How can we get past this, and how can I drop him out of my mind so I can fully love my wonderful girlfriend?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a wonderful relationship. Unfortunatly, her last one was not so great. He would tell her she 'dressed like a whore' and other verbal absuses. He also used to slap her during sex and pass it off as 'normal' (she would later ...
A. 8 May 2012: Some of us stays in a rut because we focus on the close door rather than focus on the open door.
You might want to start with, stop being angry with her ex becase he only did what she allow him to do to her.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Now that it seems my husband and I are going to succeed his vile sister wants a piece of the action!
Q. Hello everyone, I am in need of advice about my husband's sister. (ugh I feel odd just typing that) My husband moved to my state from one up north to get into a college he wanted. Well of course life throws twist. He met me!(I am a mother as well...
A. 7 May 2012: It was nice of her to take her brother under her wings when their mother became ill but my goodness he's a grown man now and she needs to let go, stay away from his sister
as far as you can, never do business with someone on drugs,
tell your hus... (read in full...)
It hurts me so much that we can be together and then she does these things behind my back!
Q. My girlfriend for a month so far we (dated for 3 years she left me for another man back together after a year) keeps on talking too other men dirty and has cheated on me with one in the last month. And swears she will change and i forgive like ...
A. 7 May 2012: Straight to the point... get out of this relationship now...you're still young so take the pain (hurt)and move on because you will never be able to trust her. It's not like someone told you she's seeing other guys, you found out for yourself on her ... (read in full...)
Boy swapping gone wrong?
Q. Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we ...
A. 29 April 2012: He had sex with your best friend because it was your idea. cutejennykitty.....If you love your boyfriend as much as you say, why would you cheat on him?? I'm sure he loves you because he wouldn't be angry. Keep talking to him to get him to open up, ... (read in full...)
Boy swapping gone wrong?
Q. Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we ...
A. 29 April 2012: Yes!!! I think this would be a good time to bring this up because you need to appologize for coming up with a stupid idea like this and let him know you don't go both ways, you need to find out how this affected him... (read in full...)
Boy swapping gone wrong?
Q. Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we ...
A. 29 April 2012: Your boyfriend doesn't trust you any more... so maybe he thinks you go both ways...He shouldn't have went for your stupid ideal. All 4 of you should take the blame, not just you. I've read all the posters and they gave you very good imformation, I ... (read in full...)
Met on a sugar daddy website but it hasn't turned out to be that kind of arrangement, do you think anything serious can come of this?
Q. To Whom it may concern: About two months ago I met someone online on a sugar daddy website. It was the first time either of us has ever met up with anyone from the website. Lets call him Jack. Jack is 39 and very wealthy. His work causes him to tr...
A. 27 March 2012: Jack knows what he's doing, you just don't know what Jack is doing. Don't be fooled by Mr. Jack, Mr. Jack may not be as wealthy as he say he is. I think you're just a young piece of meat to Jack, you know nothing about this guy, only what he tells ... (read in full...)
Do you strive to end relationships on a good note?
Q. Hey, friends! I just have a simple question of opinion. Do you think it's better to end a relationship neatly, on a decent note? Or are you okay if the end of your relationship with someone was messy? I'll be moving from the city I'm current...
A. 26 March 2012: I've never done drugs but I do know a lot of people that got caught up in this type of behavior.. I would leave on a good note.. not because of him but because of me... there's some things I've done in the pass that I wish NOW that I had handle in a ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend said he doesn't feel guilty about cheating or lying to me!
Q. My bf of 2 years told me he cheated on me with his ex in October. He told me right after it happened and asked me to pleas forgive him please lets try to make this work. I called her and she tells me jhow this is the only time she crossed the line ...
A. 25 March 2012: He knows you're going to believe all of his lies so he can tell you anything, He does not feel guilty of cheating or lying to you because he's not into you and in so many words he has told you straight up but you keep asking him questions about this ... (read in full...)
Why does it feel like I'm the one having to make all the moves?
Q. Tell it to me straight people I especially need some advice from The men I'm seeing a man it's been about a month maybe once a week, but we go way back there's history. We've had three sleepover dates and lots of making out but I won't let him sl...
A. 22 March 2012: I met a guy once and I thought he really liked me to have a relationship but come to find out he liked me so much until he just wanted me to be his friend so we'll still friends after 8 years. At first I thought I had it going on because he was ... (read in full...)
All of a sudden my boyfriend is sick of me and thinks I'm too predictable!
Q. I have been with my bf for almost 10 months, and we have been pretty good except for the rare arguments that we work out. He has a huge sense of humor, and he makes jokes about anything, everything, and he knows that I always say he doesnt know when ...
A. 22 March 2012: I say let him go because he's criticizing you with his little jokes, you do not have to put up with his childish ways, if he really cared about you he would work on the things he doesn't like about you in a polite way, you will meet a nice guy to ... (read in full...)
Insecurity issues -- she cheated and said he was her best ever
Q. Hello everyone Now I have a big insecurity issue to deal with and it usually end up with me feeling unwanted by my fiancé Long story short We got into a fight we broke up I tried getting back then found out that a guy that used to ONLY give h...
A. 19 March 2012: It's not what you got.. It's how you use it..she will be in and out of relationships for the rest of her life looking for a big one, a real woman doesn't care about size because a real woman want a man that will love her for her and the same for a ... (read in full...)
Why am I the only one without love?
Q. So have been in three relationships. I am 17 right now. I would say that the last relationship was true love. I know this sounds stupid saying I am so young and I already experienced true love. I never felt anything like that with him. Anyway he ...
A. 19 March 2012: Because you are very young and your whole life is ahead of you and one day you will meet the right guy, don't rush it,
how about going to a social club or a movie with some schoolmates and focus on what you want to be in life.... (read in full...)
I finally broke with him and he already has somebody new.
Q. Hi just need some advice how do you get over the pain and heartbreak of splitting with someone me and my boyfriend were together over a year I really loved him but he treated me terribly he only came around once a week wanting sex he would go to ...
A. 19 March 2012: I am so proud of you putting an end to this because he didn't love you, you loved him, you should be happy and pat yourself on the back. Never date a guy if he can't spend some time with you, all he wanted from you was sex. A light should hav... (read in full...)
Jealous of not having "female" experiences due to looks
Q. I sometimes feel as if I'm less of a woman because I'm more on the side of Plain Jane/Ugly, and thus do not have a lot of the experiences that other women seem to bond over. I sit with a group of women at lunch, and lately at least one of the...
A. 19 March 2012: A nice personality makes an unattractive woman beautiful!!... (read in full...)
She says she loves me but can't be a girlfriend right now. HUH?
Q. So my girlfriend told me that she wants a break because she can't be a girlfriend right now but she isn't breaking up with me but she tells me that i am the one. so i don't know what this means. does this mean we are broken up or just seperated or ...
A. 18 March 2012: Not to make you feel bad but that's the same thing my son's girlfriend told him, she wanted a break but come to find out she was dating two other guys, hope she's not doing that to you.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wont spend mothers day with me - am I overreacting?
Q. This time last year my grandmother died and it is mothers day weekend as everyone knows and my mum is working all day today and tomorrow. My boyfriend knows how upset i am, i was crying yesterday because I am just feeling quite lonely. At Christmas ...
A. 18 March 2012: Why not spend mother's day with boyfriend and his mum since your mum working long hours the whole weekend? They can listen to you talk about your grandmun since it's mother's day which could help you in missing your grandmum.
Hope you'll be alri... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to my cousin and we are both girls .What do I do?
Q. Hi! I am a chick and am attracted to my cousin who is also a female.Her and I are very close best friends..we usually text or call each other frequently n we have sleep overs. O...
A. 31 March 2011: How can you lay up with your cousin, aren't there other girls in your city? You might want to think about that before you act because you might regret that later on in life as you get older and you will have to live with this for the rest of your ... (read in full...)
How on earth do you get over someone?
Q. How on earth do you get over someone? This June, it will be a whole year since me and my exboyfriend split. I decided to leave the college I was at and went to one around 30 mins away to get a better education and when I was with him, I told ...
A. 14 March 2011: I would think he doesn't want to see you because if he did he would make effort to see you because he knows how to contact you, he knows how you feel about him, he knows you miss him and its being a year, If I were you I would forget about him and ... (read in full...)
I have no friends and I'm clingy to anyone that wants to be my boyfriend!
Q. Hi people I've got a really big problem. I had a tough childhood and went to nine schools as a child it made me finding friends a real problem and as a result I'm so shy and don't have any friends I'm now twenty six and have two children my kids dad ...
A. 14 March 2011: I used to be very shy until I found out that there are many many people out there just as shy as I am. How about going online and read about how to over come being shy and you might want to read about low self-esteem because that was part of my ... (read in full...)
Has too much time passed for me to tell her how I really feel?
Q. I was in a very long relationship that ended last December. She started seeing someone else, but then was on again off again (talk of reconciliation, then not) with me until last May when she became official with this guy(despite saying weeks ...
A. 24 February 2011: If I were you I would not call or text her, I would take the pain and move on, the pain wont hurt forever, you're get over it. first of all she's got another guy over you so thats spoil meat now. If you get back with her it will always be in your ... (read in full...)
Would you be upset if your fiance didn't give you a Valentine and a birthday gift in the same week?
Q. If your fiancée doesn’t give you a Valentine or a birthday present (Feb. 17th) after 6 years would you be upset? I have spent months taking care of him after his cancer treatment. I would have loved a card, but he just calls me names....
A. 21 February 2011: YES, I would be very upset and as a matter of fact I'm upset because he did this to you, I would be looking for the card on valentine and my birthday with candy or something to go alone with it. Reading you question brought tears to my eyes. Seems ... (read in full...)
An unspoken break...is it over? how long does it last?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and nine months. I am 39, he is 33. It has been absolutely wonderful. I have never felt as adored and loved in a relationship before and I reciprocated those feelings back to him. Things have been ...
A. 16 February 2011: I think he was just there for the money because when you lost your job that told the hold story, he treated you tho if he loved you to keep the money rolling, if he love you he does not need time to think, if he love you he does not need space, if ... (read in full...)
I want to give him a BJ, but he smells and tastes kinda funky...
Q. Hello. I want to give my boyfriend a blowjob, but I can't, because he smells kinda bad down there. He's clean, he takes daily showers, but his penis still has some funny smell. I also tasted it once and I wanted to throw up - it was very salty. ...
A. 9 February 2011: I would have him to wash it off with Baking Soda, I bet that will get the job done because baking soda kills bad smells. I had a friend that took a shower every day but still had that bad under arm smell, the baking soda did the job. He can put ... (read in full...)
I'm so hurt right now I don't know what to do...
Q. Here is my story... I was dating a girl for over a year and the entire time we were together things were great. A few months into the relationship she began always asking me to buy her an engagement ring and a house we could live in. At first I ...
A. 8 February 2011: I would leave her alone because it sounds like she's a gold digger and a gold digger is never satisfied and I will never quit my job to please a women, I am a women.
She just want to get what she can and move on to the next guy. A close friend of m... (read in full...)
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