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writes:I met a guy a week ago and we really hit it off. He gave me his no and I texted him a few days later. He replied and we exchanged a few messages. Now though he's not replied for a couple of days and I don't know what to do. We don't stay that close to each other but had said we'd meet if one of us was in the others city. I am 29 and feel like a big kid stressing about this, he's 32. What should I do? Just let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Everyone,
I just want to say a big thanks to you all for taking the time to answer my question. It is really good to know there are people out there who care enough to reply. I havent posted before and it's great to get your help. Thanks! : )
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reader, Confuzzled012  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 Sometimes it seems like people have forgotten about phone calls. All they do is text, but I don't think that's personal enough. Give him a call! Leave a voicemail and tell him you were just seeing what was up lately and to call you back if he can or wants to but no pressure. He could have lost his phone, maybe it died and he misplaced his charger or left is somewhere and can't get it back yet. Maybe he was busy when he got your text and forgot about it later. If you call him, then at least you can see if his phone is on or off.
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reader, obsticalfree +, writes (22 September 2009):
Don't text again wait for him to text or call you . Stay busy and if he is interested he will make a move .
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 September 2009):
You've got to wait for him to make contact. If he's interested, he'll make contact with you. Just be sure he isn't just using you at all.
Meanwhile, go out and have fun. Don't sit by the phone for him to call. Go out woth friends and have a good time. x
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 Allow him to initiat the next contact, but do not wait for it.
You certainly do not want him to think you are pining away like a love-sick teenager. ;-) Presumably, you want him to think you are a busy and interesting woman with places to go and people to see.
So, BE a busy woman with places to go and people to see. If he contacts you and actually arranges a time to meet up and initiates formal dating, then see how it goes... but until then, distract yourself with your life and if you meet someone else who is more local to you, great!
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