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21 September 2010: So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
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Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 24 October 2010: "I've never, ever, talked to a woman or surveyed a woman who doesn't describe some kind of sting, hurt, betrayal, or some kind of negative reaction when she thinks about her partner using porn or finds it." -- In about ten minutes, I found a number ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 12 October 2010: Sorry, person, but I have to second all of what Odds said. Especially this part: "The hold is disproportionately powerful over the guys who deserve it the least - guys who won't pressure her into it, who just want to be loved, who don't understand ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 10 October 2010: It wasn't really that long ago that the bigger issue was masturbation, not porn. I recall reading advice columns about women's shock and horror at finding out their bf/husband pleasures himself without her, and why does he have to lie and hide, ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 1 October 2010: All right. But if hiding porn is the same as faking orgasms... doesn't that make it seem more understandable and justified? Both are done to spare the other person's feelings, and are somewhat well-intentioned (though that doesn't make them ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 25 September 2010: Thanks for all the intelligent responses. Maybe it shows this issue is more complex and nuanced than people think -- more than just picking one of two sides: that porn is uniformly bad and its users selfish and depraved OR that porn is absolutely ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 23 September 2010: @person12345:
What you say about it being a choice may be fundamentally true. But saying it's just all motivated by selfishness, laziness, and is 100% a choice is simplistic. You could say alcoholics, anorexics, emotional eaters, and gamblers... (read in full...)
Why do men in relationships watch porn?
Q. why do men in relationships have to look at porn sites of women and women as well as men and women and watch sites with other men jerking off?...
A. 22 September 2010: Why is everyone talking only about men? Britney Spears's porn collection would put most guys to shame.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend not pushing
Q. I'm in my third year of college. My boyfriend should also be where I am but before he met me he was not taking his school serious. so he dropped out. Now he sits around, surfs the web hoping to find work (which I think Is pure lazyness) Recently I ...
A. 21 September 2010: Schools and the world in general are not exactly welcoming places for boys anymore. The emphasis has been all on girls -- bringing them up, improving their self-esteem, and tailoring the curriculum to suit them. Only after boys had seriously fallen ... (read in full...)
Is online flirting and porn entertainment... a sort of infidelity?
Q. My wife is really upset that I log into dating chatroom websites, sex webcam sites, and porn sites and view the contents and talk to online flirts, such as myself. I see this as a bit of harmless flirting and a diverting form of entertainment. Why ...
A. 21 September 2010: You are talking and flirting with real people that talk and flirt back. That's even worse than looking at non-interactive porn. If your wife spent her evenings going to a singles bar to be chatted up by a bunch of men, even if she had no intention ... (read in full...)
Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 21 September 2010: Since it seems my post is being interpreted as defending porn and lying, let me be clear. I'm not defending those things at all. In fact I am against porn within a relationship (except in rare cases where its use would actually enhance the ... (read in full...)
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