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My boyfriend has to move for work, and my mother wont let me go with him

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Question - (27 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, *issSamanthamary writes:

okay so heres the deal . my boyfriend got offered a job about 8-10 hours away , and im still in school so my parents wont let me go with him .my school year so far has been hell and my boyfriend is like the only way ive been getting through it ,to make it plain and simple i get bullied not like physically but i litterlay have no friends anymore becasue of this one girl. if my boyfriend leaves adn i cant go with him im gonna be screwd over i have no clue what im gonna do or how im gona get throught the rest of the year with out him , my mom said i can move with him in the sumemr but for months off hell without him i just dont see how thats gonna work out , we have spent everyday together for the past year and a half maybe more i ussualy go home to sleep and dtuff but yeah i'll be so lost with out him hes all i have :( is there anyway i can talk my parents into letting me go ? i think its good for him to go cuase its a good paying job i just dont want him to leave me here alone :( HELP !! any sugestions or advice that can helo me throught this :'(

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A female reader, missSamanthamary Canada +, writes (28 February 2010):

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okay thanks guys , i was planning on going to school out there but my mom wouldnt let me do that either , she said that i can move out there in the summer and take grade 12 there but we just found out the job tehre might not be permanent so i might not have to go anywhere , its just gonan be hard to do anyhting about him , its like a big step backwards for our relationship but i no he needs to go and its for the best

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (28 February 2010):

You need to get through school and then make a move. Getting your diploma is vital to your future. If you're getting bullied, get some help with that. Don't make what could be a HUGE mistake and move with him- it's likely to cause the end of the relationship.

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A female reader, cry United States +, writes (28 February 2010):

cry agony auntlet your man go to work, and grow some balls and go to school.lovlovgirl finish it the year is almost over be strong forgette about thoes bimbo girls there just jelous yes it will be hard to sleep at night always wondering what hes doing is he thinking of me .......it will be worth it trust me stay in school you ever hear that old saying [hurry up and wait]. ull get through the rest of the year just fine hang in there.. i droped out of school for my man when i was your age it lasted 10 years and no high school diploma here i am @ 27 no high school diploma no ged and writing to you so take my advice and stay in school k

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