yes it's immature but this guy seems to need his ego stroked and you pandering to his whims while he waxes lyrical BS about different ethics will only serve to ... (read in full...)

Am I overreacting to her relationship with her ex?

Q.   I would like some opinion on what kind of interactions should be considered OK between Ex-es if they are both in other relationship already? Some back story: My gf and I has been together for almost 2 years now, we have a great relationship and...

A.   28 September 2009: She should consider your feeling too, maybe you might have over looked the going to dinner bit but for him to then ask her out to a game, that's another thing altogether. ... (read in full...)

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