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writes:HiThere's a boy who's been flirting with me for a while. He's always hugging me and saying that he 'loves me', he also goes out of his way to walk me home. At a party we were playing truth or dare, and he admitted that he has got a crush on me. Everyone asked me If I would go on a date with him and I said maybe. They all told him to take me on a date, and he said he would. However a week or two later I bought up the topic of dates, and he changed the subject instantly. I've had time to think about him, and i'm starting to feel something towards him. However I don't think I have a chance with him anymore. We still talk and he's still flirting with me. Although how will I know If he wants to give a relationship a try?Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): Guys like it when girls are direct. He already put himself out there, so now its your turn. You need to walk up to him and ask him out on a date. Thats the only way to get your answer. And if it doesnt work, dont feel bad. You are just going off what he said before.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (9 April 2010):
 At this point you just need to flat out ask him. Since you didn't answer immediately he may think you have doubts. Don't be afraid to take the initiative. Ask him out yourself. Sounds like he definitely likes you.
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reader, cnith +, writes (9 April 2010):
 I'll spare you the you're too young to date speech. (even though imo you are)That said, I'll say my guess is you 'rejected' him by saying maybe. He might have thought you said maybe to not hurt his feelings. Guys are weird like that.So ask him straight out. Don't do goofy girls playing games things like hints or indirect questions. That doesn't work with guys.Next time you two are flirting say "so when are we going out on a real date?" or something like that. If he laughs or makes a joke, he might think you're not being serious, in which case you say it again. "No, I'm serious. You said at so and so's party you'd take me out on a date. Are we going to go out or not? I really want to know."You might even say "I really like you. I want to go out with you on a real date."You know your guy better than I do, do what's comfortable but what I told you is the idea of what you want to say.Right now, I have a feeling he feels rejected by you.
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