I want to be cruel to be kind to G/f
Q. Girlfreind went out, was ment to go with me, said she wasnt going, found out she lied and did go out without me, she has done this about 5 times. how do i teach her a lesson other than threatening to or actually leaving? i want to be cruel t...
A. 28 November 2009: There has to be a reason why she is lying to you, and you need to find out what it is, so ask her!
I understand that shes not doing the right thing by lying to you but you wouldnt be doing the right thing either by trying to teach her a lesson (... (read in full...)
My virgin girlfriend doesn't want to have sex. What do I do now?
Q. I have a girlfriend and she is a virgin and i want 2 hav sex with her but she refused.so i don't know what 2 do....
A. 28 November 2009: OKAY what you have to understand is that for most girls their virginitiy is like a precious stone which they dont want jus anyone taking away from them.
they want to know that the person cares about them, they can trust that person, he isnt jus... (read in full...)
What are these small lumps and pimples?
Q. hello,im embarrass already but since recently these little lumps keep showing up on my vagina(vulva)and trust me they are very painful.yes sexually active but i have always practiced safe sex so i dnt think its a std moreover,when ever i shave these ...
A. 28 November 2009: It might be because ur shaving or your allergic to some sort of soap or shaving gel you might be using, try hair removal cream instead of shaving, and also consult your doctor (i know embarassing right? but its better to be safe than sorry and they ... (read in full...)
Suddenly she wants to slow things down. What's going on?
Q. Please help me, I feel so lost and helpless. Been with my beautiful lady for three years now, discussed wedding and living together etc. Happiest I have ever been in my life. Recently she tells me she cant love me properly, says we should cool...
A. 28 November 2009: OKAY heres what to do, reassure her that she doesnt need to change anything about her you love her for who she is, sit her down hold her hand and talk to her gently telling her you can't live without her and you can help her through this question of ... (read in full...)
Got drunk last night and don't remember anything. Everyone is mad at me.
Q. As i write this i am comming off a major drinking night. My friends and wife told me for weeks they know me drunk but i never been to drunk around them. I told everyone i was a nasty person drunk. So i got shitfaced last night. I have no idea what i ...
A. 28 November 2009: Theres nothing much you can do now tbh,
just apologize to those who are mad at them tell them you cannot remember and if u done anything to upset them then ur awfully sorry,
and if ur really bad when drunk, then in the future dont drink too mu... (read in full...)
I know guys do, but do girls cum too?
Q. Why and how do girls cum? I know us guys can but gals?...
A. 28 November 2009: Yes girls do cum
when they reach an orgasm sum girls cum but its not alot
:) D.Gx... (read in full...)
I have a list, but no woman to match it.
Q. I don't know what I do wrong? I am 21 years old. I graduate with a Bachelors Degree in 3 mo. Live alone in a nice apartment. I work out about 3-4 times a week. I am handsome a leader and usually decently confident. I have NEVER cheat...
A. 28 November 2009: OMG you sound like such the PERFECT guy,
most girls dream of a guy like you for ages and never have him turning up!
I suppose that maybe you might be wanting too much in a girl though maybe every girl can't tick all the boxes
Heck you might ... (read in full...)
My teacher told me he loves me too much to have a relationship with me.
Q. Hi. My teacher told me that he loves me too much to do anything about it. I'm 14 and he is 30. He has taught me for the past 2 years. It started just basic flirting really, he stares and smiles at me, touches my shoulders, hands etc. He asks my ...
A. 28 November 2009: This is LUST not LOVE okay!
u are 14 he is 30
1. your underage
2. he is ur teacher he cud get the sack
3. its illegal he'll be put into prison
4. he'll never be able to work with children again
5. if anyone found out you would have to leav... (read in full...)
I'm only 14 and he wants to have sex with me even although he has a girlfriend. Am I being played?
Q. I am fourteen years old and last year I had this "thing" with this guy. He has had a girlfriend for the past six months but now he wants to have sex with me. I really do want to have sex with him and have him be my first but I don't know because he ...
A. 28 November 2009: Do not have sex with him!
sounds like this guy is only after one thing from you, he is already in a relationship whatever 'thing' you have with him needs to be ended and u shud move on!
its for ur own good otherwise he'l only hurt u hun
:) ... (read in full...)
Betrayed by a friend I fancied
Q. Hi all I fancied a friend of mine who I had been helping out. I am a gay man and so is he. What happened is I kept hugging him when he was upset and we rubbed each others shoulders, I ended up rubbing his face and he didn't like it. He told m...
A. 28 November 2009: I can definatley see why u threw them out, it wernt the fact that he did not fancy u bk it was the fact that he was shagging sum1 in ur brovas bed, thats way wring especially for a friend.
He shud be apologising not say that ur doing it because u fa... (read in full...)
Should I pursue my friend's ex boyfriend?
Q. Ok here's what went down. I like this boy. But he dated a friend of mine. He only went out with her because he wanted to see if there's was chemistry...and there wasn't. So he dumped her. Now I want to ask him out, but my friend still likes him, and ...
A. 28 November 2009: Okay ive actually been with my friend ex before and she wasnt happy at all about however she had forgiven me after a period of time and now we are still best friends like we were before.
Tell her that u like him and check what reaction you get,... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so depressed over my lack of experience with girls?
Q. 17 never been kissed all my friends been kissed,lost there v had there first proper experiences etc and there happy everyone I know is but I'm not and I have not had anyone ever? closest thing I've ever had to a girl is online twice and I just got ...
A. 27 November 2009: HI
Now i know how it feels when all ur friends have had the 'experience' you feel like the odd one out. But ur not! Its just that its not ur time yet, doesnt mean ur never gona get laid or kiss a girl.
Heck my mates 20 and he has just lost hi... (read in full...)
Ex and facebook behaviro..need advise!
Q. So, the ex is still the ex. She has done some pretty odd things that I have written about on her many times. It was her choice to break up with me and then get back, then break up after creating some more drama. Since September, a drunk dial, an ...
A. 27 November 2009: you wont have the hassle if you block her
do it block her!! she wont annoy you then, otherwise she'll keep doing it, tbh i done the same to my ex just to see if he wud notice and write to me or sumfink *(i know it sounds crazy but women find it ... (read in full...)
Why is it more likely for pretty girls to be sluts?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I don't mean to speculate but look at all of the single, hot women that exist in the world today. Can't they just find a man to stay with in a long-term relationship or marriage, even an open relationship? Why does seem more l...
A. 27 November 2009: okay i think thats very judgemental not all pretty girls are sluts!!
Sometimes it can be harder for because you end up getting alot of attention from loads of guys so its hard to make up ur mind i know that might sound bad but its true... and wat ... (read in full...)
Awful step mum!
Q. This is going to be long, i really appriciate anyone who takes the time to read this and any advice I will be sososo happy with!(: Ok, I'm 15, and my mum and dad split up when I was 5. I've always been close to my dad. He see's me about one a month,...
A. 26 November 2009: It sounds like she was threatendded by the bond that you had with your father and she didnt want him to choose you over her so she has been acting quite harsh towards you so you will stay further away from you father..
You really need to speak to... (read in full...)
What to say to a girl when she's on her period for fear of upsetting her?
Q. I need help on talking to this girl, I don't know what to say to her because she's on her period and I'm afraid I'll say something and that she will take it the wrong way, or something I need tips, I'm a pretty opened up person too, I can make a lot ...
A. 26 November 2009: OKay, not all women are emotional when their on a period, if your planning on asking her out maybe that might cheer her up, if ur already seeing her tell her something nice about herself to make her feel better, if shes just a friend then act normal ... (read in full...)
Do I have to compromise myself to attract a man?
Q. I am a 20 year old virgin who has never had much luck with guys. I'm not thin (however, I'm not obese: I'm just slightly overweight), I don't have any self confidence in my appearance, and I do not pretend to be something I'm not! Usually, when I ...
A. 26 November 2009: I think its pretty damn cool that you wanna be urself,
im fed up of girls being something their not just to impress someone thats being 'fake'
and yeh it is possible to do so, just find a hobby you like doing or join some club or anything you... (read in full...)
So confused about my sexuality...
Q. I'm 14, female, and well I thought I was gay. I have always found girls attractive. I have had a couple boyfriends, but I felt bad because I never really "liked" them. I've had very strong feelings for girls. I've even told a girl that I love her. I ...
A. 26 November 2009: Im sorry i know this isnt really much advice but i really want to know how you know at that age what you want to be??
I mean you've sed you have had a 'couple' of boyfriends, your only 14 dont you think ur rushing yourself abit??
I know this m... (read in full...)
I am new to the dating scene Please help me interpret this mans actions!
Q. Please help me interpret this mans actions: I am new to the dating scene and am terrified of it. I met a cute guy today and we were talking for a few minutes. In that short time, he told me I was hot two times and tried to hug me. This was the first ...
A. 26 November 2009: Hey, i completely agree with caring guy here,
and also if you have a gut feeling that a guy just wants sex its never to early to tell him that your not just after sex because then they have 2 options they leave ya alone and walk away or they act... (read in full...)
We have nothing in common so why do I miss him?
Q. I am friends with a guy whom I met at work. He is 3 years my junior. We seem to get on well when we hang out, apart from his music taste. He has an enthusiasm for rock music, or songs of that genre, and he also enjoys playing the bass lines to them ...
A. 26 November 2009: Yes, Its normal to miss your guy friends and also normal to find stuff you dont like that they do like.
If your wondering wether he's more than a friend then i think he's not tbh.
:) D.Gx... (read in full...)
Do I say anything to him... or don't I?
Q. Ok this may sound simple but this is a tough one because my mate means more to me than anyone on this earth! I have two options: Option 1 = I tell him i love him (he already knows i like him he's been told before by a mate of mine and i a...
A. 26 November 2009: OMG i had the exact same problems, and i didnt say anything to him and do you know what happended?
He ended up with the girl he thought was really fit :(
I still regret not telling him to this day because i moved away afterwards and h... (read in full...)
Is this guy actually interested or not?
Q. I met a guy on the bus exactly a week ago Basically, something that happened on the bus made me laugh and I really couldn't stop laughing! We were squashed up at the front of the bus as it was rush hour so there wasn't any seats. Anyway, he laugh...
A. 25 November 2009: I agree with emilyanswers, you havn't even known him that long he could have been lying to you, he might no have really been from your area or like she said he could have been a serial killer (joking honest).
I think it was just one of those da... (read in full...)
I'm female and in love with a "straight" girl!
Q. Ok so I'm bisexual and I'm in love with this amazing girl. She really is just amazing in every way. But anyway, we've always seemed to have a bit of tension between us and I had noticed her to be different around me than with other people. Other ...
A. 25 November 2009: I dont think she is gay tbh, i think that the way she acts is just making your mind think she is. Some girls can flirt with other girls with out even realising they are doing it, truthfully i think shes just a friend wih strong views thats all.
... (read in full...)
Help! I like him... but does he like me enough???
Q. Okay. I've had a few relationships, most of them ended badly. I go for the 'bad boy' type I think. I've been cheated on a lot and it's really knocked my confidence. Recently I met a guy who I really liked, but he got really clingy, and then I met on...
A. 25 November 2009: He's telling you the truth hun he's no good for you,
guys like that never are and you'll only get hurt once again, some women or girls honestly believe that they can change a guy and turn him into someone that they like, but it never happens, if h... (read in full...)
How do I make him understand it's over?
Q. I have been "talking" to this guy for a little over a year. i know want to break it off. i told him what broung me to thim decision and he does not want to except that. how do i make him understand it's over? help me please!!...
A. 25 November 2009: You have done all you can hun,
why isnt he getting it then? is he still pestering you or something?
My friends BF found it really hard to get over their relationship and he just wouldnt take no for an answer so the best way she handled it was b... (read in full...)
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