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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I am am an 18 year old male and I just can't take it anymore. I myself try to be a nice guy, but guess what? Every girl I date acts like a jerk, and never talks to me again. I'm always just used, girls like playing with my emotions and, i'm sick of it. All I want is to find a nice loving relationship. Where we both love each other, and share the same fun times together and smiles together. But no, all I get is treated as if I am punching bag, who girls just want to take their anger out on because some other guy hurt them or some crap like that. Girls will tell me they like me and have a crush on me, then all of a sudden they will start insulting me telling me i'm not attractive and just not a good type. I'm sorry but I'm done. I'm done with being hurt. I'm not a punching bag and will never be one again! Is this how guys like me are treated? Why is it jerkoff's are treated better than me? Well i'm just done, I don't care anymore. I have given girls a chance, but you know what i'm not letting anyone abuse me Any more. I'm done looking for a gf. I don't trust girls any more because they always do the same thing and just hurt me. The problem is and the reason I am writing on here is, I just can't stop thinking about it. I want nothing to do with girls any more. But I can't stop wanting a relationship and wanting to be with a girl. Idk can someone help me out, and get this off my mind so I can move on and just forget about all this. P.S i'm not gay, i'm just sick of being abused and don't want it to ever happen again. I have never had a normal gf, Every single person I have dated has abused me. They start off lying to me telling me they have the same interest's as me, and i'm a dream guy, then as time goes on I turn into that punching bag and they start doing hurtful things to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2011): Hey, thanks for the help! I agree with you, people are immature at this age range.
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reader, cian  +, writes (23 September 2011):
 It's time to change what you are looking for. Clearly, you are desiring of something more mature now, and you may not find that in the age range you date. I also would caution against meeting people online. Try at univerity or college. Developing that friendship first can make things a lot better. Good luck.
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