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Well i'm a former Londoner (still am 1 at heart) living in the west of England.

what qualifies me to help? all i can say to that is life,

I've was rapped by my brother between 13 and 15 yrs old. parrents divoiced when v.young natural mother died, father and step mother bankrupt during my teens and the whole school knowing very publicly. didnt find first girlfriend till 27 and lost virginity at 29, 4 collasped lungs (same one 4 times) lots of other things as well but they are the real live changers.

also have always been the one friends turn to with problems just wish i took my own advise somtimes.

i not a religous person but my fiance is quite (bends the rules a little here and there). the world would be a much better place if people live and let live when it comes to religion.

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It's been 7 months since I last had Sex, and it's driving me mad! Any advice?

Q.   Hi Aunts. It's been 7 months since I last had Sex. My girlfriend split with me about 6 months ago after dating for a year and 10 months, and I still love her and miss her and the relationship we once had. She has since gone off to college and is n...

A.   18 October 2007: if you need her that much hop on a train and go and see her for the week end. if you book tickets early you can get them very cheap (for me to get to london 12 quid return any day down from anything up to 80). As for the hand thing come on mate ... (read in full...)

I'm never in the mood for sex when the opportunity arises. Help me!

Q.   I'm 19 and my boyfriend of a little over 2 years is 22, we have a great relationship and we love each other to death but lately my sex drive has been down. Usually people as young as us are consantly having sex but lately i think about sex a lot but ...

A.   17 October 2007: It will proberbly be just one of thos things, after only a week and a half you have nothing to worry about you cant always be hot to trot. If it carries on for a few months speak to your doctor they should be able to help. also have you started ... (read in full...)

Does anybody have any experiences with I.U.D?

Q.   Has anyone out there gotten the i.u.d. Intra-uterine device? It is a method of birth ctrl. for those who do not know. I am pregnant for the 2nd time in 2 years, and I am happy but we don't want anymore kids after this one. Just wondering about ...

A.   17 October 2007: just had a quick look on the net and it can last 3-10 years look at http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/contr_iud.shtml also just type Intra-uterine device into google and loads of sites come up. but your right never ha... (read in full...)

It's been 7 months since I last had Sex, and it's driving me mad! Any advice?

Q.   Hi Aunts. It's been 7 months since I last had Sex. My girlfriend split with me about 6 months ago after dating for a year and 10 months, and I still love her and miss her and the relationship we once had. She has since gone off to college and is n...

A.   17 October 2007: As the other guys say dont worry about it i havent had any for a year and still with my fiance you have inter net there are plenty of sites out there that can help relieve the pressure if you know what i mean. mail me if you need a couple of free ... (read in full...)

I am simply not used to being with a man who can touch a woman and not want her. We have sex once a week; he says it'd be more often if I complained less!

Q.   For whatever reason of his, we started having sex once a week. I complain and he says that if I complained less we would have sex more often. I am tormented and depressed. I still talk to him about my unmet needs, it's like a therapy for me, but I ...

A.   17 October 2007: many men like many women just go of sex, try not to force the matter otherwise it will put him off more my partner and i havent had sex in over a year now we only see each other at weekends and she is just never in the mood. have you tried addi... (read in full...)

This lump on my left breast has become painful. My mother says my body is changing. Should I see a doctor?

Q.   i found a lump on my left breast a couple of weeks ago and didnt know what it was so i just left it as i thought it might go away by its self. but its still there and its become painful. i told my mum about it and she sed it will just be because my ...

A.   17 October 2007: it is most likly it is just your body changing but see your doctor as soon as you can to put your mind at rest, also if there is anything wrong the sooner it is found the better. ... (read in full...)

Have I lost my virginity?

Q.   hey, i am a uni student and a virgin and have been seeing this guy for about a little while but he's not yet my proper boyfriend. However, the other day we were just like fooling around in his room and then he put his penis inside of me but i told ...

A.   17 October 2007: HOW on earth can your not proper boyfriend get into a position to be able to put his penis in you without your consent? Technically yes he could have taken your virginity, but then technically you could also have lost it riding a bike or by using ... (read in full...)

My virgin girlfriend is very tight. Is this normal?

Q.   I am 19 and in love with my school sweetheart of 4months again, both virgins. we tried it last night for the first time, after she had pleasured me 4/5 times. I could not get hard enough to penetrate properly as she is quite tight. Is this normal, ...

A.   17 October 2007: i had the same problem with my fiance, in the end it was forth time lucky. 1st time i just couldnt get it up enough as was bricking it not wanting to hurt her. next time i got just past the entrance and she wanted to stop as it hurt to much, next ... (read in full...)

Are there any good women in the world?

Q.   Are there any good women in the world? Everywhere I look they always seem to be horrible. Doesn't help when the last 2 girls I dated were snidy even though they dumped me after 3 and 1 dates respectively. I was nice to them. ...

A.   17 October 2007: There are plenty of good women out there they are just hidden away. until i found my near perfect fiance (she farts worse than me and my dad put together so loses some points) i always had problems the main one been i was to nice, in nature terms ... (read in full...)

Is it stress or am I pregnant?

Q.   Hey i need help please!! Okay you get asked this everyday im sure. But please be a little patient with me im 16 years old and scared to death. Ok me and my boyfriend have had sex WITHOUT protection, VERY stupid thing i know but it happened and...

A.   17 October 2007: The symptoms you describe can be related to stress but it is impossible to tell without getting a test done. If you feel you can’t go to your doctors (if you don’t want to do a home test) try going to your local walk in centre. I would advise doing ... (read in full...)

Why can't he be intimate with me?

Q.   what does it mean when your boyfriend says he can't be intimate with you because he is unsure about 'us' but still continues to say he loves you?...

A.   16 October 2007: i do applogise for the start of my reply i was usins word to spell check must of had a cut and paste error soz... (read in full...)

Why can't he be intimate with me?

Q.   what does it mean when your boyfriend says he can't be intimate with you because he is unsure about 'us' but still continues to say he loves you?...

A.   16 October 2007: Penis you can love someone as a person in many ways, you need to try and have a proper talk with him but be prepared to hit a brick wall as most men don’t talk about their feelings, it is very likely he has been badly hurt in the past which makes ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin. Shall I pretend that I'm not?

Q.   Hi...im a sophomore in high school and well most of my friends along with myself have went into high school as a virgin but most of my friends have lost it this year i dont feel pressured into losing it but when they talk about how everything ...

A.   16 October 2007: dont pretend to be what your not, i did and it never did me any good. the only person who i didnt lie to was my current partner who i lost it to at 29 so dont worry about it. and to be honest most guys would prefer a virgin it makes us feel special ... (read in full...)

I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!

Q.   I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...

A.   16 October 2007: You need to talk to him. If as you say there isnt much sex it could be that he is also unsatifed and looking at gay porn for his sex kicks it will not always mean he is gay when looking at porn online there is so much out there that it can get ... (read in full...)

Should I cheat to get some satisfaction?

Q.   Hi there! Can you please give me some advice... I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and love him so much, but he doesn't do it for me in the bedroom, as he justs wants a quick 5 minutes and then he is done. Apart from that, everything...

A.   16 October 2007: i've been with my fiance for nearly 4 years it took nearly 2.5 years before we had sex and had loads for 3 months but have had none for a year now but despite how much i need it i would NEVER cheat as i love her to much. So if as you say "everything ... (read in full...)

Is the 'pill' preventing me from having an orgasm?

Q.   I am wondering if there are any other women out there with this issue, and if you have any suggestions to solve it.... When I am with my boyfriend (or any guy I've been with) I am extremely turned on at first and am really aroused but the longer f...

A.   16 October 2007: When my partner went on the pill her sex drive nose dived (to the other side of the planet so it seemed) when i read the instructions on the pill box it did say that a side affect was a lose of sex drive. if you have only just stared taking it you ... (read in full...)

I'm in doubt - is he serious?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together 6 monthes. He keeps going on holiday without me and he has never offered to take me, he has been on 4 holidays and about to go on the 5th. Also, his parents came over last weekend and the weekend before but he ...

A.   16 October 2007: I'm 30 and my fiance is now 21 whilst i would never go away without her (other than for work) i can understand the parents thing when i met her parents for the first time i was mega bricking it (at the time she was only 17 me 27) and i was looked ... (read in full...)

I found sperm in my in my husband's underwear!

Q.   dose sperm come out of a mans penis if he dont have sex or have a wank cause i found sperm in my husband underwear . iv been told his been seeing some els but he says he not is their any other way to find out if he is...

A.   16 October 2007: Sperm or pre cum most likly will come out of the penis all the time. it happens to me whenether i get turned on this could be just watching a sex secene on the tv or talking dirty to my fiance. now thinking about it my underwear has less traces of ... (read in full...)

When does a guy pre-cum?

Q.   Just wanted to know as this sounds dumb.. when does a guy pre-cum???? as me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex but he stopped when he felt like he was cumming, but i know u can get pregnant from pre-cum...

A.   16 October 2007: in non techy terms its to help the sperm swim better.but i have to give the same old advise when ever you have sex unless you are planning on having children you should always use a condom as what ever method you use you can still get pregnant this ... (read in full...)

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