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41-50,
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writes:I'm married for less than two years and I'm in the armed forces.It's important to know,my father in law is one of my superior officers.I never really loved my wife and I'm now in love with someone else and I want to leave everyhting behind and be with her.Considering my parents will never forgive me what can I do to get out of this mess?I need to resign first before I do anything else amd my father in law will never allow me to leave.I was thinking of just dissapearing but then I'll be charged by a court marshal.Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, cristin343  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 Man up. If you disappear that is a cowarice thing to do. Face the music. if you are unhappy with your wife tell her that you want to separate. At least consider her feelings and the feelings of your family.
You cant help that you are not in love with her or that you have developed feelings for someone else, but you can control how you address this issue. Act like an adult, not a little boy who would run away and hide.
You're in the armed forces arent you? Have you learned anything yet?? The easy choice is not the right choice.
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