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writes:heya :D im a muture 14 y/o and iv got a boyfriend 16 y/o ..we both want sex but am i too young?hes a honest guy .. he sed hed wait if i wern`t ready but im 95% sure i want to .. (he sed hed use a condom ) what do i do?i dont wanna wait .. im ready ... what do i do ?could u please give me advice :D
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reader, Playgroundcops  +, writes (22 June 2007):
The longer you wait, the fewer regrets you'll have. You may be a mature 14 year old but you are only 14 and only have 14 years of life experience.
There are sooooo many things that you will learn in your teen years about sex and relationship that you'd be glad to wait. Look at the odds of you two staying together. Pretty bad. If you could see that a year into the future that you might not even like this guy, would you do it anyway?
The decision to have sex can be a life altering one. Pregnacy, desease, heart ache, depression, self esteem and family relationship are only a few of the things that can be affected by this decision. Don't make it lightly.
Youth is precious. Savor it and enjoy it.
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reader, bobmcbobbins +, writes (22 June 2007):
 Well to be honest your only 95%. Why are you 5% of a hundred? If you was ready you would be a 100% and you wouldn't be asking for help.The age of consent is 16 and personally I would wait a bit longer until you are positive that you both are ready. Losing your virginity is special and you must remember that. So you need to be sure he is the one you want to share that moment with.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): i think if you were ready, you wouldn't ask what to do or ask our permissions based on yr age.
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reader, burningbridges  +, writes (22 June 2007):
Use a reliable condom, and if possible go on the pill too. While I advise you wait a bit longer (16 is the average age for virginity loss) as long as you're careful you should be okay.
Just remember, sex has a lot of baggage. You could get pregnant, get a disease, and have your reputation ruined or a number of bad results. So take care of yourself and be responsible.
Aslo, check your local sex laws. In Canada the age of consent is 14, but your country might be different.
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