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writes:Okay, SO I really like this old teacher of mine (graduated '08) and he likes me to. We've made out and done some touching and what not and are "planning" on more. I really really like, enough to say I love him. I *don't* think he loves me, he is married but I do love him. Should I tell him this to get our feelings out there? If he doesn't feel the same he could end it then, and it would hurt, but shouldn't I let him know? Reply to this Question
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reader, bitch +, writes (25 February 2009):
Are you serious??? Stop seeing this married man, he is totally in the wrong and so are you. What in the world are you both thinking? And on top of this he is a TEACHER??? tell me his name so I can report him please.....
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reader, cupid77 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 You are #2 in his life. You knew that he was married before you started things up with him. He is probablly not looking at leaving his wife for you. Most don't. He is just looking for a little fun on the side. I'm not trying to be mean. I'm just being realistic. If you tell him that you love him and want to be with him forever... you will probablly push him away from you. Either accept what it is and have fun with it, or get out if you will end up hurt by it. If I'm wrong and he for some reason does leave his wife and end up with you, chances are he'll cheat on you too. Being in your position is alot more fun and exciting then being the one getting cheated on. I wouldn't look at this relationship as a good future one for that reason alone. be careful so you don't end up crushed.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (25 February 2009):
 Let him know how you feel. If he was thinking this is only a fling, then he deserves to know that his actions were misleading so he has a chance to stop hurting you by leading you on.
If he really likes, or loves, you too, then you both have got a lot to talk about. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): Go for it. I don't see the point of beating around the bush if you're already involved with him that way. Whatever problems may arise afterwards is a completely different subject matter.
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