Worried I could be pregnant!
Q. hi all, just wanted to ask a quick question. I started to take the pill last monday but my period hadnt finished yet, then i had sex with my bf on the tues and we used condoms, however its now a week later and im feeling bloated and im worried maybe ...
A. 12 December 2007: the pill can make you feel bloated! i felt bloated often when i took it. You should be fine!! i am 99% sure that it is fine to bgin taking the pill while you are still on your period. and on top of this, you used condoms?
You're safe girl stop swea... (read in full...)
I want to leave my wife for another woman, I'm in the armed forces and my father in law is my superior officer. If I just run away I will be charged by a court marshal! How do I get out of this mess??
Q. I'm married for less than two years and I'm in the armed forces.It's important to know,my father in law is one of my superior officers.I never really loved my wife and I'm now in love with someone else and I want to leave everyhting behind and be ...
A. 12 December 2007: Man up. If you disappear that is a cowarice thing to do. Face the music. if you are unhappy with your wife tell her that you want to separate. At least consider her feelings and the feelings of your family.
You cant help that you are not in love... (read in full...)
I'm working on getting over the break up and visuals of other women being with him, I feel robbed, betrayed and angry, help!
Q. Alright I have been on this off and on for a few weeks to see if anyone is going through something similiar and if I could get some info off of theirs. Found one or two, but not exact so im just going to go w/it. I broke up w/my boyfriend of 2 y...
A. 12 December 2007: i am going through the same thing. I loved him and i knew that he had serious issues and i had to move.
It is very hard to think about the happy times we shared and how much we 'loved ' each other, but you have to focus on why you left.
there... (read in full...)
Do I need therapy to get over my second love?
Q. Well what can I say? I've been frequenting this site every day since I discovered it after I split up with my ex. We split up 3 weeks ago but have only had no contact for a week. I'm quite chuffed I've managed to stop myself from getting in touch...
A. 1 December 2007: I am going through the exact same thing. The sad part is that i left him because i knew it would never work. Who would have thought this would be so hard. I wish there was some magic pill i could take to erase him from my brain... but time really d... (read in full...)
Early teenager, wanting to look older without using make-up.
Q. i put my phone on mute when i was talking to the boy i liked and our friend. when they thought i was off the phone the said something about me and my two best friends. they said one of my friends look like their in highschool, the other looks like ...
A. 1 December 2007: Why are you opposed to make up? used conservatively and in the right way, it can do so much, just a teenie bit of mascara? if that is not an option, i think dressing maturely will help a great deal. I have no idea what your style is but pay attentio... (read in full...)
How do I get over him if he is still contacting me? Does he want reconciliation or is just feeling comfortable in talking as purely friends?
Q. I broke up with my ex about two months ago and we hadn't talked for about 3 weeks because I told him to leave me alone on several occasions. Then, he texted me last night saying he wishes me well. Then, I texted him back to say I was sorry for the ...
A. 1 December 2007: it seems very obvious that he is still holding onto the hope that you are going to change your mind and come back to him. You will know for sure when you are straight with him and tell him that you are not interested at all in becoming romantic ever ... (read in full...)
Facing Christmas with a broken heart. How can I stop the depression?
Q. Hi everyone Thanks for helping me, I'm now doing my best to try to get over the heartbreak of the last couple of weeks. The only thing I'm worried about is the festive season coming up. I get a fortnights break during Christmas and am worried a...
A. 1 December 2007: I am going through the exact same thing. You have to focus on the future and spoil yourself a little bit. Do things to treat yourself and keep busy! The hardest times for me are when i am not busy and find myself alone. Do you have family to go vi... (read in full...)
She cheated and I can't trust her. Any suggestions?
Q. have recently split with girlfriend of 1 1/2 years. we moved to new country together where she started a new stressful job. we had recently had a conversation about how we were not satisfied, and decided to take a break to think - we always got ...
A. 1 December 2007: You both had acknowledged there were problems. There is a reason other than her leaving the relationship that both of you were not happy. What were these reasons? do you think they will go away if you get back together? probably not. On top of t... (read in full...)
Should I call and ask her if there is anything wrong?
Q. Hi, I have a dilema and don't know what i should do. I've been apart from my ex for 5 mos. In that time, we haven't spoken, since I broke up w/ her, she's cut her hair short, and while occasionally being polite, she's not really calling me etc..bef...
A. 15 November 2007: Don't do it. it sounds like she has gone through a difficult time because of thebreakup. If you call her, you will interrupt her healing process. BUT! if you find out for certain that she is pregnant definately reach out to her. that is the best ... (read in full...)
I got a huge bf problems!!
Q. ok. its very complicated. i like my friends EX-boyfriend. but She still loves him. They went out for quite a while n he was her first everything. but they broke up because he hurt her. i dont know what exactly happened. and i started liking him. i t...
A. 15 November 2007: this is some unhealthy and crazy behaviour. you saw this guy hurt your friend and broke her heart, yet you are considering dating him. You will be the one with a broken heart next, and you will be hurting your friend even more. nothing to gain from ... (read in full...)
Can I get some advise or some clues as to why he may be acting like this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been talking for 2 1/2 years now. We have just started going out this year. But, recently he's been talking kind of mean to me. He has told me that I am not a part of his family. Any other guy would conside his girlfriend a ...
A. 15 November 2007: I'm sorry to tell you, but this guy sounds like a loser who is going to use you and emotionally abuse you. Get out while you can, before your self esteem and emotions are damaged.... (read in full...)
How can I convince him.
Q. Ok so I want to have a female-female-male 3some with my girlfriend and another girl. but she says she wont have a ffm 3some with me unless i have a male-male-female threesome with her... i dont want to have a mmf 3some but i really want to have a ...
A. 15 November 2007: he's right. if she's not into it then she's not into it. what are you hoping to gain from this.
Get some porn or something! my thoughts are that you will jeapordize the relationship, and if you dont care about that... well the question is, what are ... (read in full...)
She sent nude pictures of herself to this other guy. Will I get over it?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and living together for three. Last month she moved out and got an apartment because she said I wasn't ready to move forward with the relationship and I had been taking her for granted. I told her...
A. 15 November 2007: i think it is important to analyse the relationship as a whole. Are there other warning signs that this relationship is unhealthy that you may have written off or ignored.
Is this girl trustworthy overall? if you have some doubts, you might want... (read in full...)
What made you wanting go back to ur ex?
Q. WE both love each other, but decided to have a space. (1 month ago)He needed his space, wanted to focus on his music, and I was way too busy for school and work. We could continue our relationship, but I don't like vague relationship. So I thought ...
A. 15 November 2007: Yes, i am currently going through this. I was dating someone who was not living up to my standards. Things got worse and worse between his drinking and getting fired from jobs and on& on... i left him two weeks ago.
Leaving the closeness and comf... (read in full...)
Relationship is over and I am looking for closure. Should I send her back her ring and momentos?
Q. Hi I wonder if you can help. I now know that my relationship is now definately over and I'm looking for some closure. I still have some photo's and bits and pieces belonging to my ex. I was thinking of mailing them to her with the engagement ring,...
A. 15 November 2007: Dont send the stuff! i know you want to show her what she wrote and remind her of how beautiful the relationship once was. Its not going to serve any purpose. She will just see it as you reaching out to her... which in a way, you would be doing. ... (read in full...)
Is it emotional abuse
Q. Is it emotional abuse if someone makes you feel bad when you don't smoke or drink? Then, they turn it around and say that you're the one making a big deal out of nothing, when in fact they just can't take no for an answer?...
A. 8 November 2007: It depends on what they are saying to you.
Are you making a big deal of them smoking and drinking? or are they the one making a big deal out of your NON-habits?
How often is this coming up?
if the person (who is it?) is being verbally abusive towa... (read in full...)
How to get pictures back without being harsh
Q. im fed up with my parents mingling in my life.My mom, especially has that habit of controlling and mingling constantly,I just feel her like some Dictator hanging over my head.Ive discovered that she has taken all the photos of my album from my ...
A. 8 November 2007: It sounds like your mom is treating you like a child. unfortunately if you are still living in her house, this will continue.
the short Answer: ITS Time to Move Out!... (read in full...)
He financially raped me, what to do?
Q. about 6 months ago i went against all the advice of my friends and family and paid my then boyfriends phone bill for him. he said it was really high that month and he couldnt afford it so since i have more money than him, could i pay it off for him. ...
A. 8 November 2007: use this as a lesson learned. DO NOT DATE LOSERS!!! and do not let it happen again.... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid about not meeting his parents.
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend now for 5 years, and I have still not met his parents, all though we do come from to different racial backgrounds, Im am white and he is asain. I love him so much and I really do want to meet his parents, and he still ...
A. 8 November 2007: 5 years??? are you kidding me?
this is a serious problem.
i once dated a guy for 1 year and hid him from my parents. Why? because i knew they would not accept him and i was just dating him temporarily because it was so nice.
the bottom line ... (read in full...)
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