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4 December 2009: Since Tiger Woods has now admitted to cheating it seems like everybody is doing it. So why not cheat? There are a lot of other respectable politicians and entertainment personalities who have done it and some even get caught doing it as well. So ...
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What's the worst that can happen if I don't treat my yeast infection?
Q. what's the worst that can happen if i don't treat my yeast infection?...
A. 26 August 2009: I would say that you will go insane with the irritation and itch and not feel well until you acutally treat the yeast infection. I have never met anybody who would not want to get the yeast infection cured asap to start feeling better.... (read in full...)
Wanting to "spice up" the times we make out. Any tips?
Q. So i'm wanting to spice up the kissing a bit. You know, don't want to just keep doing the same thing every time we make out. Any fun tricks or things you like to do while making out that really gets your guy going?? I'm up for about anything! ...
A. 5 August 2009: I think we need to know how old you are so we can help by telling you what might be appropriate for your age group. How old are you honey?... (read in full...)
He says the sex is still amazing, so why would he not want to see me again?
Q. I really need some advice. Have been seeing this guy casually for about 5 months. We always met up once a week to hang out and sleep together as we were friends with benefits and we both did not want a relationship. He used to text me around 3 times ...
A. 5 August 2009: I think he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings and by saying "I may regret this" it would be more acceptable to you in terms of not getting your feelings so hurt. He doesn't want to see you anymore. If he did, he would definitely say so. He ... (read in full...)
Seeing married teacher...
Q. Okay, SO I really like this old teacher of mine (graduated '08) and he likes me to. We've made out and done some touching and what not and are "planning" on more. I really really like, enough to say I love him. I *don't* think he loves me, he is ...
A. 25 February 2009: Are you serious??? Stop seeing this married man, he is totally in the wrong and so are you. What in the world are you both thinking? And on top of this he is a TEACHER??? tell me his name so I can report him please........ (read in full...)
I was raped twice, please tell me how to deal with this, I'm torn!
Q. i would like to know if i am a magnet for being raped. i was raped when i was 12 years old by two men who were good friends of my family, especially my father. when i told my stepmother what happened, she adviced me not to tell anybody, then she ...
A. 23 February 2009: You are not at fault in anyway. It was not your fault that these awful things have happened to you. It was the fault of the abusers and they are completely responsible. You are not a magnet for rape. You did not provoke this in anyway, shape or ... (read in full...)
He's thinks I've been unfaithful to him because my vagina seems stretched!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for one year, faithful the entire time. Even before we became serious, I was not with anyone else (he was). He has also spent the past few months attacking my past and telling me the most hurtful things about the ...
A. 23 February 2009: Your boyfriend doesn't trust you and that is HIS problem not yours. If he can't trust you and you have been faithful, you need to end this relationship. It will never work because he is just suspicious by nature for whatever reason. It will cause ... (read in full...)
How do I scare him-I'm NOT a doormat!
Q. in the time that i've been with my boyfriend which is nine months, he's cheated on me three times (only kissing) twice with the same girl, i've forgiven him obviously, not easily but he's still gone and done it again, he doean't think about the ...
A. 14 January 2009: This boyfriend you have is not being nice to you or fair. You should just tell him it is over. That would scare him if he really wants to be with you. If he doesn't want to be with you, it won't matter what you say. And in that case, you should ... (read in full...)
He is about to become a Dad, and has only just told me. What do I do now??
Q. I have just found out that my boyfriends ex-girlfriend is 8 and a half months pregnant with his child. My boyfriend and I have just got back together after being separated for just under a year and although I knew that during that time he had slep...
A. 13 January 2009: I understand your feeling of "numbness" when he told you of his ex being pregnant. That is a feeling that your body gives you to protect you from something very painful that is happening to you. I felt that same feeling when my husband told me of ... (read in full...)
My b/f got 20 women pregnant and never paid child support to any of them!
Q. I was round at my friend's house, and we were having a good chat, socialising and having fun and talking about what's in the news. The conversation went well until my friend said "Have you heard about this man who got TWENTY WOMEN pregnant and who's ...
A. 10 January 2009: Big hugs to you. This is not your fault at all. you should remember that most men ARE NOT this way and that you are just a good trusting person who was not lucky this time in love. That is all. It is ok to feel angry, depressed and jaded. You ... (read in full...)
How should I tell him I'm happy that he's going to be visiting?
Q. Ok here goes... I like this guy, he is really the first guy i've liked in a long time... It just started out as a little crush since he lives a few states away but travels for work, we met when he was here a year ago and have just been chatting...
A. 10 January 2009: Try this, " I am happy you are coming to visit! Maybe we can get together some evening for dinner, I would love to see you! Let me know if this is possible....."... (read in full...)
Too close for comfort now he tells me he's going onto the dating scene
Q. I am a married woman who has a close friendship with a single man at work. Our friendship did develop into a closeness where we felt comfortable discussing personal issues. We were attracted to each other and for a while there I felt a powerful ...
A. 7 January 2009: You need to understand you can only offer him friendship. Since you are married you should not feel taken aback by his wanting to date. He should want to date. And hopefully he will date single women. Are you happily married? Do you want to be ... (read in full...)
He says its not cheating when he sees a prostitute!
Q. my husband of 17 years at the time told me two years ago that he had been with a few prostitutes, he estimated about 20. We went to counseling and he went to sex addiction anonymous. This past fall I found a diary that noted two more sexual ...
A. 7 January 2009: Thanks for all your caring responses. It hurts to go through a divorce but I know that I can find a guy that won't do this to me and so that is the reason I am letting my husband go. He doesn't understand why I would want a divorce. He thinks our ... (read in full...)
My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!
Q. My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him ...
A. 7 January 2009: My husband confided in me after 17 years of marriage that he had seen prostitutes on and off for sex. He doesn't consider this cheating since it is just sex and not emotional at all. I consider it cheating and want a divorce. Is this cheating???? ... (read in full...)
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