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writes:Were do i start? I was in s 20 year relationship with kids father. and he left me for someone else. which hurt me but a relief for me cause he was a cheating drunk. During all that i meet this someone which is 16 years younger then i and also my eldest sons friend. l know first mistake. but i stuck with him fell in love. In these six years that I've been with him alot has happened. one main thing is that he has two personalities he can be loving caring my lover best friend. and everything is perfect. then he'll have a bad day. he'll snap a complete aswhole. its like i don't even know who he is. veryhurtful and vicious toward me. i know he loves me.but i can't even talk to him when he's like this and when were good Im afraid to talk to him about it. i don't want to make him angry all over again. what should i do? You would think me being 42 and been though hell can be brave enough to stand up to him.
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reader, Brandy205  +, writes (5 June 2012):
It sounds like you're in a very difficult predicament. First of all, I want to say my heart goes out to you because you have clearly been through a lot in your life. You clearly love your younger boyfriend, but he is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated. You didn't say what causes your boyfriend to lash out at you, is there some underlying cause or does it just come from nowhere? You need to sit him down and explain to him how his behaviour is making you feel. I understand that you're afraid to talk about this with him but the situation is never going to change until you confront it head on. Good luck.
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