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I have romantic feelings in a dead end situation. what should I do?

Q.   I like this guy who has two kids with his ex-girlfriend. He's told me that he's no longer with her, but they have remained friends; he also says he likes me and would like for us to be friends. The problem is that I have romantic feelings for him. ...

A.   5 June 2012: Why on earth do you think it's a dead end situation? This guy you like has already told you that the mother of his kids is his ex-girlfriend, i.e. it's finished. If you really like this guy then why don't you go for it. He broke up with his ex for ... (read in full...)

Dealing With Your Boyfriend Moving Away

Q.   Hello Everyone.. I Am Looking For Help With Me and ' My Boyfriend.. We've Been Together For 9 Right About 10 Months Now and ' He Moved Last Thursday To Oklahoma.. An I Don't Know What It Is But When He Calls Me I Always End Up Drowning In My Own ...

A.   5 June 2012: Hi, this is hard and I completely understand why you get upset about it, because you were used to having your boyfriend close to you and now he has moved to Oklahoma is seems like you will never get to see him. I was in the same situation, I live in ... (read in full...)

Does she love me? Am I just a friend?

Q.   I met a girl through a mutual friend of mine! I got in contact with her the day we met. She became attached to me, a lot.. But later i discovered she had a bf but was going through a rough relationship. His bf started to hav problems frm me becoz he ...

A.   5 June 2012: It sounds like you and this girl have a very special bond, and the fact that she can talk to you about things is a good thing. Do you have feelings for her or do you just like her as a friend? If you have feelings then why don't you ask her out on ... (read in full...)

There are times when I don't even know who my b/f is!

Q.   Were do i start? I was in s 20 year relationship with kids father. and he left me for someone else. which hurt me but a relief for me cause he was a cheating drunk. During all that i meet this someone which is 16 years younger then i and also my ...

A.   5 June 2012: It sounds like you're in a very difficult predicament. First of all, I want to say my heart goes out to you because you have clearly been through a lot in your life. You clearly love your younger boyfriend, but he is not treating you the way you ... (read in full...)

She doesn't trust me but won't show me the same courtesy that I'm supposed to extend to her

Q.   I've been dating this girl for a few months i love her but the promblem is that she dont trust me she always accuses me of having other girls besides her..for instance she would read my text messages and demand to know who send them to me which in ...

A.   3 June 2012: It sounds like this girl you are dating does not trust you. Have you done anything in the last few months to betray her trust? You need to decide whether this relationship is worth fighting for. If it is then start now by going out of your way to ... (read in full...)

I've liked him for almost 7 years and I really don't know how he feels about me even now

Q.   I've liked this guy for so long! I cannot stress how long I've liked him for, it's been roughly about 7 years. We started out as frenemies and since last year we've became really close friends. My friend decided enough was enough and she told him I ...

A.   3 June 2012: You have liked this guy for so long but you haven't really done anything about it. Why don't you ask him out to the cinema or whatever interests you both have. You do not want this to go on for another 7 years, where you see him from a distance and ... (read in full...)

Feeling worse for manipulating my cousin's feeling for me

Q.   I am 21 year old, I am respected by everyone around me because I am academically an excellent student and I am pursuing a reputed course and in a year I would be yearning almost 8-9 lacks p.a. I have a bright future ahead of me. Although I am good ...

A.   3 June 2012: Hello Syed, your story is a truly heartbreaking one. You are only 21 years old yet you seem to have been through so much in your young life. I really do feel for you and everything that you have been through. You say that you have feelings for your ... (read in full...)

How do I get my boyfriend to acknowledge me more?

Q.   It feels like my boyfriend is taking me for granted and like he doesnt really care about me or the relationship. It has always been me all over from the start who has always taking the first step and engaged us to meet. It is still that way and Im t...

A.   3 June 2012: Is your boyfriend very shy? Shyness could be one of the reasons why you are always the one who has to make the first move. Alternatively, maybe he just doesn't want to be in a relationship any more but doesn't know how to express his feelings. I ... (read in full...)

Is he interested? Or am I wasting my time?

Q.   Hey, I recently met this guy on an online dating site and I'm really interested in him, but I'm getting worried he's not that into me as he seems to take forever to respond to my texts and doesnt always reply. We havent met although we do have mut...

A.   23 May 2012: It sounds like you're more keen on him than he is on you. In my experience, when a guy really likes a girl he will respond to her texts quite quickly. Do yourself and favour and stop dwelling on this guy. There are plenty of other guys out there ... (read in full...)

Teen Angst: I Have no fantasy relationship, and haven't a boyfriend. So what should I do?

Q.   I recently found out that a guy that I had really strong feelings for was straight. First I went through the whole denial, then anger, then depression, and finally recovery. I am over him now and I can't even fantasize about him anymore, but that...

A.   23 May 2012: Nothing happens before the time is right, so just chill and the right person will come along. Remember you are still very young so you've got plenty of time. In the meantime, hang out with your friends and enjoy their company. There is nothing ... (read in full...)

FWB with my best friend. Is this going anywhere?

Q.   Hello everyone, I'm getting into a situation and i need your advice! Like so many other before me, i'm sleeping with my guy best friend. We are very close and this happened once and we said it shouldn't happen again. Long story short, we sleep ...

A.   21 May 2012: I was in exactly the same situation as you. I had a FWB for 3 years. We would sleep together from time to time but without the commitment. It sounds like this guy is happy to sleep with you but doesn't want a serious relationship. You've heard ... (read in full...)

Can't let go of my ex after being broken up for 2 months

Q.   my ex and i have been broke up for 2 months and 2 days. we have a 9 month old daughter together. a week or 2 ago he told me that he missed me he kissed me cuddled with me ect. last friday he came over to see the baby and he layed his head in my lap ...

A.   21 May 2012: Two months is not a very long time at all to get over someone, especially when that someone is the father of your child. These things take time. I can tell that you still have very strong feelings for him and he seems to have strong feelings for ... (read in full...)

How could you tell a girl is gay?

Q.   Hi there, Okay, i've been working with a client and that girl is managing that campaign. We've had one meeting and one time speaking on the phone. She's so lovely. Well i'm a girl and i consider myself straight who has dated only guys. But i do f...

A.   21 May 2012: The best way to approach this, if you're crazy about this girl, is so ask her out for a drink. However, at this stage you still don't know whether she's gay or straight, so you could say something like: 'What do you think about same-sex couples?' ... (read in full...)

Does he really care or is he messing with me?

Q.   In high school I was apart of the theatre and stage crew. I met my tech director at 16 and he was 22. Technically he's an employee of the school district and I know that nothing could have happened while I was in school. Parents, students, ...

A.   21 May 2012: It sounds like he loves you as a friend but he doesn't want to commit to a serious relationship. Sometimes guys can be caring but that doesn't meant they're in love with you, and unfortunately that's one of the biggest mistakes women make ... (read in full...)

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