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writes:I've liked this guy for so long! I cannot stress how long I've liked him for, it's been roughly about 7 years. We started out as frenemies and since last year we've became really close friends. My friend decided enough was enough and she told him I liked him at this "fun evening" thing and then later that night on FB he told me he didn't like me, he liked this other girl in my class. So then I still liked him but he was busy liking her. Then we were at this disco and his friends told the girl he liked that he liked her and then she got freaked out. Now it's been a year since and I still like him and we both go to different schools now and we've talked way more than we used to and we're really good friends. We've met up once since then (we were meant to meet up once before that) but then after that his friend started teasing both of us saying that we shifted (it means to french kiss in Ireland) That continued for a little while and then it cooled down. My crush and I never talked about all that. Now my friend she told me that she was looking at my crush's year book with her boyfriend and her boyfriend said my crush is always talking about me but then my other friend said to the girl he either still likes or doesn't anymore that he talks about her. I'm just confused if he likes me or not. I don't want to happen to me again what happened last year :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all so much!!! X
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reader, diamondshards +, writes (3 June 2012):
When I was in HS, I liked a guy for three years, and, whilst I did talk to him in class at every chance I could, I never really made a move, nor told him how I felt about him. People would tease us, saying we were 'together', a mutual friend told me he blushed while talking about me, but still, I did nothing but wreck my brain over what he did or did not feel toward me. In the end, nothing happened, and whilst now I'm thankful for that, looking at the person he's turned out to be, sometimes I still do wonder 'what if'. What if I had had the courage to just confess my feelings for him? Chances are he'd have rejected me, but then at least I'd have known for sure and wouldn't have wasted all that time on him. I know what it's like to live in the emotional limbo of 'does he like me/does he not' and it's no fun, trying to decipher his every word, gesture and what not. Do tell him. At this point, after 7 freaking years, you have nothing to lose. Worst case scenario, he tells you he doesn't feel the same way, you'll hurt for a -good- while, but then will be able to move on, knowing you did what you could and having no regrets.
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reader, N91  +, writes (3 June 2012):
 The answer couldn't be any simpler.
'Hey 'insert name here' do you want to 'insert activity here' sometime?' - Then if he accepts, there must be SOME level of interest, then if it goes well, you do things together more often and then you FINALLY after 7 years, tell him YOURSELF that you like him, you don't need your friends to do it for you and then you will have your answer.
Seriously, why have you wasted so much time? Just tell him, how gutted would you be if you finally built up the courage, but it was too late and he'd started dating someone? So stop messing about and find out your answer!
Good luck.
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reader, Brandy205 +, writes (3 June 2012):
You have liked this guy for so long but you haven't really done anything about it. Why don't you ask him out to the cinema or whatever interests you both have. You do not want this to go on for another 7 years, where you see him from a distance and never ever do anything about it. I know there is another girl that he supposedly likes, but so far it doesn't look like anything is going to happen there, so grab your chance while you can. You have nothing to lose by asking him out and if he says no then it's his loss. Good luck.
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reader, downonmyluck  +, writes (3 June 2012):
normally I give my own opinions & advice here...but you might want to try to google(www.google.com). There you can ask a question such as, "How can i tell if my boyfriend likes me or not?" It will take you to the appropriate video. Good luck
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