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writes:So, I'm very confused. I've been interested in this guy for a while, he's in one of my classes. Anyways, last wednesday we went out on a date and it was absolutely awesome. I feel like we both had a really good time. However, at the end of the date he tells me that he will call me in a few days, and he mentioned during the date and near the end that he wants to come to my house sometime. Anyways, obviously, he has not called me yet. There are a bunch of reasons that I could say maybe why he hasn't (he has his own business, drives out of town weekly, and has taken time not to respond in the past) also he does have a girlfriend... and so I don't know what his intentions are quite yet but, I feel that it's more than just a friendship. However, I think he is either testing how he likes me before he breaks up with her, or, hopefully not, he could just want to "play". Despite his having a girlfriend, I like him a lot, and if I have to settle for just a friendship thats fine, but in the meantime I'm wondering if I should call him? In the past when we were first starting to get to know each other at school its been where he would come up to me and suggest something, and then tell me to call him. So maybe he isn't quite comfortable with calling me yet? I don't know, but should I call him back or is this risky business? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jix +, writes (12 December 2008):
Jix is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey!
I gave in and called him. My number got erased off his cellphone's history! We had a good long chat on the phone, and yeah :) Thanks everyone, I appreciate the help & advice.
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reader, blawndie  +, writes (12 December 2008):
 Hmmm.. If you're really interested in him I suggest you do call him. Or even text him or something. If he does have a girlfriend, maybe they have an open relationship. And especially since this is just the beginning you're not losing much by calling him or anything. I'd just be careful because if he's doing this to his girlfriend (going out with other girls), what if one day you're his girlfriend and he does this to you? Just stay interested, let him know you are interested, but keep a slight guard up.
Hope it all works out!
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