Is it over the top to want my first date ever to be nice and memorable?
Q. I've never actually been on a date before despite being my early 20s. I'm OK looking and friendly so I've been asked out, I just haven't wanted to as I am a busy girl. Anyway, I've joined an online dating site for fun and got a fair few offers ...
A. 26 February 2017: Try not looking at meeting someone for the first time as your first date!
You are just meeting them!
If it goes well discuss what you might like to do on your first date, while you're having coffee!
I STRESS if it goes WELL! Don't come on too ... (read in full...)
I hope I'm wrong but wonder based on these signs if should I just move on?
Q. I normally have a really good intuition about relationships and men, but oftentimes ignore it in hopes that I am wrong. I'm sort of hoping that I'm wrong this time around, but I digress. I met with this guy about a month ago. He is older than me...
A. 26 February 2017: You are saying the things we've all said a millon times when we really like someone but they are not reciprocating.
Stop doing this to yourself! There is a man who wants to treat you like a queen, and make you feel like the most beautiful woman on e... (read in full...)
How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.
Q. My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...
A. 26 February 2017: I agree with other reply that says, basically, HOW COULD YOU MARRY A MAN WITHOUT KNOWING THIS!!!!
I would ask him to impregnate you, and say that you just want a baby and you don't want anything else from him. You'd be surpised how many men chan... (read in full...)
I can't get in contact with my love who has moved on to another country. How can I deal with his absence?
Q. This boy that I have fallen in love with has moved to Spain and I have no way of getting in touch with him. Although he is back in summer but that's 5 months away. I'm worried he might find another girl whilst he's there and everyday I worry an...
A. 26 February 2017: He may not have found another girl, but,trustme, he's trying his best!
I'm sorry but he really doesn't care about you in the slightest.
He has gone on his jolies, and yes he may try and pick you back up when he comes home.
My advice is, don't wa... (read in full...)
If he wants to remain friends, I'm going to need a sincere apology!
Q. I recently broke it off with a guy I was dating because he wasn't ready for commitment. It hurt a lot but I'm mostly over it now. There was a deep connection and we could potentially be really good friends if the bad feelings can be resolved....
A. 26 February 2017: 'He is allowing his past heartbreaks to control him'!!!!!!!!!
I have never heard such a pile of s**t in all my life. You want to help him heal?
He tried to have you and your mate, just seeing who would reply. That's called hedging your bets!
Y... (read in full...)
She's still sharing a bed with her partner of 6 years! What do I do?
Q. Hi I'm seeing a girl and have been for over 6 months but she's still living with her partner of 6 years ... I did know her before and was common knoledge they were not close ... she promised me she would leave once she got the finance to move out ...
A. 26 February 2017: Love is one thing, but you are being taken for a ride!
She is a piss-taker and you behaving like a fool!
Get a grip!
Imagine you had just read what you have posted!
I can't believe I even replied!
SERIOUSLY!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Would I be betraying my Mom's memory if I get close to Dad's new girlfriend?
Q. Hello, My name is Bree. 2 years ago my mother died and it has been sad and rough for my Dad and I. When my mom died it really broke my Dad's heart, he loved her so much and misses her, and I miss her too. But last month my Dad told me he met another ...
A. 26 February 2017: I think It was very smart your dad's girlfriend to give you some time to think about it. I can tell you, if you weren't getting on in the first place, she probably would have waited a while before suggesting a girl's day.
You Know in your heart that... (read in full...)
I feel he guilt trips me into staying with him.
Q. My partner needs help with his anger and possessive behaviour , how do I help him .. I know I can't help him he needs a professional but what do I do in this process !? It's sounds horrible because im finding it hard to believe he will change and ...
A. 26 February 2017: Maybe he will change, but not anytime soon, and not with you. LEAVE. This is a losing battle. It will only get worse, not better.
RUN!... (read in full...)
My best friend hates my boyfriend, I don't want to break up with him for her.
Q. I have a boyfriend that I love very much, however my best friend hates him and she thinks he's taking me away from her. However I hang round with my best friend a lot more than I do with my boyfriend and she gets very jealous when I'm with him . She ...
A. 26 February 2017: Your friend misses you. If she is your best friend, and she really doesn't like your boyfriend, is it just because she misses you, or she's lonely, or jealous?
If you explain to your friend how much this is troubling you, and she still won't get ... (read in full...)
I like him but worry about his motives.
Q. Hi so there's this guy that I've had feelings for for a while. I'm 99% sure he at least likes me a little but for some reason I still have some doubt in my mind, which might just be because I'm not use to guys genuinely wanting to get to know etc. ...
A. 26 February 2017: You're 99% sure he likes you a little?!!!!!!
If he really honestly likes you, when or if you have sex won't even be an issue.
I was lucky enough that my first was also my first love and we were together for a year before we had sex. I totally ... (read in full...)
How do I tell someone that their romantic feelings toward me are not mutual?
Q. I'm not into relationships at all, just casual stuff mainly. However, a guy I've recently been seeing thinks he's fallen in love with me and wants to be in a relationship. The issue is I can't bring myself to tell him that's not what I want. I'm ...
A. 26 February 2017: Have an honest converstion with him. See if you are on the same page. If he wants more and you don't just tell him; but probably stop and fling you are having with him, that's just messing with his head.
Imagine how you would feel if you saw him ... (read in full...)
I'm losing the love I used to have for my boyfriend. How do I let go?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, known him for four. Over the past month or so I've felt my feelings towards him just fade. When he text me I feel myself drain, when he holds me I feel a little uncomfortable, just little things l...
A. 26 February 2017: You have to end the relationship. Unfortunately, there is no good way. It will hurt. People will cry. The only way is face to face, be honest, but kind, and do it the sooner the better. We all get our hearts broken. We heal and we move on. It's a ... (read in full...)
I've had bad luck with women in the past, and now I'm wondering if this new girl is testing me or just playing games
Q. I would like some advice on what to do with a female I'm currently talking to. Ive had no luck in the past when it comes to relationships and have always ended up getting hurt, no fault of my own. I'm not a bad looking guy and can get dates, I deci...
A. 26 February 2017: Are you saying some girl is playing games with you on a dating site before you've even met her? She is bad news ... (read in full...)
He's been flirting with me, but after seeing him out with another woman I'm not sure how he really feels!
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy nearly two years ago. Did not like him to begin. Then started to get to know him and he started flirting he gave me his number. Cutting a long story short, we have been talking for many weeks and my feelings h...
A. 26 February 2017: I totally agree with everyone telling you to let this one go! It's never a great idea to get involved with a work colleague, but an ambivalent one is even worse!
If you have these feelings for him, he knows. He doesn't feel the same. Don't be the ... (read in full...)
How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares
Q. I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...
A. 23 February 2017: I know how you feel! The answer is NO. If people really care they don't disappear and they make the effort to make sure they are in touch with you because they can't wait to see or talk to you. Anything less is just passing the time. We question ... (read in full...)
Should I stop having sex with my boyfriend???
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. During month 6 he proposed to me the issue I am having is with sex I want enjoy having sex with him but I crave it so much I feel overwhelmed. We don't have sex often because I really want to s...
A. 23 February 2017: If you truly believe you will marry this man, then that should really go hand in hand with your spiritual beliefs.
If you may not marry him, you've already let it go and there is no use in feeling guilty or holding back.
Sex can be just pleasure... (read in full...)
Sucking on breasts. Is that so enjoyable that it can be described as an act of love and deeply satisfying when between two adults in a relationship?
Q. Dear Cupids Having experienced the wonder of a female friend breastfeeding her child a question arose. When a woman breastfeeds her child, it's a highly beneficial situation for both of them. Not only in nourishing, but also for bonding, cl...
A. 23 February 2017: What you enjoy is between you and your partner. Just always be honest about what you like, and vice versa.
It'll work or it won't.... (read in full...)
Is it up to me to make the first move in this situation? Because I think he thinks, in error, that I'm exclusively gay.
Q. I sit next to a guy in one of my classes, and I've realised recently that I'm really into him. I work with him on a production and I think it's been coming on for a while, but best of all I get the impression he's into me too. I just have sever...
A. 23 February 2017: First of all, it's so very rare that long distance relationships at universities work, especially in different countries. I'm not saying they can't, but please don't kid yourself!
You might be right, maybe he doesn't realise he has a chance. GO FOR ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to see this man? He is also my boss. He says he wants to keep his independence, and doesn't want anything serious
Q. Hi all! I've recently started a new position in my work place and since moving facilities my boss and I have become very close (he is the same age as me 26). It all started with him asking discreet questions about my relationship status,...
A. 23 February 2017: You seem to have your head screwed on! I would say, enjoy yourself. If you have found someone you have a connection with, that doesn't happen often.
Maybe it'll be more, maybe it won't. If you care enough to write about it; ENJOY YOURSELF!
You m... (read in full...)
The way he manages money puts marriage in doubt
Q. Hi, So I have a question regarding relationships and finances. What do you think about being in a relationship with a guy who says that it will be a long time before he can get married, and the reason is that he is in a lot of debt because of ...
A. 23 February 2017: He clearly doesn't give a shit about getting married and having kids!
Propose to him. If he uses the debt excuse, say you don't care, you'll love him whatever and you want children.
Really, I think you should RUN and find someone who wants what you... (read in full...)
So many questions with him paying for porn
Q. Hi there, I know the topic of my question has been discussed a lot but I still feel the need to ask. I have been with my boyfriend for 1year and a half and everything has been great, I had my own place and he has his. Then, this summer, my lease...
A. 23 February 2017: NO PARTNER SHOULD BE WATCHING PORN WHILE THE OTHER IS IN THE HOUSE, UNLESS IT'S TOGETHER OR WITH EXPRESS PERMISSION.
He has a problem. He clearly doesn't think so, but you are so uncomfortable you are on a website.
I know you love him, but do you r... (read in full...)
Why does he run hot and cold?
Q. Hi i need some advice here.. I've been seeing this guy for a month now We dont have any label in our relationship The first 2 weeks he's been so caring Were more like a cat and a dog but his sweet at the same time but suddenly he keeps on ignorin...
A. 23 February 2017: At your age, never imagine for a second that this might not happen.
And certainly never ask if everything is ok and then shag them.
He is looking round for other girls and then using you for sex because he can.
Don't let him. You did nothing wron... (read in full...)
I need a kick to end this toxic relationship!
Q. I am in the worst relationship I have EVER been in. I'm totally miserable and bored to tears when I'm with him. He is rude, selfish, disrespectful to me and woman in general. I'm ashamed to admit I have been with this guy for over six years. He ...
A. 23 February 2017: Maybe you're right. Maybe he is the best you can do. Maybe this is all you deserve.
If you are unhappy in your relationship, and he is so awful, you must hate yourself.
Usually, there's a very good reason for that; maybe some trauma or abuse (p... (read in full...)
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