Dating 3 weeks, when do I shave my pubic hair, before we get married or before sex?
Q. i've been dating this guy for 3 weeks. i don't know if i should shave my private area before he and i get marry? or before we have sex? ...
A. 30 September 2009: ... I don't think marraige or sex has anything to do with pubic hair.. I couldn't care less if my wife is shaved, trimmed, braided, buzzed or fullout bush. I think each guy has a different preference though so just ask him if he wants you shaved or ... (read in full...)
I regret the name I gave my baby! What can I do now?
Q. Dear all, I have a problem that is in my head! I know many of you wouldnt think its such a big issue but i just delivered my baby girl on july 14th and called her a name i really liked at the time.. and we agreed on... on the 6th day he went to r...
A. 30 September 2009: What's her name? You left us in unearable suspense. It can't be that horribe! And the people who told you it's not a good name are terribly rude. You shouldn't listen to them though. It doesn't matter what they think. It matters what you think, what ... (read in full...)
I want revenge..how do I make this guy look stupid?
Q. Hi im gonna put it simply, i want revenge on an ex boyfriend Now i know people will say that just getting over him will be enough and that i should move on and make him realise what he's missing. And no offense but ive tried that Im far t...
A. 29 September 2009: Lol. I take no offense to that whatsoever. But thank you for your thoughts. ... (read in full...)
I want revenge..how do I make this guy look stupid?
Q. Hi im gonna put it simply, i want revenge on an ex boyfriend Now i know people will say that just getting over him will be enough and that i should move on and make him realise what he's missing. And no offense but ive tried that Im far t...
A. 26 September 2009: This is completely childish and heartless. You're trying to put out a fire by flapping oxygen at it with a waving towel. he took advantage of you because you let him and now you're stooping to a level so low that you might want to check the nearest ... (read in full...)
Jealous of a vibrator. Will she get used to the thicker girth?
Q. This may sound ridiculous but I really cant help feeling like this. When I met my girlfriend she had never had an orgasm with any partner and she believed she couldnt have one. she also said that her previous partner didnt even know or probably ...
A. 26 September 2009: I asked my wife this question about this since you wanted a girl's opinion and she said the same thing that I was thinking.
Sex feels good yes, and for the women who want just the pleasure of it, as we call f**king, they don't necessarily care if i... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant, help!
Q. I am 14 pregnant to a 17 year old it was a drunken mistake, i am 1 month gone and not showing yet only small bump no one knows, i have already got morning sickness (i dont know why they call it this i'm sick throughout the day) i cant get rid of i...
A. 25 September 2009: I got mine at Target for about 70 dollars... I don't know wht you have where you live.. but you can go to Target, Walmart, Babies R Us.. Basically any baby store or any supermarket store, that has clothes, automotives, food, home desgin. I'm sure ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant, help!
Q. I am 14 pregnant to a 17 year old it was a drunken mistake, i am 1 month gone and not showing yet only small bump no one knows, i have already got morning sickness (i dont know why they call it this i'm sick throughout the day) i cant get rid of i...
A. 25 September 2009: Well my daughter is the age that yours will be around christmas, just a little younger. THey still won't really know what you're getting for them at that age, I mean they won't remember or be able to hold it but i'll tell you what is colming in ... (read in full...)
I like this girl, yet I still have feelings for my ex.
Q. My question is basic. I like this girl, yet i still have feelings for my ex. Should i go ahead with this relationship of this new girl or wait until i have fully got over my ex? And how would the girl i like take news of me still havi...
A. 25 September 2009: I don't believe that you don't actually know what the right thing to do is.
No girl... or boy for that matter, wants to be strung along in a relationship in which his/her partner is preoccupied with someone else. It's simply not fair to her. Just... (read in full...)
I thought telling would make it better, but it didn't!
Q. ok i had cheated on my bf a while ago and today just told him and he take it the way that i though he would. He hates me and i know it and i derseve it and and im a loser and cheater and i hate myself. he had ask me once and i told him i didnt...
A. 25 September 2009: No it was not selfish. He needed to know what you did to him and it was his decision whether or not to be with you, not yours. He is not likely to take you back. That sort of thing tends to deminish all trust and make any remaining of that particul... (read in full...)
Do you gain weight after getting your tubes tied?
Q. Me and my man have decided that after the second baby that we didnt want anymore children. So i would like to have my tubes tied. But alot of women have said that when u get your tubes tied you gain alot of weight is that true? ...
A. 24 September 2009: http://en.allexperts.com/q/Birth-Control-1445/weight-gain-tuballigation.htm
http://www.livestrong.com/getting-your-tubes-tied/
Here are a couple websites. You should google this instead. We are not medical professionals.
... (read in full...)
Do you gain weight after getting your tubes tied?
Q. Me and my man have decided that after the second baby that we didnt want anymore children. So i would like to have my tubes tied. But alot of women have said that when u get your tubes tied you gain alot of weight is that true? ...
A. 24 September 2009: Yes, actually you do risk weight gain. This is because you are interfering with the natural balance in your body.
You will be disrupting hormones that promote fertility, but that also affect the overall health of your body. By tunring off one part... (read in full...)
Should I give him oral even if I'm scared?
Q. My boyfriend likes me to do oral but I'm scared to. All his ex girlfriends gave him oral. He expects me to give him oral to. I tried it once but stopped. We really love each other and I am scared that if I do not do it he will leave me or cheat on ...
A. 24 September 2009: Wow. Telling her that everyone else's advice was "feel-good babble" was completely disrespectful. Just because you don't agree with it, dosen't make it wrong.
And No, wanting it does not make him a bad guy, but breaking up with her for it does make... (read in full...)
Should I give him oral even if I'm scared?
Q. My boyfriend likes me to do oral but I'm scared to. All his ex girlfriends gave him oral. He expects me to give him oral to. I tried it once but stopped. We really love each other and I am scared that if I do not do it he will leave me or cheat on ...
A. 23 September 2009: Reasons you should:
You want to please him.
You are curious.
Reasons you should most definitely not:
To make him stay with you.
peer pressure.
You may be scared but you may also want to do this. If he leaves you because you won't, the... (read in full...)
How can I let my teacher know he's actually been a great help to me?
Q. basically, whenever i'm writing something this teacher can be annoying as hell with his picky-ness and/ or advises me to rethink my entire concept. it can be extremely painful (emotionally and mentally) but it's made me write some of my best ...
A. 23 September 2009: Yeah. At the end of the year, maybe a small gift and a thankyou note.
Or what I did once, was I wrote a paper and in it, I talked breifly about my favourite teacher and how inspirational she was to me, and the teacher for which the paper was, told... (read in full...)
Why does he need to text other women?
Q. I have been married to my Hubby for 5 years, I met him when he was married but he left his wife, before the relationship became sexual.. He is everything a women could want and we have the best time and life together, we have now Bern blessed with a ...
A. 23 September 2009: I'm sure his exwife wonders the same thing. Why wasn't she enough for him? Nobody is because he can't stay in one place. That's why he cheated on his wife and that's why he's sneaking around mingeling with other women. One is not enough for him. I'm ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and pregnant, help!
Q. I am 14 pregnant to a 17 year old it was a drunken mistake, i am 1 month gone and not showing yet only small bump no one knows, i have already got morning sickness (i dont know why they call it this i'm sick throughout the day) i cant get rid of i...
A. 23 September 2009: Wow. You guys are lucky! Everyone I knew handed her over right when she started getting fussy at night. No one has ever helped my wife take care of her at night. I'm not there, but I know that she sleeps straight through the night now, at only 3 ... (read in full...)
He hasn't replied to texts for a couple of days, and I don't know what to do!
Q. I met a guy a week ago and we really hit it off. He gave me his no and I texted him a few days later. He replied and we exchanged a few messages. Now though he's not replied for a couple of days and I don't know what to do. We don't stay that close ...
A. 22 September 2009: Sometimes it seems like people have forgotten about phone calls. All they do is text, but I don't think that's personal enough. Give him a call! Leave a voicemail and tell him you were just seeing what was up lately and to call you back if he can or ... (read in full...)
What is your opinion of tatoos and should I get one?
Q. Ok I need some opinions. Well, my family was talking the other day, my dad had two sisters, and a brother. Well one of his sisters passed away and so his other sister and brother talked about them all getting a tattoo that their sister had. Well it ...
A. 22 September 2009: Yes I forgot to mention it so I will just branch off of what [revious poster said about not getting spouses in tattoos. I love my wife and daughter more than myself, but they will be a symbol in a a tattoo. I will not put their names or anything ... (read in full...)
Partner wanking to porn after car accident!
Q. If you found out that your husband/SO was looking at porn after he got settled in at his hotel on a business trip RIGHT AFTER he left to go out of town and you were in a bad car accident TOGETHER, how would you feel and what would you do? Yes,...
A. 22 September 2009: What does the car accident have to do with anything? Men aren't aloud to self-pleasure after a car accident?
I don't see the problem here. Peronsally, masturbation isn't something I do or ever have done, but most men do. Most men do it even when... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is trying to control me and it's getting old.
Q. Okay, so I have an amazing girlfriend... she is gorgeous, nice, and funny... but there is one thing that really gets on my nerves and I'm about sick of it. She is extremely controlling. I am in college, and she is still in high school and she sounds ...
A. 22 September 2009: I don't think she is agreeing with your family just to impress them. She probably genuinly agrees with them, and it would be stupid to pretend like she doesn't just because you don't want her to. She should however, give you her oppinion in public. ... (read in full...)
What is your opinion of tatoos and should I get one?
Q. Ok I need some opinions. Well, my family was talking the other day, my dad had two sisters, and a brother. Well one of his sisters passed away and so his other sister and brother talked about them all getting a tattoo that their sister had. Well it ...
A. 22 September 2009: Tattoos I think are okay if they really, really mean something. Like your family for their sister. My brother and sister-in-law got one of their childs feet prints after she passed away. Getting a tattoo of a band is very jeuvenile and a mistake. I ... (read in full...)
But I want a relationship and not to be a f**k buddy.
Q. Ok so I like this guy, and I think he likes me too. We have been hanging out all summer, and recently we kissed. Then last monday I told him I liked him and his answer wasnt really informative. So I asked him if I was wasting my time and he said no. ...
A. 22 September 2009: It's not as difficult as you're making it. Just ask him if he's interested in a relationship with you because that's what you're interested in and have no desire for physicalities outside of that. ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my husband and the man I always wanted but thought I could never have...
Q. torn between lovers. i'm married to M for 6 years but in love with C for 9 years. C has always been there for me no matter what but he was married until about a year ago thats why our relationship never went any further. i love him i feel secure ...
A. 21 September 2009: How completely selfish of you to drag your husband around on your back bumper for all these years. You should have worked out your feelings a long time ago and never should have dated him when you were into someone else. And you are still dating the ... (read in full...)
Why does he think the piercing is trashy?
Q. There was a boy i realy liked and when i told hime i had my bellybutton pierced he said *wow thats trashy!" then he left! Why do you think he thinks its trashy?...
A. 21 September 2009: I really don't think he was flirting. For him, a belly ring is just not attractive. He's conservative and relates the rings to sluttier or trashier girls who wear belly shirts and whatnot. I'm definitely not calling you those things at all, but i'm ... (read in full...)
How can I make him feel more comfortable around me? He's shy...
Q. I'm dating a very shy guy. At least, he's quite outgoing normally but shy around me. He told me once that he gets really nervous around me and tends to say silly things to me that he normally wouldn't say to anyone. So I'm wondering if there's ...
A. 21 September 2009: If you want to be with him, then of course you have to tell him how you feel.
About the shy thing, the more time you spend with him, the more comfortable he will feel. Don't laugh when he says somethign stupid, don't give him strange looks when... (read in full...)
I have an uncontrollable urge to marry. Am I rushing things?
Q. I know this might sound stupid. I've been with my boyfriend 5 months. And I just really want to get married. I've had one long term relationship and several short ones, and I've never, ever felt like this about anyone before. My boyfriend h...
A. 21 September 2009: Humans have the urge to marry. That's what we do: we marry, have kids, grow old, spoil our grandchildren, get our diapers changed by our children, die and our children carry on our name. So of course you want to get married! But this is also why ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to confess his feelings for me?
Q. ok so there is this guy who is my friend. He has feelings for me but he ain't going to confess his feelings for me. He thinks that i don't know he has feelings for me, the truth is i know he has feelings for me. Since he is not going to confess, ...
A. 19 September 2009: What makes you sure he has feelings for you? I really hope you aren't just assuming he does from pure ego.
BUt it's a simple question: Do you have feelings for me? ... (read in full...)
Will I look like an idiot for writing to the man I'm in love with, "my thoughts are with you"?
Q. I feel so stupid. I am in love with a man and he recently wrote to me to tell me that he is going through an emotionally difficult time. I responded that "I understand and that my thoughts are with him". After sending it I realised that the ...
A. 18 September 2009: No ma'am not weird at all. Don't worry so much! You obviously like him otherwise you wouldn't be disecting it. If it was stupid, you would've realized before sending it. But you didn't. Which means it's only stupid in your paranoid afterthoughts, ... (read in full...)
Can I leave my mom now, one month before I'm 18? She assaulted me!
Q. okay so I turn 18 in ONE month exactly, and I live in Texas. Well my mother knows this is the last month so she's doing everything possible to make it hell. She tells me even when im 18 Ill still do what she says and everything else and im not ...
A. 18 September 2009: I really think your mom, and most any mom would hate their seventeen-year old kid going out with a man who is old enough to be divorced twice and have his own house. That's a very large age gap. But no excuse for your mother's behavior. But I really ... (read in full...)
Common sense is telling me to move on. What do you think?
Q. I was in a very loving, caring relationship with a guy for almost two years. At the end of July he had to move to Pennsylvania for grad school, and I stayed here in Hawaii to finish my undergrad degree. He will be there for the next year and a half, ...
A. 18 September 2009: It's called "common sense' for a reason and that's because it's common and it's sensible. So most people you ask will tell you to. Listen to yourself. You know what's best for you. ... (read in full...)
She doesn't always take the pill at the same time. Can I ejactulate inside her??
Q. I have a question about birth control. My girlfriend was on the pill (Ortho Tri Cyclen Low) for about 4 years. She took a 6 month break and has been back on it for about 10 months now. She takes it each morning when she gets up, but that time ...
A. 18 September 2009: Hey man. No birth control is 100% effective so you should always use two kinds if you really don't want to get pregnant. Just use condoms. They have different ones for different affects or whatever. Dont take the chance.... (read in full...)
Can I leave my mom now, one month before I'm 18? She assaulted me!
Q. okay so I turn 18 in ONE month exactly, and I live in Texas. Well my mother knows this is the last month so she's doing everything possible to make it hell. She tells me even when im 18 Ill still do what she says and everything else and im not ...
A. 18 September 2009: Gawd i'm sorry. I didn't think clearly. I knew you weren't eighteen yet but I answered as if you are. Where I live, a seventeen year old can move out and her parents can't bring her home with the police. She can legally move out. You have to check ... (read in full...)
Can I leave my mom now, one month before I'm 18? She assaulted me!
Q. okay so I turn 18 in ONE month exactly, and I live in Texas. Well my mother knows this is the last month so she's doing everything possible to make it hell. She tells me even when im 18 Ill still do what she says and everything else and im not ...
A. 18 September 2009: Your mom can't get you in trouble for leaving. You're a legal adult so it's not as if she can call the cops. You can stay with a friend or another family member if you are close to any.
She can stop you though, if she owns your car, pays your phon... (read in full...)
I am concerned about my boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. I am a christian and have been talking with someone for 2 years. He wants to have a good time for instance driving out to the country and stay for a night at a resort. I really dont want to do that. Should i give up on him and try to find someone ...
A. 18 September 2009: Are you asking if you should break up with him because he wants to go to a resort and you don't? I'm sorry ma'am but that's a little rediculous.
If you feel lonley then talk to him and come up with a solution of how he can make you feel more love... (read in full...)
My boyfriend treats me like a doll!
Q. My boyfriend treats me like a doll. He loves to hold me and carry me around, and he's always telling me how adorable I am. He treats me like I'm his to protect and love, like a flower he's trying to get to bloom, why do some guys do this?...
A. 23 June 2009: he just think you are cute and cant help himself. I am sure he is not trying to degrade you. ... (read in full...)
Things to do to keep your mind off of your ex.
Q. - Whine - Rake your carpet - Baby oil the floor - Critique "Three's Company" - Listen to a painting - Play with matches - Buff your cat - Race ferrets - Paint your house - Have a formal dinner at White Castle - Read Homer in the original Gree...
A. 23 June 2009: :D... (read in full...)
Pale skin and dark hair look beautiful to you?
Q. Ok this might be a silly question but I really need to figure this out. Summer is here ! I have been tanning for a couple of years but think I should stop because of all the skin cancer issues that it can cause. Plus the money issues i'm having at ...
A. 17 June 2009: To stop tanning will be be worth it once you get older. You sound gorgeous with light skin so don't worry about a thing. Natural is better. ... (read in full...)
Questions about porn...
Q. I have some questions about porn: 1. Why do most (notice I said 'most') women in porn have HUGE breasts and are blonde? Those are obviously fake, and men always say they don't care about size, and that they hate implants, but is this a lie? I me...
A. 11 June 2009: Porn to me is degrading, immoral, disgusting.. why would I want to watch to people F**k each other?
I love my wife. I am in love with her and she is the only one i have every been in love with and becuase of that, she is the only woman i have eve... (read in full...)
Why do girls make things so complicated?
Q. ok so there i was sittin in the library revising. opposite me was a girl who was also doing some work. i asked her "i kno ur busy but would u like to grab a bite quickly?" she said no but is goin for a smoke later and i could come with if i do ...
A. 10 May 2009: Yes Harry man i see your point. It came across to me as she was busy, as the young man stated, because they were at the library. And since she was busy, she didn't see fit to go out to eat with him but since she has to take a smoke break every now ... (read in full...)
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