Is love really worth it?
Q. Is love really worth it? I always see people that are in relationships struggling and it got me thinking there are far more negatives than positives when it comes to the subject. I see in life and on here that people are always cheating or hurting ...
A. 17 August 2011: A HUGE resounding YES!!! Love is worth it!!! I've been with my 1 and only partner for five years and I'm so in love with him. We sometimes argue, but we never go to bed angry.
He is my world.
You will find the same thing one day. :-)... (read in full...)
Why do people think its okay to berate women who sleep with married men?
Q. I'm so fed up reading people taking the moral high ground on every topic, especially that of married cheats and 'home wreckers' There is so much contraversy surrounding cheating at the moment on this site and I would like to express my views as...
A. 17 August 2011: You could also ask 'why do some women think they are excempt from blame because they aren't the ones cheating?'
It all boils down to your moral compass. Most people think that having an affair is wrong as some one always gets hurt. How about look... (read in full...)
Should I get a sex partner for my fiancee?
Q. My bf is no longer attracted to me since weve had children. I gained 70 lbs with the first but nothing with the second. They are 15 months apart and our second was born 3 months ago. I have horrible stretchmarks. Worse than anyone ive ever seen. I ...
A. 15 August 2011: What about you? You like sex too. Would you then find someone else who does feel attracted to you? I bet you wouldn't, because you love your partner and want him.
He says he loves you too, and if that's true I doubt hed go for the idea anyway. Give... (read in full...)
He's dumped me again, this time by text, and I feel unwanted. How do I get over this?
Q. My ex dumped me 3 days ago... And i can not stop thinking about it. I didnt think there was anything wrong this time. He has dumped me three times previously... Each time he distances his self from me. Deletes me from facebook. Stops texting me. ...
A. 15 August 2011: YOU need to distance yourself from HIM.
Change your number, block him from your facebook and most importantly, DON'T have him back.
There are some great guys out there and you could do so much better.
Cut him out of your life and move on. He ... (read in full...)
Should I get a sex partner for my fiancee?
Q. My bf is no longer attracted to me since weve had children. I gained 70 lbs with the first but nothing with the second. They are 15 months apart and our second was born 3 months ago. I have horrible stretchmarks. Worse than anyone ive ever seen. I ...
A. 15 August 2011: Please don't get him a sex buddy!!! That will be the end of you're relationship. (He may fall in love with her, or believe you're okay with an open relationship and want to carry it on after you want it to stop).
Has he told you he finds you unat... (read in full...)
Should I just keep talking to my ex to help her? Or cut her off completely?
Q. Hi. I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago (we're not getting back together, don't suggest us to) but she's been really depressed and miserable without me. She's always been depressed, but she's even worse off without me. I'm very worried abou...
A. 14 August 2011: You need to cut her off for your sake. She seems to be moving on fine and seems to want to keep you tied to her as well. She can't have it both ways.
Tell her you need time to move on and then maybe eventually you can be friends.
Good luck,
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I don't want my fiance having strippers at his party!
Q. Tomorrow night will be my bachelorette party and my fiance will be having his bachelor party. We are having two separate parties and I would like him to come home that night. He refuses. Our mutual friend who isn't going to his told me that there ...
A. 14 August 2011: Do you trust your fiance? Trust is very important in a relationship, especially if you plan on marrying. If you don't trust him then marriage isn't a good step to take. And if you do then why worry??? Strippers don't instantly equal cheating as for ... (read in full...)
Kicked BF out of my apartment for online cheating - did I over-react?
Q. I kicked my boyfriend of 9 months out of my apartment after I found evidence he had been flirting with a girl online and even gone as far as to give her his phone number. He also invited her to come visit our town and he'd be a "tour guide". When ...
A. 14 August 2011: You were right to kick him to the curb. He obviously has no respect for you if he lied, and for the same reason it obviously wasn't innocent chat. Move on because the only way is up from him. You can do better.... (read in full...)
I don't mind him ejaculating on me, but I'd rather not be peed on
Q. Me and my boy friend like to do alternative things in the bedroom. We act out some porn scenes that seem interesting. The one that he wants to try, I'm not into much. He wants to ejaculate on my face, then urinate on me. I can handle him cumming on ...
A. 14 August 2011: I don't agree that letting your partner ejaculate on your face is degrading, a lot of girls find it just as sexy as their partners. But I do think yurine is a different matter. No matter what 'cute' name you call it, urine is the waste your body ... (read in full...)
I sometimes fantasize about kissing girls. Does this mean I am gay or bi?
Q. I've only had two boyfriends and one of them I was sexually attracted to. We had oral sex a couple of times and never went any further than that. But we broke up because I was still in love with my best guy friend, Alex. Alex has had a girlfriend ...
A. 14 August 2011: You're not gay as you feel sexually attracted to guys. You may be bi curious as you want and fantasies about girls. Or you may just find fantasising about girls a turn on but wouldn't actually do it.
Any of them are fine. The only way to find out ... (read in full...)
He helps out around the house, but it would be far more helpful if he could pay his way! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend lives with me and basically his maintenance for ex and child leaves him with no money for himself, he honestly has nothing left, I have to keep giving him cash handouts. He seems to think that he can even out the differences in ...
A. 10 August 2011: Its definately unfair for him to expect your father to pay for the wedding, that tradition is pretty much totally outdated. And technically another outdated tradition if for the man to support the household, does he want to stick to that one too?. ... (read in full...)
I feel as if my boyfriend is still playing childish games with me, while I want a grown-up relationship! I'm sick and tired of this nonsense
Q. After expressing my needs wants and desires to my boyfriend he said he wanted the same things and we made a plan to move forward...Its been over 6 moths and still no forward movement in our relationship. We made a timeline and told him th...
A. 8 August 2011: Ahh, him telling you to get a life is different, as it seems that he's the one holding you back from doing so. (Sorry for the misread. My mistake).
If it's happened so many times now that you feel like you're just going through the motions then... (read in full...)
The stuff he says when he drinks get to me
Q. Im 26 and my boyfriend of 3 years is 23. He is a great guys and we get along great. We have a house together and a life. Everything between us is 50/50. I don't really have a lot of time to hang out with friends and to be honest I have lost touch ...
A. 8 August 2011: You should definately talk to him. He is putting your relationship in jeopardy. Its highly likely he is just mouthing off to his mates and doesn't realise he's being extrenmely offensive and hurtful.
Tell him how you feel and he'll probably reas... (read in full...)
We're each other's first significant other, but he doesn't behave the way I'd like him to.
Q. Hi!! I've been dating this guy for almost 6 months, and he never invites me anywhere, we see each other almost every day in college, but when we have free time (like vacations, weekends or anything) he never asks if we could meet or somethin...
A. 8 August 2011: I think that's a great idea. I really do think he just needs a nudge in the right direction! Good luck. X ... (read in full...)
I feel as if my boyfriend is still playing childish games with me, while I want a grown-up relationship! I'm sick and tired of this nonsense
Q. After expressing my needs wants and desires to my boyfriend he said he wanted the same things and we made a plan to move forward...Its been over 6 moths and still no forward movement in our relationship. We made a timeline and told him th...
A. 7 August 2011: I don't understand why you think him leaving is emotional blackmail. You admit that you are the one throwing him out constantly.
In the last argument the second sentence out of you mouth was "Get a life" without even trying to disguss why you ... (read in full...)
We're each other's first significant other, but he doesn't behave the way I'd like him to.
Q. Hi!! I've been dating this guy for almost 6 months, and he never invites me anywhere, we see each other almost every day in college, but when we have free time (like vacations, weekends or anything) he never asks if we could meet or somethin...
A. 7 August 2011: Why don't you invite him out on a date?? He may not think you want to. Men aren't always great with hints! Take the lead!... (read in full...)
Do alot of couples have weddings for their families sake?
Q. My partner and I are starting to plan our wedding. I've never been to one before and it seems like there's so much to think about. I'd much rather elope, but his family would be devastated if we did. I just want to be married to him without going ...
A. 6 August 2011: This is YOUR day. If you want it small and intimate then speak to your fiance, explain you only want 50 to 60 people there.
This is the one day when its okay to be centre of attention! You'll love it.
And it doesn't need to be expensive! Forego a... (read in full...)
Any "happy ending" love stories?
Q. There are too many "my horrible love life is slowly killing me" posts. Anybody have any happy ending, true love, stories? Thanks! :)...
A. 6 August 2011: I was 20 and truly believed I'd never fall in love. Then at work a new guy started, the bosses son no less! We started going out with a group after work and spent hours talking about nothing and everything. Needless to say I fell completely in love ... (read in full...)
When are men going to STOP being so selfish about porn and START realizing they are destroying the woman that loves them?
Q. Some women like porn and don't mind if their bf's look at it. This does not apply to those women. This is for the rest of us, the majority. Those of us that HATE PORN and HATE HOW IT MAKES US FEEL ABOUT OURSELVES. Seriously, after all the ex...
A. 6 August 2011: I don't understand why men/ partners watching porn affects you so much. Have you never watched a film because an actor you think is gorgeous is in it? Have you never said this out loud to your partner?
Would you be willing to give up cake... (read in full...)
Virginity--when do most lose it?
Q. Hello :) well this subject is really kinda hard to explain but i will do it my best. Well first of all im 14 years old i don't go to school anymore because alot of stuff happened some months ago i wont explain ...
A. 5 August 2011: I was a month away from my 21st birthday when I lost mine to a gorgeous guy I'd been dating for months. 5 years on we're planning our wedding! Do it when you feel in your heart its right. X ... (read in full...)
Girls/women who have had sex: How much did it hurt the first time?
Q. I'm a virgin and I'm pretty worried about having sex for the first time. I definitely have a hymen that will need to break. When I use a certain kind of tampons that are too big, it hurts like holy hell trying to get them out - I've worried about ...
A. 5 August 2011: It barely hurt for me at all. But it does depend on how much foreplay etc. Make sure your really turned on and wet and if you're not use lube.... (read in full...)
My wife dresses like a teen and wants me to fantasize about teens!
Q. my wife dresses as a teen girl during sex and wants me to fantasize about teen girls is this normal as it doesnt feel right ?? ...
A. 5 August 2011: Fantasy is a fun and fulfilling way to enjoy sex. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. But if you srent comfortable then speak to your wife.... (read in full...)
Finding that special girl is so hard...how can I meet my dream girl who meets my standards?
Q. Ok, im making this question because whenever i tell someone what i want in a girl, im misundertood and generally dont get empathy with people. What i want i a girl is obviously that i like her, both physically and mentally, that she doesnt do drugs...
A. 5 August 2011: One question. If you found this one virginal, perfect women, and you thought she was the one, you had sex, and after a few months you realised it wasn't working, what then?? Would you drop that criteria? If so then her being a virgin has nothing to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has an eating disorder, please help
Q. I'm sorry if this is long, there's just a lot to explain. Please take the time to read. So my girlfriend and I are 19 yrs old and we have been together for over 2 years now. A little over three years ago she developed an eating disorder. The fi...
A. 2 August 2011: I was bulimic from the age of sixteen. When my parents noticed I begin not eating at all. Its so, so hard to change. My boyfriend has helped me through the last five years and been extremely supportive. I think you should talk to her. Sit her down ... (read in full...)
Guys, would you be put off by a 21 year old virgin?
Q. hi there! im 21 years old. i'm a university student. basically i am still a virgin and never had a boyfriend. its not that i don't get asked out. im a normal girl, love going out and having a good time. but i guess i just haven't met a guy i...
A. 31 July 2011: Most men wouldn't be put off. I was a virgin until just before my twenty first birthday when I met my first and only partner. He was 'honored' that I was confident enough to wait 'till I was ready and had found 'the one.' X... (read in full...)
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