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B/f says that a break will help our relationship

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 months. Our relationship is strong and we never fight. We're definitely in love with each other. But just today, he asked to go on a break. He said he wants time to spend with his friends and not ...

A.   3 May 2010: give him what he wants, your young. there plenty of other fish in the ocean,have fun and good luck . ... (read in full...)

Help!!! How can I move on with my life???

Q.   So I have recently gone through a very traumatic breakup. I was with this guy for 2 years. We planned on getting married and had our kids names picked out. We were so much in love or so I thought. He left me on January 15th because he liked another ...

A.   5 March 2010: swettie this all happend to me but it was a 10 year relationship. its for the better and if its meant to be then it will be but until then enjoy your life its his loss and also dont be so [ available ] to him..take care of your self. ... (read in full...)

He's avoiding my questions and the situation involved.

Q.   Hi Aunts/Uncles, You are prob sick of me by now but here goes!! My husband has admitted that his texts to his 'other woman' (sex texting colleague) did have allusions to sex in them (well quel surprise, would never have guessed!!!). I...

A.   5 March 2010: get rid of him hes not worth it he sounds like a head ache kind like my butthead... (read in full...)

I want out, but guilt kills me!

Q.   I seriously need help... Ive been with my girlfriend for just over a year now and she is great.. Shes always there for me, she doesnt treat me bad, and we never have sexual problems or even huge arguments.. And yet I don't want her.. I didnt wa...

A.   5 March 2010: tell her now rather than later say things arnt working but can we b friends.............. (read in full...)

I know he loves me but I just don't know why he behaves like this

Q.   So me and my boyfriend were going out for 3 years and now he left me because supposedly he didnt deserve me but u heard from a friend that he said that he did love me but he was barely going to start going out, and he wont reply to my texts and he ...

A.   2 March 2010: move on, you deserve better, and your still verry young, theres plenty of guys out there.... (read in full...)

How come when I do sexy stuff he doesn't get an erection?

Q.   I love my boyfriend very much , and he loves me. So when I try to do sexy things for him , or sit on his , lap or kiss him , he doesn't get a boner , or anything. Is this normal ? Does he still find me attractive ? What to do ??? =(...

A.   28 February 2010: spice up your relationship something fresh new supriseing give him a bj you got to please your man and dont just do the same old stuff all the time...... (read in full...)

I am 13 and confused about love and relationships

Q.   Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing.. So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th...

A.   28 February 2010: sweetie its going to get more confusing as you grow older. go get your guy if thats what you want. what ever you want go get it and your going to have to do it your self.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has to move for work, and my mother wont let me go with him

Q.   okay so heres the deal . my boyfriend got offered a job about 8-10 hours away , and im still in school so my parents wont let me go with him .my school year so far has been hell and my boyfriend is like the only way ive been getting through it ,to ...

A.   28 February 2010: let your man go to work, and grow some balls and go to school.lovlovgirl finish it the year is almost over be strong forgette about thoes bimbo girls there just jelous yes it will be hard to sleep at night always wondering what hes doing is he ... (read in full...)

Body image questions

Q.   im 15 years old girly girl (im puerto rican and chinese) and i weight 100 pounds i have a six pack lately some people been saying that sexy and some say that is a turn off because im a total girly girl and they wound expect a girly girl that wears ...

A.   28 February 2010: well what do you want ?........ do you care what other people think .i dont if some one tries to sell me a face lift in a jar i tell them this is my face deal with it.besides keep it as long as you can your young it might not last.it didnt for ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a seperate mobile phone just for his ex!

Q.   Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers. I've been on a few dates with a guy who has been in touch with his ex since they split up last March. He says they had an argument a couple of weeks ago and haven't spoken since but ...

A.   27 February 2010: dump him leave him not worth it.dose he have a special little phone just for you let me tell you straight up he is still verry much in love with her.there you go.... (read in full...)

Is there a way to convince him I am NOT nuts?

Q.   I seem to have a problem with self body image and trust. I was seeing this guy who I really like. He is very funny, sweet, smart and honesty sexy as hell. I am attractive to many people but I am not a twig. I am a real sized woman. He never ...

A.   27 February 2010: dont call him .....hello you just texed him repeatley...leave him alone give him space dont do anything to comfort him or smother him unless you really want to look like a basket case........dont get in toutch with him if he wanted to talk to ... (read in full...)

Drunken Cheating...what to do?

Q.   Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for just about a year, and when I say we were perfect, I mean it. I wanted to marry that boy. He literally worshiped the ground I walked on. We're in a long distance relationship because we're both in ...

A.   27 February 2010: he should of never went to that party.and he should of never drank so much.....come on you know your limit of alcohol hes a big boy he knows better...well the first thing you have to do is forgive him and tell him that. then tell him that he has ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to think. Boyfriend is still on dating sites.

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. Living together for 3 years. A couple of months ago I seen on our internet history he had been looking at escort websites. I confronted him about it and he said he was just curious and ...

A.   27 February 2010: well i think hes loosing intrest in you ....to be straight forward with you. things get old after four years and your both still young.you need to freshen up ur relationship... (read in full...)

How much time should I give myself before dating again?

Q.   when you break up with your partner to allow yourself enough time to get over the person a good time line to follow is: for every year you were together add one month i.e 1 year 1 month 2 years 2 months. Add another two months onto the tota...

A.   27 February 2010: i was in a 10 year relationship and he knocked up a girl 3 months later every relationship is diffrent i say that this cannot be answered without more info ... (read in full...)

Don't think I can have a baby that's a product of rape

Q.   I have an issue I hope you can help me with.I am currently pregnant with my second child. My first is almost 7 months old-I am about 2- 3 mo along. Dilemma #1 I am seperated from my husband and divorcing him as soon as the papers get thru...it's not ...

A.   30 April 2009: weather its rape or not god gave you a child a little angel take care of it and womens bodies wer made for birthing babies you will be fine good luck... (read in full...)

Mom's house has a picture of his other woman and lost daughter.

Q.   my man had a daughter with another woman and now they are divorced and the girl is in foster care. It's been 10 years the little girl was being abused but not by her mom. Her mom gave her up for drugs, the woman that was abusing her was her step ...

A.   18 April 2009: thank you for replying. great answer, yes shes still in a foster home. and doing well i hear... (read in full...)

My fiancee and his little brother passed away and I don't know how to express myself

Q.   hi everyone. my fiance and his little brother just passed away. me and my best friend are supposed to speak at his funeral. they are having two separate funerals, and i am supposed to speak at them both. i have no idea what to say. right now i cant ...

A.   30 March 2009: im so sorry you dont have to speak if you dont want to, but if you do maby you can start out with saying how wonderful he was, his smile will be with us always, the things he was good at, he will be missed, what we have learned from him what ... (read in full...)

Even although he tried to choke me to death I'm wondering... should I take him back?

Q.   Recently my boyfriend was charged with assault and uttering death threats. Both charges I was the victim. He choked me and when I told him I couldn't breathe he said "thats what I'm trying to do". Sometimes I wonder if someone coming to the front ...

A.   19 March 2009: get out while you still can. save your daughter &you besides why would you want to raise your daughter in that cind of inviroment... (read in full...)

I can't stand the way we talk to each other!

Q.   Hey everyone I'm having a little trouble getting through to my fiance. We've been together for a long time, and i am currently prego with a baby girl due this June. Ok so here's the issue...i cant stand the way we talk to each other!!! It's usual...

A.   14 March 2009: my babe is two mo. old and that how we wer i was verry verry hormal i decited to tell him when this happens stop take five minutes of us in diffrent rooms even 3 min. of not talking, looking , at eachother we come out saying nothing to eachother ... (read in full...)

Kegel exercises - do they really work?

Q.   I'm single and haven't had sex in over six years and when I do, I want to be nice and tight. I started doing kegel exercises last month and would like to know how many I should do a day? I also want to know from those who do them, if they really ...

A.   14 March 2009: i started doing kegel exercises when i was pregnant. It helps tighten the muscles. It said so in the baby book i still have. The book it says it helps control urination and the contraction of the vagina and sphincter. It also helps with sexual ... (read in full...)

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