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My fetus is at high risk for Down Syndrome and I don't know what to do.

Q.   hi im just writing because i need some 1 to talk to im 19 years old and 20 weeks pregnant with my first child yesterday i found out that my baby is at high risk of having down syndrome i dont know what to do .. dont know if i can handle a chil...

A.   11 August 2010: Wow, it would be so hard, everyone just wishes their child is born healthy so they can have the easiest and happiest life possible. It is a lot of work, but you will love your child unconditionally. I guess just wait the week. I am curious though, ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend saw my better-endowed roommate naked, now I'm insecure. Should I be?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for 10 months. I was until recently the only guy she had seen naked. Recently my roommate came out of the bathroom nude when we were walking into the room. I'm nervous she has been thinking about him/wanting ...

A.   9 August 2010: No. She's with you and has been with you for 10 months I don't think seeing a naked dude would make her stop wanting you and want him all of a sudden and leave you for him. Don't worry.. She's with YOU. Honestly, if I saw a guy with a better body ... (read in full...)

Will losing my virginity to my bf ruin our relationship?

Q.   I'm a virgin and my boyfriend really wants to have sex. I really want to, but I'm afraid it will ruin our relationship or something like that. How do I know he is the right person to do it with? I feel like I have waited a long time and I do love ...

A.   9 August 2010: i was also a virgin and my boyfriend wasn't.. it was hard for me as well, mind you i was a little older.. (i was 19) not 16/17.. my main fear was that he would have sex with me and then just not want to be with me afterwards.. you guys should just ... (read in full...)

Any tips on how to get rid of water retention in the stomach?

Q.   Hey guys, I was hoping on getting some tips from you guys, well I've been trying to tone up for the past year, doing regular excercise and sit ups every day and eating healthy and frequently, I am of a medium build and 5'6, overall I have toned up, ...

A.   21 March 2009: what types of things are you eating? because sodium causes you to retain a lot of water. cut down on sodium foods such as chips, sandwich meats, etc.. this causes bloatedness, also, if you're chewing gum that has sorbitol in it, that could be the ... (read in full...)

Irregular periods and pregnancy.

Q.   Last year I had the contraceptive injection for 6 months, then 4 months later I had the pill for a month and then stopped because I was having periods and wanted go them back to normal, so I haven't been taking any birth control since December ...

A.   6 March 2009: Irregular periods could mean that you aren't ovulating. It's "hard" to get pregnant when you aren't ovulating. Your egg must be released and his sperm must meet with the egg. I'd say your chances are pretty low but if you really want to ease your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated on me, but I know we love each other. Please help.

Q.   Hello everyone- I really need some advice. My boyfriend of 5 months just cheated on me. I dont know what to think or how to act. I know he loves me and i love him. He is my soulmate. He admitted everything. I found the condoms in his car, and ...

A.   5 March 2009: does he have any sort of relationship with her? does he feel regretful? do you really truly think he won't do it again, do you think you can trust him? i think you should talk to him about it exclusively, you should talk to him about it a lot, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated on me, but I know we love each other. Please help.

Q.   Hello everyone- I really need some advice. My boyfriend of 5 months just cheated on me. I dont know what to think or how to act. I know he loves me and i love him. He is my soulmate. He admitted everything. I found the condoms in his car, and ...

A.   5 March 2009: wait... he was smoking? that's it? well who did he cheat on you with??... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated on me, but I know we love each other. Please help.

Q.   Hello everyone- I really need some advice. My boyfriend of 5 months just cheated on me. I dont know what to think or how to act. I know he loves me and i love him. He is my soulmate. He admitted everything. I found the condoms in his car, and ...

A.   4 March 2009: It's a lot easier to tell yourself you'd leave someone if they ever cheated on you but when you're actually going through that, it's a lot harder. You have to weigh the pros and the cons. like the before poster said, it depends on the circumstances, ... (read in full...)

Am I doing the right thing by giving her some space? Why do you think she freaked and backed off?

Q.   I've met this 18 year old girl she's quiet, pretty, cute, and shy. She's never had a boyfriend before, so she's an innocent girl. I’m 18 and I like her, she's something different and special to me, but the problem is she is a challenge. I’ve ...

A.   30 December 2008: You're doing the right thing. Innocent girls want a bit of a chase too. She might just be shy, she might be worried she's going to fall hard too. She might be worried you're a player, she might be worried you're going to break her heart. But she's ... (read in full...)

Sould I continue a relationship that is illigal and my parents wouldn't like?

Q.   Im 15 and a freshmen and my boyfriend is 18 and a sinor, and illegal for me. We arent going out really cuz we are school only has a student body of 600 students the which 30 no my parents, and im not allowed to go out with anyone cuz of church so ...

A.   30 December 2008: Stop now and don't go over to his house. That is just my opinion, of course I don't know all the details of this, but it doesn't seem like this type of relationship could work. And I really wouldn't want you to have any regrets with this guy, which ... (read in full...)

I have strong will power but around him, I just melt!

Q.   Okay well, this is my first post on this site and I really need some advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I'm going to sound like a horrible person, and I guess I am on some level, but I can't stop. Here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for...

A.   30 December 2008: This could seriously ruin your relationship. I think you should break up with your boyfriend or ignore this guy completely. Avoid him at every cost, unless your relationship isn't that important. Either that, or tell him that this has got to stop ... (read in full...)

How to end my relationship, without breaking her heart??

Q.   I have recently posted a question asking whether i should stay with my girlfriend or not. After alot of thinking i have decided to end things, my question is How do i tell her i want to end things, i love her so much and i know this will upset her ...

A.   30 December 2008: Whatever you do, do not sugarcoat it. Most would think that's what makes it easier, it's not. It makes it harder for the girl. Like Fade878 wrote, do not give her false hope. Tell her it's best for YOU and YOU feel it is not working out. Just be ... (read in full...)

Why the heck is he calling me "buddy"?!?

Q.   Ok, so I've known this guy since May of this year..met him thru an online dating site. At the time I was starting a new relationship, so I just saw it as friends. We get along just great and have so many things in common. After the break-up we went ...

A.   19 December 2008: Hm, "buddy" might just be something he says a lot, like it might just kind of slip out. Maybe you should see what would happen if you called him buddy, or pal or something like that. It might be because he only does see you as a 'buddy' but then I ... (read in full...)

I suspect my ex has cheated on me, he lives nearby, how to get over him?

Q.   I AM 16 AND i fell deeply in love with my boyfriend of six months then he dumped me and said we could be friends and we were because i still loved him an didn`t know how too deal with the situation.then i saw him with a pregnant girl walking and he ...

A.   18 December 2008: Hm, that must hurt a lot, and it seems like you are feeling betrayed. Only time heals, but try not to think about it. Try not to be alone, go out with friends, keep busy. Maybe join a club or something that will help keep your mind off of him and ... (read in full...)

Am I obsessed with this girl? And what else do you think of this?

Q.   This is going to be a long and complicated explanation...and I'm not even sure what kind of answer I'm looking for, but at least I'm getting this off my chest. But my main question is, am I obsessed with this girl? Yes, right now I'm a little ...

A.   18 December 2008: Aw that sounds really, really cute. I think you should continue to do what you're doing. I think you should try to maybe ask her out if you think you like her, especially since she's on your mind a lot. You seem like a really nice and sweet guy, and ... (read in full...)

Should I risk our friendship to tell him I like him as more than just a friend?

Q.   I have known this really great guy for about 1 1/2 yrs. I met him at work, and I guess you could say we hit it off, we talked constantly at work, even if we weren't working in the same area we still would at least stop by and talk a little. I pretty ...

A.   12 December 2008: It does sound like he's interested! I think you should give it a chance, maybe if you're too shy to tell him straight up that you like him, maybe give him some hints like he's been giving you! He did mention that he would want to be with you if he ... (read in full...)

Should I call him back or is this risky business?

Q.   So, I'm very confused. I've been interested in this guy for a while, he's in one of my classes. Anyways, last wednesday we went out on a date and it was absolutely awesome. I feel like we both had a really good time. However, at the end of the ...

A.   12 December 2008: Hmmm.. If you're really interested in him I suggest you do call him. Or even text him or something. If he does have a girlfriend, maybe they have an open relationship. And especially since this is just the beginning you're not losing much by calling ... (read in full...)

I really don't want hurt my best friend, and really don't want lose him.

Q.   Hello everyone. Sorry that this is a rather long story, but I am desperate for some outsider opinions. This summer I learned that my best friend had feelings for me since last year, but since I had a boyfriend last year he didn't think that we ha...

A.   12 December 2008: You're in a tough situation, and it seems like it's leaving you torn. Although this is a really close friend to you and you don't want to hurt him, you know that if you do see this other guy you are interested it, it's going to break your friends ... (read in full...)

Now that I've lost the weight he wants me back!

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago because I got fat. Now I've lost weight and he wants me back. I think if he loved me he would have stayed with me when I was overweight, so I'm hesitant. Should I get back with him? I love him, but am ...

A.   3 December 2008: Hell no! Shove the fact that you lost weight in his face! He doesn't deserve you especially if he broke up with your because you gained weight, what a horrible reason! You need someone who will love you, respect you and appreciate you at any weight, ... (read in full...)

Has anyone else here ever looked back on something, perhaps something similar to this and wished it could have been different?

Q.   Hi. I know there may be no point mentioning this, as it was a long time ago, but I just wanted people's opinions. I was recently thinking about a boy I used to like at school. I liked him for about two years, I was in year 10 and year 11 when I ...

A.   20 November 2008: Aw, it does sound like he had a crush on you in a little school children kind of way. I do think about what if I pursued someone who I thought had feelings for me before. When I was in grade (that's what we go by in America) 10, this guy was in ... (read in full...)

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