A
male
age
30-35,
*iroud
writes:I've been dating this girl for a few months i love her but the promblem is that she dont trust me she always accuses me of having other girls besides her..for instance she would read my text messages and demand to know who send them to me which in her case she dont let me see whats in her messages,there was a time when i invited her to my place for a weekend but she never showed up but if she wants to see me she would be angry at me if i dont let her come at my place...okay for example i invited her this weekend to my place but she instead she said she is goin to stay at her male friend place saying its just a friend does she really loves me...please help me guys what shoud i do or should i just move on and forget about her?
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reader, Brandy205  +, writes (3 June 2012):
It sounds like this girl you are dating does not trust you. Have you done anything in the last few months to betray her trust? You need to decide whether this relationship is worth fighting for. If it is then start now by going out of your way to treat her like a princess and re-build any trust that has been lacking in your relationship. If you don't think the relationship can be salvaged then it's time to call it a day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2012): If you havent done anything to make her lose her trust in you, then it is inappropriate for her to keep checking your phone and accusing you of things. It might be that she has been hurt in the past by cheaters and she has lost faith in guys.
Or, she is a cheater herself and having a guilty conscience makes her worry you are behaving the same way, so she checks up on you all the time.
If she let you down and was a no show after arranging to see you and now she is staying with a male friend instead of seeing you. Then I am afraid I would be suspect that she is the latter.
I would head for the hills because either way she is being disrespectful and not treating you properly.
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