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writes:Hello Everyone.. I Am Looking For Help With Me and ' My Boyfriend.. We've Been Together For 9 Right About 10 Months Now and ' He Moved Last Thursday To Oklahoma.. An I Don't Know What It Is But When He Calls Me I Always End Up Drowning In My Own Tears.. and ' I Have Those Moments Where All Those Memories Come Back An It Makes Me Feel Terrible.. Me and ' Him Do Text and ' Call Eachother But I Feel That That Is Not Going To Work Out.. Can Someone Please Give Or Help Me Out With Some Advise..
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reader, Brandy205  +, writes (5 June 2012):
Hi, this is hard and I completely understand why you get upset about it, because you were used to having your boyfriend close to you and now he has moved to Oklahoma is seems like you will never get to see him. I was in the same situation, I live in the United Kingdom and I fell in love with someone here, but then he moved to Germany. We tried to make it work and in fact we lasted for over 2 years, but in the end we decided to finish things. I think it all depends on how much you want this relationship to work. If you think this guy is the one for you then maybe you can arrange to see each other every few weeks. Maybe he can come and visit you or you can fly out to visit him. Also, do you have skype? You might find it is better if you can see each other while you are talking rather than just sending each other text messages. If you have a lot of love and determination you can make it work. Good luck.
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reader, licallion  +, writes (3 June 2012):
Hi. I hope you can stay strong and focus on what you want. It's only been a while since he's moved so you'll begin to feel better in time. Its very emotional in the beginning.
I would encourage you to socialise with friends again as you'll need them at a time like this and it will give you some support.
Lisa
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