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*elly483
writes:we both have been flirting with each other and we started doing stuff but stopped as he dont want a girlfriend yet but then we started having fun again and we are supposed to be friends and then we stopped it again and he stopped texting me and then out of the blue he texted me and we texted each other all night we work together he is my manager and we was on the shop floor and he sat on the floor i think he wanted me 2 sit with him but i didnt and he got up and then he walked away but be and he went completely away he winked at me i just dont know
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reader, kelly483 +, writes (22 February 2009):
kelly483 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u every 1 4 your advice and i think u r rite and i am worth more then that and we havent slept with each other and i am still a virgin
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
Yes but the fact you are here still screams that you are enexperienced, out of your depth and desperately hoping that by having sex with him and flirting, that he will fall in love with you.
THIS NEVER HAPPENS. Have a read of the site and look at all the questions about Friends with Benefits relationships. NOT ONCE will you see an answer saying "hang in there, my bloke woke up one morning and decided that I was worth more than that and starting putting in tonnes of effort and making me super happy."
He may well use words like "yet" but trust me when I say that if you want a boyfriend, you need to end this relationship with him and look else where.
Friends with Benefits only ever works if that is all you are: Friends, and neither of you wants anything more than friendship.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kelly483 +, writes (22 February 2009):
kelly483 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell we have been doing more then just flirting we r friends with benefits and him being my manager we have kept work and r relationship seperate we r ok 2 work together and he did say yet so there could b hope
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reader, cian  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 I was always taught to "never stick my pen in the company ink."
I think this advice applies, despite the fact its cliche.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 February 2009):
He's flirting with you. It's a bit of fun.
You sound a little bit inexperienced with men so I can see how you would think that if he flirts then he must like you.
He has made his intentions clear. He doesn't want a girlfriend, he just wants someone to flirt with a little bit by text.
If you can't handle that or you think it will make you fall for him then don't get involved. Keep your work as work and go out and find a boyfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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