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... Send *risy a private message | | | *risy's profile:Hey, my names Crisy and im from Stafford, England. Im a total expert on advice as my mates are always crying on my shoulder, im happy to be at service. At the moment I like a lad but lets just say were only flirting at the moment, hes more of a toyboy but i really like him. I could use any tips on how to draw him to me!!! |
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At what stage in our relationship should we be more comfortable around each other?
Q. hi! well my bf and i went our on 3rd date coupld of days ago and it was still kind of awkward. we didnt talk much and it was kind of embarasing. i dont know if it should still be like this. please help thanks ellie xxx...
A. 4 January 2008: Well, the next time you go on a date with him try and pre-think questions or conversations you can bring up to break the silence, try and think of conversations he knows alot about so he can babble away. Dont worry I didnt really talk to my bf much ... (read in full...)
How can I stop getting so wet??
Q. I get really wet during sex. I don't know if this is a problem. I have asked my boyfriend and he says he likes it but sometimes I hardly feel anything because its so wet. Is there anything I can do to maybe reduce this?...
A. 12 December 2007: Getting wet is like a form of librication, its natural and i dont really think theres any way to reduce it unless you you see a doctor
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He lives 20 miles away-will it work?
Q. I recently met up with a guy, and we just clicked. I hadn't felt like that since I had broke up with my ex and I couldn't find one fault in him. One problem, he lives in a different city, although it is only 20miles away, it is much more of an ...
A. 12 December 2007: I had a fling with a guy on holiday who lived on a different island in the past year and a half hes come over here for a night and ive been over there for 5 days, if you to really want each other youll stop at nothing to see each other again, weve ... (read in full...)
He's seen me naked but we haven't had sex yet and I'm scared about progressing...
Q. I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend is coming back from college, and I haven't seen him in 3 months. I've never done many sexual things. He's seen me fully naked, but I'm kinda scared. He asked me if we could go ahead and have sex. He has way more ...
A. 12 December 2007: dont plan it youll know when your ready because youll feel flimsy and you wont want to stop, if you plan it then youll be nervous and itll go wrong
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Is this possible? Penis fracture during sex when certain positions are assumed? (e.g. cowgirl) Also, can it be recuperated?
Q. Hi all, I am a 23-year old virgin who has read up quite a bit on sexual matters. I have heard that the male penis can snap when certain positions are assumed (e.g. cowgirl), under certain level of intensity. May I know how this can be successfu...
A. 12 December 2007: There are no bones in the penis and its very unlikley to damage it. Im sure youll know if its about to snap mate!!... (read in full...)
How do I keep up the conversation without seeming I'm interrogating him? (He's good at asking questions to discover more about the other.)
Q. I recentlly met a guy through evening rugby practices. We haven't been goign out, but we've been conversing a bit. HOWEVER!! When we converse, its always him asking all the questions, which I dont' mind, because he's good at it...and it allo...
A. 12 December 2007: Ask him about college, what his plans are after college you could ask him how his family are etc.... (read in full...)
I am falling in love but don't want to ruin my best friendship.
Q. I have somewhat of a problem; I think I'm falling for my gf but I don't know how to tell her. She's one year older than me which means that after next semester she's off to college and probably out of town. We've been close friends all of highschool ...
A. 12 December 2007: just tell her if its supposed to be itll happen, if not shell stay friends with you im sure. If shes going out of town you wont be embarressed try telling her in her last week and you wont be too scared because youll know this is your last chance. ... (read in full...)
Is my penis too small??
Q. I am a thirteen year old boy and was wondering if my penis is to small. It's only 5inches when fully erect and 3inches when small. Is it to small?...
A. 12 December 2007: No dont worry you wont stop growing until your 21 and the averarage for a fully grown male is 6 inches.... (read in full...)
She's talking like we are back but she acts different. What is going on??
Q. Hey, Well my girl had broke up with me a few weeks ago, but I wrote her a heartfelt letter and drove 60 miles and put a tiny christmas tree on her car. She called back real happy the next day and the following day we went out to dinner and she said...
A. 12 December 2007: You obviously split up in the first place for a reason a christmas tree and a letter isnt going to solve the problem. Just give her some time to cool down, and if she still loves you shell come back.... (read in full...)
I think my dad is cheating on my mum...what should I do??
Q. I think my Dad is cheating on my Mum and i don't know what to do. I am sure he loves my mum and our family but i saw some searches on the internet for escorts all around the world and for things like 'worldwide sex,' he is away on business a lot an...
A. 12 December 2007: you could either drop hints to your dad or tell him you found the web site and see what he does or you could tell your mum and let them sort it out between them, she does have a right to know.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to give up porn...and I would choose her but I refuse to pretend to be something I'm not.
Q. Before anyone chips in and says that I don't understand this from the female perspective, please hear me out - because I have read posts, and heard views from the female side - and believe me they are pretty mixed. My girlfriend and I have been tog...
A. 12 December 2007: Although looking at porn is natural for a bloke, try looking at it from her prospective and think how would you feel if she was looking at naked men better looking than you?... (read in full...)
He wont go down on me until we are married but we aren't even engaged.
Q. I have been with my man for a little over 2 years and he won't go down on me, he has NEVER gone down on me or anyone else for that matter. He says he'll do it when we are married (not that we are even engaged yet!) but sometimes he teases me and ...
A. 12 December 2007: Next time, you should tell him you wont do it for him because he wont do it for you and thenm see what happens.
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How do I do to choose between the bunch of guys who like me?
Q. there are 4 guys who like me...they are all great.. what do i do?...
A. 9 December 2007: You need to get to now these lads, who ever you enjoy yourself more with or feel realxed with is right for you.... (read in full...)
When is too soon to say "I love you" ?
Q. when is too soon to say "i love you"???...
A. 9 December 2007: Its never too soon to say 'I love you' as long as your 100% sure you mean it.... (read in full...)
Can a pregnancy test be wrong?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and my friend are convinced im pregnant. my period is now over 3 weeks late. after the first week, they annoyed me enough to do a test, which i only did to prove them wrong...an i did. but its now been 3 weeks since my period was due ...
A. 9 December 2007: A late period can be down to more than just pregnancy, stress or not eating right or even not feeling well. Just tp be sure id take another test and if that one comes out negative then tell your boyfriend to stop worrying and tel his mate its none ... (read in full...)
Does this mean I'm ready for sex?
Q. I've been with my bf for 7 months. We have been great friends all throughout our school lives so we have been totally comfortable with each other. When i came back of holiday with a friend he pushed me down onto the sofa and we were kissing very ...
A. 9 December 2007: I think as long as your careful, you might be ready if you felt you wanted to go futher. Just make sure hes ready too and make sur your safe. but if you have second thoughts then its important to stop. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I am a virgin before we have sex or simply don't mention it?
Q. I have been going out with a guy recently but it is the first proper relationship I have been in. Therefore, I am still a Virgin. When the time comes, is it a good thing to tell the guy you are a Virgin before you have sex or should I just leave ...
A. 9 December 2007: If you to are talking about having sex before actually doing it (which i would advise) then tell him. he needs to know your still a virgin and that your vounrale and delacate, then hell treat you with more respect because he will know you really ... (read in full...)
We hug, cuddle up, even hold hands - how can I get her to see me as a lover rather than a brother?
Q. Heyy, im a 13 year old boy, and i REALLY love my best friend, she knows how i feel but she says "sorry, i just dont feel the same way" she's like a sister and i know she loves me, she just isnt admiting it,we hug, cuddle up, even hold hands but ...
A. 9 December 2007: You know I hate it when I like a friend more than a friend. Try and make her jelous. Show her what you can be like with a girl and it might make her want you. But dont let it bother you too much, your still young, youll meet tons more girls.... (read in full...)
He watches pissing porn. Should I accept it?
Q. I have found out that my boyfriend looks at pissing porn and I dont know what to do. I find it really weird and it makes me feel abit sick that he gets off on watching this. He does not understand why i am so upset and says that it is just porn on ...
A. 9 December 2007: Lads do get off on porn, its in a girls nature to get grossed out by it but i dont think there is one lad that doesnt like to feel himself over it. I was routing through my ex's phone once and i accadentally came across afew naughty videos. But i ... (read in full...)
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