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Why hasn't it ever worked out with someone I've dated?

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Question - (28 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Theoughout all my experiences with men I always find myself in the SAMe situation. The first few weekS are great, they won't stop texting,calling and trying to spend time with me, but unfortunately after those few weeks it All stopS. They all have said that Im the funny sexy cool girl and they haven't

met anyone else like me so what's the problem, why hasn't one of them worked out?

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A male reader, softtouchmale2003 United States +, writes (29 August 2009):

softtouchmale2003 agony auntNo one can say.

Some guys get turned off by certain things. For instance if you are completely self-absorbed and only expect them to cater to your needs and wants, then they will peter out after a few weeks.

If you are a caring and sharing type person, then you shouldn't have any problems attracting long term relationships.

Its hard to tell from your question though. Personality is generally everything, so maybe you can get some feedback from some of the guys that faded out on you so you can work on making some changes.

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A female reader, califnan United States +, writes (29 August 2009):

califnan agony auntI don't know much about you excepting for the few things you have told me.. The only thing that comes to my mind, is to take one step at a time .. answer their responses and Wait for them to make the next move, and take it easy ..Wait on the Lord .. Once I thought I was in love with an individual - turns out that I was just in love with Love .. boy did God Save me! Pray to God your wishes, He will answer you..

califnan

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

It happens, what's the saying,um "You kiss a lot of frogs before you find that prince". Sometimes it doesn't work for people because they're just not compatible. All you can really do is try and find someone who you connect with, share common interests with and it'll probably work out. It's not a problem, It's really just the way it is.

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