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Well im 24 and from the uk, and thats all you need to know.

Well what qualifies me to help people... is reality nothing does, but im very opinionated, and that outside opinion is sometime all you need to help.

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What is this pain in my clitoris? It's sore and the surrounding area gets itchy. It's on and off.

Q.   For about 6 months now, ive had on and off pain in my clitoris. It gets really sore to touch and i cant wear tight pants because this makes the pain worse. This pain may last a couple of days and then it wont come back till weeks later, sometimes ...

A.   10 October 2008: This sounds like thrush, Have a read up about it on the internet :) If it is, its easially cureable, and symptioms die down within a couple of days from starting treatment. Good luck at your doctors appointment :)... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is 17 and I'm 21! My other relationships have been more mature, how can we overcame this difference?

Q.   I'am 21 and my girlfriend is 17. We get on really well together and her mum is fine with us seeing each other etc. The problem is i have had girlfriends before my own age and the relationships have been more mature but i sometimes forget that she is ...

A.   10 October 2008: I'm 24 at have been with my girlfriend for a while, shes only just turned 18. so was 17 when we started dating. I think your main problem is that you are thinking of your girlfriend as being young... forget about the age gap etc... and just ... (read in full...)

Teasing me or is there something more here?

Q.   I really like these 2 boys there really hot, one of them gives me mixed signals. I was in flag football n so was his little brother and he pretty much came to every game. He was always flirting with me n I was always flirting back with him, the...

A.   10 October 2008: This guy has a girlfriend and its highly possible hes still with her, and has decided not to leave her. This may be why you havent had contact since the season has ended. He may have never had an intention to leave this other girl, and just sai... (read in full...)

She's 17, I'm 21 and we're dating. How do I tell her parents?

Q.   Okay.. so heres the deal... I have been dating a girl for almost a year now. We have a 4 year age difference and its never bothered us that much. Today however we both realized that at some point her parents need to find out (I'm the older one.) ...

A.   10 October 2008: Id say she should just introduce you as her bloke etc... You have been together a year, so they must be able to see that you make there daughter happy? Im 24 and dating a 18yo, she was 17 when we got together and her parents were fine with it.... (read in full...)

I want to move on for my own sake but I don't know how to do it.

Q.   I was with this boy for 3 years and we were absolutely in love... couldn't get enough of each other, we were with each other all the time, and when we weren't together we wanted to be and talked on the phone. the only problem was that my parents are ...

A.   9 October 2008: You just need to cut all ties with him, Tell him you need to get on with your own life, and not to phone/txt you. and that if he does your going to ignore it. It may be hard at first, but Time is a good healer and you will both eventually move on ... (read in full...)

We never have foreplay and I now hate having sex with him...what should I do??

Q.   hi i`m 24 yrs old and i`ve been seeing someone for nine yrs now,my problem it`s that everytime we have sex my boyfriend would go straight inside me without making a foreplay or kissing me u know,and i dont enjoy having sex with him,i dont know if ...

A.   9 October 2008: Just be open with him, you have been together 9 years, so it must be a serious relationship, and in my opinion he won't overreact to this (maybe a little bit confisued as to why you haven't mentioned it before though). Tell him what feels good/... (read in full...)

Am I overreacting? I just don't think it is right!

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and had what i thought was a perfect relationship! but recently we've both come to the same university and he's told me he wants a break. i worked my hardest to make him want to keep me and it worked, but ive ...

A.   9 October 2008: Have you Spoken to him about this? It may just be a case of he said it once/Twice without you reacting to it, and he now thinks it dosnt bother you? IF you let him know it botheres you and he still continues to make the comments then hes not tak... (read in full...)

Did I really lead him on sending him those messages??? (Guy's point of view is appreciated)

Q.   Me and this guy we been talking, getting to know each other. He's been talking about being friends with benefits so here I am trying to get to know him before I do have sex with him and I don't plan to give it up like that. We talk on the phone ...

A.   9 October 2008: "He's been talking about being friends with benefits" IS this really what you are after? Usually in this kind of situation someone will end up getting hurt... I.E one person will develope feelings for the other (not trying to be sexist here, bu... (read in full...)

My girlfriend denies me sex. She says she's a virgin but has also been a lesbian?

Q.   My girl friend denies me of sex with her. She claims to be a virgin, only to find out she has been a lesbian. I am disappointed. What do I do?...

A.   6 October 2008: Dont preshure her into anything, if she has been a lesbian/is bisexual then whats to say she hasnt ever had sex with a man? in that respect she is still a virgin, and that not somthing most girls will give up lightly. Just show her that you care... (read in full...)

How often do women think of their previous lovers? I'm worried she will compare me to her ex'es!

Q.   I have been dating a girl and we had sex for the first time the other day but I came really quick and I don't think she was satisfied. I was a virgin before that but she had slept with other guys. I just want to know, will she be comparing me with...

A.   6 October 2008: If you come too quickly dont put too much preshure on having fully penetrative sex straight away, There's alot to be said about a long session of foreplay, im sure all the women on here will agree (by this i mean the guy giving, not receiving). ... (read in full...)

How do I stop peeing on him at night? It's embarrassing...

Q.   I'm having an odd problem. My fiance and I generally sleep in the nude. We're always very close and snuggled up, wrapped around one another. Thursday night, we were sleeping and I was having a bizarre dream that basically ended with me going to the ...

A.   6 October 2008: The first time may have been a pure accident, i rememebr having the same dream myself the last time i had an "accident" many many years ago tho. IS it possible that this second time is because its playing on your mind, and your worried about it ... (read in full...)

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