I love her but am no longer IN LOVE with her
Q. Hello, I am no longer in love with my common-law wife. She had a one night stand with someone early in our relationship during an agreed 10 day "break", and also slept with her ex a couple of times. (Although, I must admit, she left that ex for...
A. 17 September 2009: It doesn't seem like the two of you have ever had a love trust relationship with each other - at the same time in your relationship.. First, you are in the relationship - and she is cheating - Then she is trying to make it work, and you are ... (read in full...)
Is he shy or am I kidding myself?
Q. Ok well i'll start from the beginning, I've just been in Greece for 2 weeks, went with a male friend who used to be my boyfriend. I went with him because we get on well and wanted to see if we could get back together. Over the course of the holiday ...
A. 11 September 2009: You had already booked the holiday, and otherwise would have lost the money .. Then simplified, you can tell your Greek man that you and your travel companion were just friends .. Then if he asks further, you can tell him about the trip being ... (read in full...)
Is he shy or am I kidding myself?
Q. Ok well i'll start from the beginning, I've just been in Greece for 2 weeks, went with a male friend who used to be my boyfriend. I went with him because we get on well and wanted to see if we could get back together. Over the course of the holiday ...
A. 10 September 2009: Absolutely .. sounds like he has been weeded out, so to speak.. ha Just go ahead and call the Greek man.. I hope he is free, for you. ... (read in full...)
Is he shy or am I kidding myself?
Q. Ok well i'll start from the beginning, I've just been in Greece for 2 weeks, went with a male friend who used to be my boyfriend. I went with him because we get on well and wanted to see if we could get back together. Over the course of the holiday ...
A. 10 September 2009: Anonymous;
I hope you are sure the the Greek man is "the one" - because otherwise, you have made a mistake - Or maybe it has shown you that you weren't in love with your exboyfriend after all?
At any rate, you will have to telephone the Gree... (read in full...)
We had sex and now bumping into him is very awkward!
Q. I recently and very unexpectedly had sex with a guy I had just met from the neighbourhood. I thought he was a half decent person and didn't expect much afterwards. However, I ended up getting much less. Initially it was decided that we would get ...
A. 10 September 2009: You were never repulsive.. This person's feelings of shame or whatever - were from within himself.. Know who you are in Christ Jesus.. a beautiful, whole, complete woman.. Any way that a mear mortal would look at you - would not change this .. ... (read in full...)
My friends wont accept me for who I am
Q. I have friends who I don't think I can be friends with anymore. They don't accept me for who I am and I am sure they talk behind my back! I am not good at confronting people. What should I do?...
A. 9 September 2009: Maybe stop feeding them? Don't tell them anything that it would not be fun for them to repeat.. Don't let them see anything that you would not wish for them to see in you .. Then by starving them.. time will tell, in other ways if they are really ... (read in full...)
I'm making myself sick over this... please help!
Q. I'm new here so hope I don't sound toO crazy. I do love my husband but the things I have found out and the lies ARE about toO much, my first marriage I put up with more than I should have and said I would never let another man hurt me again and I ...
A. 9 September 2009: Reading between the lines, it sounds as if you have not been married very long, and your husband has cheated on you - is this true? If it is true.. He knew of your despair with your first marriage.. Now he has done the same thing in such a short ... (read in full...)
I feel as though my life is at a stand-still. Please help!
Q. Please Help, I am 20 years old and have recently bought a house with my boyfriend of two and a half years which we moved into May 2009. Although I was over excited at the time I regret the decision I made with a vengeance. I feel like when I reac...
A. 9 September 2009: They say that single people should not purchase a house together.
You are both very young and having to make the payments on a house, can strip a person who had other dreams .. Some people think that the real estate ownership is worth the sacr... (read in full...)
I need some help sorting out this friendship...
Q. Hey I need some help sorting out this friendship...to make it work like it should be. Well we've been friends for nearly 2 years at first we were great but then things got weird. I dont quite understand but I feel im being treated very diffe...
A. 8 September 2009: It sounds as if he is either really shy with you - or he is preoccupied in his love (or friend) life.. I know you really care for him .. But you (being a beautiful, whole, complete woman) still deserves a man. A man usually takes the role of ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she want anyone to see us being affectionate in public?
Q. I have been dating a woman for over a year, she is a mom of three. Her kids are 17, 20, 25. In the beginning, she would show affection in public, in the car, anywhere with no mind to anyone, thing etc. We even got busy outside her oldest daughters ...
A. 7 September 2009: If your affection for one another is fulfilled or satisfied in an intimate setting - I would think that holding hands should be sufficient while out in public .. ... (read in full...)
I wish I was asexual.
Q. Is there any cure to help me with this disease that's called "hetrosexuality"? Can it be cured by medication or psychotherapy? This is not a joke, I hate my sexuality. During my teenage years I often thought about being castrated, to cu...
A. 7 September 2009: God made you a heterosexual man .. If you do not wish to have sex, or be with women - then don't .. But please don't play around (genetically) with the body and soul that God has blessed you with .. Busy yourself with endeavors that you have wanted ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with the crushing lonliness I feel when I'm not with my girlfriend?
Q. Hello, I am 20 year old male and have been in a relationship with another girl for about half a year. Everything is going well, and we're happy together. But... When she's not around I sometimes get really lonely. I see her around 2 or 3 ...
A. 7 September 2009: Tell her you love her and you really miss her when you are not with her.. Ask her if it is alright to call her - and when .. She may not be able to give you a response when you are telling her this .. but upon her thinking about it, she may be able ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me what he wants? (Guys opinions especially needed)
Q. Hi guys. So I really need some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and I have been distraught without him. I cut contact owever, because I read it was the best thing to do if I ever wanted to get him back. He got back in contact ...
A. 7 September 2009: Dear Anonymous; The anonymous reply was correct .. If you would wish better and more complete advice, it would be good for more information. I think that it was good for you to cut contact with him, because he broke up with you - not because ... (read in full...)
Since I found out I was pregnant he's changed...should I have an abortion so things get back to the way they were?
Q. how do i remain happy about being prego when he is so unhappy. he said that he will be okay just take time but i feel him slipping away from me. we dont talk like we use to we dont smile are snuggle. im wonder if i should kill my first child. like ...
A. 6 September 2009: You are thinking of now.. But you will come to realize that relationships come and go .. but this beloved baby that has come from God - is your child.. Yours to keep and to love forever .. The baby's heart was formed right after conception.. ... (read in full...)
Why won't he let me perform oral sex on him?
Q. hi, i am a 21 year old girl, and my boyfriend is 26 we've been dating a lot, and are active with our sexual life. we had practically every type of sexual relations, even foot fetish and everything, but what bothers me, why wont he let me give ...
A. 3 September 2009: He is telling you the truth .. He is So in love with you that he does not wish to perform the demeaning act of putting his genitals in your mouth .. I don't honestly feel that this is what God had in mind for love-making.. Obviously this man ... (read in full...)
I'm married and I've turned into an angry PMS bitch!
Q. I've been married for 13 years, and I've turned into the angry PMS bitch in the last 4 years or so. It just keeps getting worse every day. My husband just keeps getting dumber, and doing less. He will do "girl" work like wash dishes, bake coo...
A. 30 August 2009: PMS is premenstral.. Are you like this all the time? I will assume that both of you work a job outside of the home.. If you are not making love, and he continues to do the things that annoy you .. then (assuming that you work) you may want to only ... (read in full...)
We had sex and now bumping into him is very awkward!
Q. I recently and very unexpectedly had sex with a guy I had just met from the neighbourhood. I thought he was a half decent person and didn't expect much afterwards. However, I ended up getting much less. Initially it was decided that we would get ...
A. 30 August 2009: Since you have already tried to acknowledge him.. try to tune him out.. Sex or making love produces such a bond, that it is really a shame that this has happened.. Try to occupy your life with the productive things that you have always wanted to do ... (read in full...)
I love her but am no longer IN LOVE with her
Q. Hello, I am no longer in love with my common-law wife. She had a one night stand with someone early in our relationship during an agreed 10 day "break", and also slept with her ex a couple of times. (Although, I must admit, she left that ex for...
A. 30 August 2009: It sounds to me, that your relationship was never based on love .. just using .. Marriage would have created more of a bond.. It is not likely that you can clear the slate, so to speak - by picking up with a newer model.. Since the woman you are ... (read in full...)
Liking him but he has a girlfriend, do I call him? Text him?
Q. Hi.I like this actor who is a similar age to me, we are both in our twenties.I met him for the second time tonight, as i went seeing this show he was in again.He recognised me straight away and gave me a hug, it was him who held his arms out first ...
A. 30 August 2009: Maybe a phone call to him - telling him what you had planned to tell him.. Give him your number and ask him if you should text him the number in case he is occupied.. The reason why I said phone - is so you would be sure he receives your message.. ... (read in full...)
He keeps asking me what I like sexually and I don't know how to answer it!
Q. I'm dating a guy I really like, but he keeps asking a question I don't know how to answer. More than once, he has asked me what I like in bed, or what turns me on, and I really don't know. I've only slept with one guy besides the one I'm currently ...
A. 30 August 2009: Why don't you wait upon the Lord for a real man.. A man who will Love you and want to be with you and talk to you excessively .. Marry him - and the two of you will make mad Passionate love .. this man just wants to practice .. ... (read in full...)
I don't like it shaved!
Q. I am what I think is a straight male. I however, cannot get aroused over a shaved pussy. There is nothing more repulsive than to see a five oclock shadow, stubble or worse, pimples! Now that ALL women shave and as I believe, we as a society are ...
A. 30 August 2009: I guess I haven't been out there in a while.. Do all women really shave? Maybe they do it to accomodate men? It is a great idea that you have posted this to give your views as a man .. But personally I don't know that there would be any ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my dad that I'm pregnant? I don't want him to be disgusted with me
Q. Im 26 and just found out im pregnant. Its a suprise but im overjoyed. The father is a guy who I was seeing for a short while casually but im no longer with him. However I have told him and hes happy and says he will support me all the way. My next ...
A. 29 August 2009: I think this should be approached by the fact that it is actually two people: You and your precious unborn baby .. since you are not married to the father at this time.. Everything should be about You and your Baby.. I think your father should be ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't it ever worked out with someone I've dated?
Q. Theoughout all my experiences with men I always find myself in the SAMe situation. The first few weekS are great, they won't stop texting,calling and trying to spend time with me, but unfortunately after those few weeks it All stopS. They all have ...
A. 29 August 2009: I don't know much about you excepting for the few things you have told me.. The only thing that comes to my mind, is to take one step at a time .. answer their responses and Wait for them to make the next move, and take it easy ..Wait on the Lord .. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend broke up with my last night, and I have a lot of questions running through my mind. Please help!
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me last night. I am a 5th year senior and she is a senior at our college. This past summer, we spent the majority of our time together because we were living up at school working, and most of the time we didn't have any ...
A. 29 August 2009: I feel that the only important thing is that she Knows that you love her .. If you are sure that she knows, then back off and give her the space that she is asking for .. You are God's whole, special person. You may wish to spend time expanding on ... (read in full...)
Deeply in love with a married man and at an impass
Q. Almost a year ago I met this man. I was married, (unhappily) He was in the same boat. We both have kids as well. We got together. Not only did we become physical but we were actually bestfriends and talk everyday, had drinks and did stuff together. ...
A. 28 August 2009: Have been in love with a married man via emailing.. This is what I have learned: You have come from God. He created you to be a Whole Special woman .. not the glue or fulfillment for someone who is in a marriage.. If the individual did not wish ... (read in full...)
I set him free thinking he would come back, but he hasn't
Q. This is a long one. I met a guy who was still married but separated, long distance to boot, but we fell very much in love. We were together for two years, but I believed he would need to have some alone time since I was the first person he dated ...
A. 30 April 2009: I admire the fact that he is loyal to his new girl friend.. But in order for you to move on - I think you should talk to him some more.. I think you need to know if the door is good and shut. Have you asked him if he loves his girl friend? Have ... (read in full...)
I wanna have sex, but I'm just too scared. Is that normal?
Q. Eventually I wanna try to have sex but I'm still so young. I would have sex now, but I'm terrified of the condom breaking and I'm too scared to ask my mom for birth control so some of the stress of sex can rub off. I don't know how to handle th...
A. 16 February 2009: Maybe your being scared, is of God.. I waited for marriage to make love.. Then it was perfectly normal.. I Never regretted waiting .. Even though the marriage ended 22 years later. Now it has been another 23 years since the divorce, I am ... (read in full...)
Breaking free from a married man
Q. I fell in love with a married man and something happened (long story) and he disappeared without telling me. I was heartbroken, cried and went into extreme depression. I was in trying to get over him and move on and then he reappeared and explained ...
A. 7 February 2009: Hello Anonymous; I am another one.. This relationship has been an email relationship only.. Still he does get me stirred up and I do think about him upon awaking in the morning.. and all through the day I wait for word from him.. He loves his wife, ... (read in full...)
How do I get over this married man?
Q. Hi,i have been involved in a situation and would like some advice. I have been working for this company for a year now and part of my job is dealing with reps based all over the uk.There was this 1 rep in particular who i got on well with-we ...
A. 7 September 2008: Hi; I am where you are. Have been in love with a married man - who started emailing me months ago, just as a friend. And yes his emails are sweet, humorous, uplifting, etc. We are only friends - but I have fallen in love with him, and it has ... (read in full...)
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