Issues with being bi sexual.
Q. So I'll try and keep this one as short as possible. So I've had a few relationships in my 24 years. A 9 month relationship with a guy, a 3 year relationship with a woman, a 3 month courtship with a woman and then well I was single for 18 mo...
A. 10 April 2010: Well, I still say you have to figure out what happens...meaning why the 'switch' goes off. Try to pay attention. What is it you're missing right before the switch goes off.
It could be that you need more regular threesomes. I doubt he'd mind tha... (read in full...)
I'm scared of losing my virginity!
Q. Me and this guy want to have sex for the first time, but I'm scared out of my pants here. He's not a virgin, and I am, and he said he'd take it slow. Honestly, I'm just freaking out thinking about it. I really think he's the right guy for my first ...
A. 10 April 2010: If you're that freaked out, you aren't ready. Wait until it feels right. Not because he's pressuring you or because you think you SHOULD do it.
When I lost mine I wasn't nervous at all. I loved him. He loved me. We waited. We were both vir... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits and I don't know what to do.
Q. OK, lets say harry, last year he asked me out, i wasnt sure what to say, we kinda just were together. I thought he was over me but start of this year he has been calling me babe and sexy. I guess he pulled me in again and we sent nude photos o...
A. 10 April 2010: I fail to see the problem. You know what friends with benefits is or what friends with an advantage means. It means you're nothing but a sex partner. He owes nothing more to you. You're a vagina he can put his penis into. That's all. W... (read in full...)
Is It Normal To Feel Sick After Sex?
Q. Basically, I'm asking if it's normal to feel ill after sex? I am asking this because yesterday my boyfriend and I were left alone for well...a good long time. We had sex twice, and just messed around in general like... a lot. We used a condom, b...
A. 10 April 2010: condoms arent 100 percent reliable... how long was it from the first time? Could it be you're pregnant?
Also, how do you know you don't have allergies to the lube or the latex condom? have you used them before with other people and it's only thi... (read in full...)
How can I find happiness again?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. As with most relationships, it was absolutely PERFECT in the beginning. Then we found some astoundishing incompatibilities between us which caused problems with jealousy and trust. But we fought to ...
A. 9 April 2010: Have you been to therapy for this?
I think depression is as bad as you want it to be. You can let it overtake you or you can move on.
I've been told I'm depressed for several years. I don't really have the time to for it. All I know is I'... (read in full...)
How do I get my dad to realize that my stepmother is the problem too?
Q. hiya, two years ago my dad got re-married and i HATE her. i've written about her before but then it wasn't so bad. she doesn't do anything to me but her even BEING there is awful. i have told my dad this many times but he always takes HER side. sa...
A. 9 April 2010: You hate her just for BEING there? She does nothing bad to you but you hate her anyway?
How's that for unfair? No wonder he takes her side.
How is she a problem when she doesn't DO anything to you??
I don't get it.
Stop whining and ... (read in full...)
Issues with being bi sexual.
Q. So I'll try and keep this one as short as possible. So I've had a few relationships in my 24 years. A 9 month relationship with a guy, a 3 year relationship with a woman, a 3 month courtship with a woman and then well I was single for 18 mo...
A. 9 April 2010: Find out what it is about being with the guy that is different than being with a woman. It's not the sex, I can almost guarantee it. ALMOST.
Women are mental. I don't understand lesbians at all. However men are "distant" and when they want sex... (read in full...)
Do you think I still have a chance with this guy?
Q. Hi There's a boy who's been flirting with me for a while. He's always hugging me and saying that he 'loves me', he also goes out of his way to walk me home. At a party we were playing truth or dare, and he admitted that he has got a crush on me. E...
A. 9 April 2010: I'll spare you the you're too young to date speech. (even though imo you are) That said, I'll say my guess is you 'rejected' him by saying maybe. He might have thought you said maybe to not hurt his feelings. Guys are weird like that. So... (read in full...)
I know he is not good for me, but ....
Q. Hi, I have been going out with a guy fot the last year. When we first got together it was brill oh godhe rocked my world, he was sweet but now getting to know him its alot diff.... He doesn work so i pay everything (Which doesn bother m...
A. 9 April 2010: what? I don't understand your question. The thought of having him kills you? So you're with him... why?
He shows you affection and you hate it? Or is he controlling your life, ie. you can't be away from him because he freaks. Can't be with ... (read in full...)
Mr. Right is in all the wrong places
Q. Dear cupid, I have been soul searching for Mr. Right but where is he? I know what I want in a man and its not that my standard are to high because I found all the qualities that I'm looking for yet when I try and date these men that I think are Mr. ...
A. 9 April 2010: lack of detective skills is my first impression. All these guys ended up having weird secrets. I hope you didnt' sleep with any of them!
I say find some common thread, because believe me, there IS one, between all these men and then you'll k... (read in full...)
Oral Sex - she takes it but wont give it!
Q. I am married man and i love to have blow from my wife, but my wife dont want to have my pinis in her mouth nor she likes my cum fall on her body. But she loves me licking her pussy. i am not satisfied. how to convince her to give a blow job. please ...
A. 9 April 2010: Do what I do. You don't give, you don't receive. It's that simple. If she won't do it for you, don't do it for her.
Now the cum on her body thing I can understand, I hate that. So cum somewhere else. She's not a porn star.
If she won't ... (read in full...)
Did she just reject me?
Q. She said "Ur Crazy" I said "Crazy about you" She said "You are mistaken" I said "LOl. It's true. I am" The she said, "Oops your mistaken again." I said "Lol. Ok I am MISTAKEN!" She said, "I know. It's okay." I was trying to make the situatio...
A. 9 April 2010: I think I need more than what you gave me to make any kind of response.
I mean you're mistaken that you're crazy about her? Um... OK... how does she know that?
No... there's something more to this puzzle and you didn't give it to us.... (read in full...)
I think I'm holding on to something I should let go of
Q. OK so this is the final question I have about my ongoing relationship... She won't stop using the dating website and reckons she wants to meet people from all over the world to chat to them. I think it's wrong to be using a dating website if she's...
A. 9 April 2010: dude.... seriously? She's dating people online and you're wondering if you should stay with her...?
Did something fall on your head?
Now me, I'm a chatterbox. I am on facebook A LOT. I never meet people offline though. And my boyfriend has... (read in full...)
He tells me I blow hot and cold and now the relationship is really messed up
Q. Hi Im really getting fed up of men treating me badly, to the point where I am getting very despondent. After a 2.5 year relatinship with an abuser, we split and I have had a year out being single with the odd date in between, recently I met a great ...
A. 9 April 2010: You need to spend time by yourself anyway, girl. You need to heal from the wounds your abusive person left you. This new guy isn't good for you. He can't be understanding. And if he was sick, how do you want him to respond to you? If I had... (read in full...)
5 things I DO NOT miss about my ex...
Q. Hey everyone, So it's been just over 2 months since I broke up with my boyfriend and I am finally starting to come to terms with the reasons why we broke up in the first place. I thought that it might be a good idea to start a thread on 5 things t...
A. 9 April 2010: Hmmm.... I'm with the Myau that says bitching will get you nowhere. Just accept it wasn't meant to be and move on...
However, misery does love company...
Now me, I have a question... if the guys did all these things to you, WHY THE HELL did... (read in full...)
Can you love 2 people at the same time?
Q. my ex left me for another girl 8 months ago yet we've still remained in touch. he says he still loves me and would like to think we'll get back together some day. he also admits that he loves her and doesnt know what to do. What's he playing at? You ...
A. 9 April 2010: You can love two people at the same time. As sweetspicy says, you can love your mother, your father, your lover, your child, etc. Love is not limited.
But that's not really your question, is it? Your question is, is this guy playing you?
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I am not happy and have not been for a long time and I deserve better. How do I move on?
Q. How do I move on? Anyone else in the same situation? I would love all the positive feedback I can get on this. We have been married almost 12 years, we have known of each other since middle school. My husband has said he has wanted to be with me as ...
A. 9 April 2010: I stopped at "he's cheated on me on and off for years."
The rest of your thing was irrelevant to me. I don't knwo WHY you're still there. Once a cheater shows up, I leave. There is NO POINT in hanging on. He broke the vows.
yeah he's sec... (read in full...)
What do women want? I don't know!
Q. A while ago, I came across a blog entry from a male musician on MySpace. It was about how men should be treating women with more respect and courtesy, and how women are not objects, and so should not be treated as such. I was liking the whole idea ...
A. 9 April 2010: I think it depends on the girl and the guy. Some creepy looking guy comes up to me and says I'm beautiful I'll say thanks then move the hell on rather quickly! A normal looking guy, whether he's a nerd or a supermodel tells me the same thing and ... (read in full...)
No vibrator... how can I improvise?
Q. How can I get a vibrator without ordering it off line and where can I get one that cost less that 20 bucks? What else can I use if i dont have a vibrator or dildo?...
A. 9 April 2010: It's called using your right hand... or left...if you're a lefty. It's called using your fingers and sometimes both hands. It's called using other objects if you incline yourself that way. Some girls use veggies, some use deli meats (hot dogs, ... (read in full...)
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