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writes:I've been with my bf for 7 months. We have been great friends all throughout our school lives so we have been totally comfortable with each other. When i came back of holiday with a friend he pushed me down onto the sofa and we were kissing very passionatly and although we had clothes on we were sorta in the missionary postion and our bits were touching. I don't really think he was getting hard or anything but it just felt really different and so nice. Now i'm abit confused on two things here. The 1st one was although we were really moving or anything i suddenly started to get a funny feeling down then suddenly (i had a pad on cuz i was on my period) i felt very wet not wet inside but abit like id wet myself but i hadn't but it was really nice. I went to the toilet after but there wasn't any blood there or anything(i'd virtually finished my period) But when i ws lying there and i suddenl;y felt that i wanted to go even further. What was this? and does it mean i'm ready for sex? We are both virgins so i don't know how to bring this up with him or what to do if it happens again?-thats basically the 2nd thing i am confused with. please help
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (9 December 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
What you're experiencing is sexual feelings in your body. Your body is responding to excitement. This doesn't mean that you're emotionally ready for sex, but it does mean that you're physically ready. When you are starting to get aroused, your vagina starts to get really wet.
Kissing (and kissing passionately) is so much fun. Once you go all the way to home base, you don't really ever just kiss anymore. It always ends up leading to sex. Just keep having fun doing what you're doing. It feels nice, right? Just stick with that.
Talk to your boyfriend, tell him that even though you want to go further, you really think you should wait... he will (hopefully) understand, and help to keep things from going too far.
xxIndia
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reader, Crisy +, writes (9 December 2007):
 I think as long as your careful, you might be ready if you felt you wanted to go futher. Just make sure hes ready too and make sur your safe. but if you have second thoughts then its important to stop.
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